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| Author: | NavyDave1988 [ Thu Jan 22, 2015 9:09 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Set up by a mate. What to do? |
My friend's GF is trying to set me up with her friend this Saturday, the four of us are going out for a few drinks. I have met her very briefly but don't really no much about her apart from she thinks i'm hot. How do I play this one out? How much interest or disinterest should I show her? I going to assume I don't need an opener. So how do I go about building attraction? One area I have noticed I need to work on is escalation. I plan to treat this as a learning exercise. Any advice welcome. |
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| Author: | JackZero [ Thu Jan 22, 2015 9:15 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Set up by a mate. What to do? |
Try having fun with her is the most important thing. These girls are already building your attraction without your help. They are both imagining couples type of things that you guys will be doing in the future. So just have fun and treat her like you've been out with her already. |
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| Author: | breedlove465 [ Thu Jan 22, 2015 9:17 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Set up by a mate. What to do? |
1. Figure out what you want. Sex. A relationship. Whatever. 2. Construct a loose game plan. She thinks your hot and wants to be set up with you, so don't over think it. Be fun, be flirty and tease her a bit. Escalate on her early and often. If your friends are hanging out with you the whole time and you can't go for the make out, set up a day two early on in the date. Have an idea in our head now of hat a day two would look like and how you would sell her on it. "Hey, this is fun, but we should get together just you and me. I love such n such on netflix, come to my place this weekend and lets have a movie marathon. Popcorn and everything". If your friends do give you alone time, go for a kiss or make out. Just don't over do the make out unless you think you can get her back to our place the same night. |
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| Author: | Eddie Fews [ Fri Jan 23, 2015 1:16 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Set up by a mate. What to do? |
Whatever happen to just going out, having a good time and being yourself? Has that advice just become too simple lol.. Honestly man, this is almost a given situation. All you have to do is do what you normally do when its just you and your guys friends. She'll have her eyes on you. You're positing about some girl that you haven't met, only heard about. Excuse me if i think thats a little lame. You have to strengthen that frame a bit. Just go in for a good time; and if theres a window for escalation escalate. Compliment her.. Show subtle interest.. You guys will have the whole night together; its not the type of situation that would lead to a lay right away. Just be cool man. Your boys GF obviously thinks you're cool enough, its why she's setting you up. So just be the guy she knows you as and you'll be fine. |
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