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| Author: | throwawayasking4help [ Wed Jan 28, 2015 5:07 am ] |
| Post subject: | Help needed |
So I will be going out of town for two days this weekend and want to have some NSA, the hotel has a bar downstairs and well that means I can stay aslong as I want heh. I am into mature women and love women over 40. This place has some cougars so I heard, and was wondering what was a good way to break the ice. I know that making eye contact before approaching is #1, but I need some help on making small chat. I am 28 and got off a recent relationship with my GF who I dated for 2 years. I don't want to come off as creepy or in a rush or anything. Any help or advice would be awesome!!1 |
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| Author: | n2thevoid [ Wed Jan 28, 2015 6:55 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Help needed |
Trying NOT to come off as something has the uncanny ability of making you become that very thing. Look. You've attracted women in the past, you can obviously do so again. It aint rocket science. Now get out there and hunt down some cougs! |
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| Author: | CharlesFinley [ Wed Jan 28, 2015 1:52 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Help needed |
So you found a hotel with a bar out of town which you've heard has cougars? Does anyone else find that sentence odd? Girls are everywhere man. Who actually told you "go here for cougars?" That's almost ridiculous. Anyway - they're like any other girl except less bullshit. Pick them up like any other girl. IOIs, approach, ESCALATE. ESCALATE. ESCALATE. |
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| Author: | Eddie Fews [ Wed Jan 28, 2015 8:13 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Help needed |
Conversational skills are learned with time and you can only come off as creepy if you are afraid of being labeled as creepy. There are creepy guys who get laid all the time that have simply embraced their creepiness. A woman is responding to the confidence of your actions more so than she is responding to the actions themselves. My favorite opener as well as many others has always been " Hey ". It works.. You have to be rejected often usually just to build up resistance from it and lose the fear of it. Your successful approaches will increase tenfold once you lose the fear of rejection and/or being labeled as creepy. And from what I found with older women is they usually have no problem with leading the conversation if they have to. They aren't young and experienced. They know how to talk. So its usually easy transitions, because they're helping you along the way. They're a bit broken down.. They're over 40 and still single. They don't feel entitled to attention because they have a vagina anymore.. They see where that mentality has got them. Just go for it man.. you'll master with conversation bit through trail and error. |
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