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Author:  Vandal PUA [ Thu Jan 29, 2015 11:22 pm ]
Post subject:  F-closing a Married chick, immoral or not?
So I have read mixed opinions on this forum. Before I got into PUA I thought this would be completely wrong, but now I realize that there is a reason why women cheat. So my question is is it okay to bang a married woman?

One of my profesors is really cute and has given me many IOI's but she is married. Don't get me wrong, I could be misreading this, but given how she acts around me I doubt it. She keeps on wanting me to come during office hours even though I have no questions and acts like a schoolgirl around me (yes I see the irony).

What are your thoughts?
Author:  Eddie Fews [ Fri Jan 30, 2015 12:09 am ]
Post subject:  Re: F-closing a Married chick, immoral or not?
I don't believe it in personally. I feel like theres too many other girls to bang.

And there is a REASON women cheat; but women also cleave to authority; so if you're more authoritative than her husband she will naturally cleave to you.

This could happen to anyone; so you may want to keep that in mind. I don't think you would want karma increasing the likeness that your wife (if you ever decide to marry) comes across a more authoritive guy that simply wants to bang her for pleasure. But if you don't mind.. fuck it, go for it.. Just know we all reap what we sow.
Author:  WillEdward [ Fri Jan 30, 2015 1:23 am ]
Post subject:  Re: F-closing a Married chick, immoral or not?
It's probably not worth it. I've heard horror stories from my wings who've banged married chicks, only to have their husbands give them death threats.
Author:  Vandal PUA [ Fri Jan 30, 2015 3:28 am ]
Post subject:  Re: F-closing a Married chick, immoral or not?
Eddie: It's not the fact that she was married that turns me on about it, it's the fact that she's a professor. I can't really explain it.

Will: Not worried about that aspect. The point is is that women who cheat will cheat and those who don't won't. I can't explain it well but this article does: http://kennyspuathoughts.com/2012/02/05 ... ied-women/
Author:  fudge_88 [ Fri Jan 30, 2015 6:21 am ]
Post subject:  Re: F-closing a Married chick, immoral or not?
To me it's unethical and unfair to the guy. I'm not all for that women who will will and women who won't won't type of mentality. I know it isn't true because I used to do door to door sales and most of the sales came from people who didn't want to buy in the first place.

There is something called persuasion, and with relationships and dating just being an attractive guy can persuade a woman who wouldn't cheat into catching feelings of attraction towards you. Even if you aren't trying to attract her intentionally. When you do the stuff 99% of other guys aren't doing she will mistake this for you being something special and, being curious, she will try to explore it.

Anyway, I have slept with a married woman, but I found out afterwards and I was pretty pissed about it. It's not fair to the husband who is just an average dude, and can't elicit the emotions we can because he doesn't know how to.

It's like being an adult and doing MMA against elementary school children.
Author:  Monsignor Crisanto [ Fri Jan 30, 2015 7:18 am ]
Post subject:  Re: F-closing a Married chick, immoral or not?
In some countries, fucking a married chick is illegal.

Develop an abundance mentality and bang the unmarried girls instead. They're too many to ignore. Save yourself from the potential danger involved.
Author:  PUA Cyclone [ Fri Jan 30, 2015 9:43 am ]
Post subject:  Re: F-closing a Married chick, immoral or not?
Even outside of the married aspect -- wouldn't it trespass a boundary for her, as a professor, to sleep with you, the student? Doesn't that exploit a power dynamic where she is supposed to instruct and you are supposed to obey, which is exactly why doctors shouldn't sleep with patients either?
Author:  Uzala [ Fri Jan 30, 2015 10:35 am ]
Post subject:  Re: F-closing a Married chick, immoral or not?
Thought this way: in that situation, she's the only one that decides to be faithful or not. Its not your choice. Let her decide.
Author:  fudge_88 [ Fri Jan 30, 2015 12:38 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: F-closing a Married chick, immoral or not?
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Thought this way: in that situation, she's the only one that decides to be faithful or not. Its not your choice. Let her decide.
I don't like this train of thought. It's a method to remove all responsibility from yourself through justifications.

Looking up the term sociopath:
Quote:
a person with a psychopathic personality whose behavior is antisocial, often criminal, and who lacks a sense of moral responsibility or social conscience.
Author:  TheFury [ Fri Jan 30, 2015 2:15 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: F-closing a Married chick, immoral or not?
probably not worth it .. also, you could be misreading the IOIs...
Author:  Danny55 [ Sat Jan 31, 2015 12:38 am ]
Post subject:  Re: F-closing a Married chick, immoral or not?
Dude. Stop fucking loving yourself so much. If you make a move on her she will shout rape you stupid, egotistical cunt.
Author:  Versalis [ Sun Feb 01, 2015 1:13 am ]
Post subject:  Re: F-closing a Married chick, immoral or not?
The way I look at it, every woman has a man in her life, that would be upset if he knew I was fucking her.
That man may be her father, her brother, her husband, her god, or her platonic best friend who is in love with her.

I only care about what is between me and her. What is between her and other men, does not concern me.
Author:  fudge_88 [ Sun Feb 01, 2015 9:56 am ]
Post subject:  Re: F-closing a Married chick, immoral or not?
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It is okay to take anybody's life for any reason if your are a sociopath.
That was from the same page I got that definition from.

Like "It's okay to take anybody's wife for any reason if your a pick up artist"

Comparing fucking a man's wife to fucking a girl some dude has a crush on or a man's daughter is a bit ludicrous. I mean, take away your knowledge about women and you got married. How would you feel to have some smooth player come in then bang your wife? It's just not right.
Author:  pumpington [ Sun Feb 01, 2015 1:54 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: F-closing a Married chick, immoral or not?
Moral and immoral depends on your view point of good and bad. It is really up to you to decide if you want to do that sort of thing.

Some people have a fetish for unavailable women specifically men who have abandonment/trust issues and find sexual gratification in sleeping with someone who they feel they gain power from over another man. This could be due to the underlying desire to subconsciously seek out a partner who will likely be unfaithful to them so they can live through a trauma which they fear or have a compulsion towards.

In my own opinion going for women that are taken usually just makes things more complicated then they have to be. If you take the husband into account as well, you are potentially ruining what could possibly be a family with kids.

A fairly common argument in response to this is, well if I don't cheat with her, she will cheat with someone else. This may or may not be true from the view point of that specific person but this is where the issue of morality lies. If you have no problem with being the person enabling this behavior and are not concerned with the possible ramifications that supporting that decision could lead to, then morally you can justify to yourself why it is ok.

So, TLDR version: Do what ever floats your boat, just be aware there are consequences to your actions.
Author:  Versalis [ Sun Feb 01, 2015 3:22 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: F-closing a Married chick, immoral or not?
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Comparing fucking a man's wife to fucking a girl some dude has a crush on or a man's daughter is a bit ludicrous. I mean, take away your knowledge about women and you got married. How would you feel to have some smooth player come in then bang your wife? It's just not right.
Do you realize that as you sit here, typing this from the comfort of your climate controlled room, there are literally millions of children who are malnourished, and diseased throughout the world. Children you could save? You could give money to the Red Cross, or better, get some medical training and volunteer for Doctor's Without Borders.

But you don't. Because you only care about people you know, what is in front of you. If there were some starving little child who was your next door neighbor, you'd think about the kid often, and would do whatever you could to help them. Yet, that ocean makes you barely even give a passing thought to them.

I feel the same way. They're so far from me, I don't think about it often. Because I don't see them walking around my neighborhood. I don't know their names. I don't know their faces. They are just facts that I am aware of. Their suffering is not real to me. Nor is it to you.

There is the occasional noble person who lives their life for others. I commend those people. But they are exceedingly rare. I am not one of them, and neither are you. We are both selfish and mostly care only about those people we actually know. Much like %99.9 of the rest of humanity.

Very few people can rightly climb on a moral high horse. You are not one of them.
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