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Author:  goodFather [ Wed Jan 21, 2015 5:48 am ]
Post subject:  Are there people actually like this?
So having attempted to meet someone new. With every indication that when (if) we did meet, it was going to be good. And when I say good, I mean goooooooood. Ah-huh... ;)
But then there were all the excuses. First she was sick; then her family was sick; then she was sick again; then the whole family was sick at once; then it was just her mom, and she had to hold her mom's hair while sick; then she had to help people move; then there was PMS; she had to go shopping; I finally got her to admit that it was a lot of just being nervous - which I made mention I was, too; then she was just too tired; she had gotten ready for bed early, after saying we would see each other that day; she was sick with gas.....
Outside of all the excuses, she kept making the gooooooooood very front and center.
She finally made a promise on her own that we would see each other tonight. Even a cross her heart promise.
Annnnnnnnnd then there was the excuse that she has to take care of her mom and grandma and her mom can't sleep without her in the house. But with the promise that tomorrow we would see each other.
At which point I told her flat out that, with all the repeated excuses, I just couldn't believe her anymore if she broke her promise tonight.
Which got me a "Ok. I guess you can't believe me then :P :P"

Are there people that are actually like this? Or is it me that is really the asshole?
Author:  JackZero [ Wed Jan 21, 2015 5:52 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Are there people actually like this?
Um...this sounds very (cat)fishy.
Author:  hugge [ Wed Jan 21, 2015 8:50 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Are there people actually like this?
I do believe in people like that (almost feels like believing in Santa though -I've never seen either one). But it actually seems possible to me. Unhealthy relationships exist everywhere. Her mother is probably playing the role of the victim, blaming the daughter for everything and make her feel guilty if she isn't there supporting her. Whatever the reason to not meet you, ditch her. You don't want her in your life if she is like that. Trust me on that. Just imagine having such a mother in law, trying to be understanding and polite to her looser attitude. There are actually similar tendensies between my girlfriend and her mother, so I know what I'm talking about, but not quite as severe. But it's enough to be annoying.
Author:  dtrak [ Thu Jan 22, 2015 7:45 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Are there people actually like this?
Hello human, welcome to earth, here people will lie, manipulate, bullshit you, kill you, hate you, love you, not give a fuck about you, murder you and all your family, feed you, eat you for breakfast, crucify you, bury you, fuck you, and marry you.

My point, yes there is crazy people out there. Everyone is guilty of being crazy until proven innocent in my eyes.

My advice (pick up related) to handling situations like this

3 times rule.

excuse 1... okay
excuse 2... sure ill give her one more chance if it seems legit
excuse 3 - The end.

Dont waste time and energy in bullshit.
If a girl wont go out with you by the 2nd or 3rd try legit, move on.

We are PUAS for a reason.

Master the game.
Author:  Cool Hand Luke [ Fri Jan 23, 2015 3:58 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Are there people actually like this?
Alot of hot girls will act like that. They feel intitled. They can get away with alot.
Alot of men chase them.

She's shit testing you.

Here's what you do. Take it stay, in contact with her. BUT.....also play with her.
Don't text her for a day. Pull away a little bit and then come back and pursue her. Classic Push pull.
Then pull away again. Be a little random.
Author:  Dr. Spargenator [ Fri Jan 23, 2015 4:24 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Are there people actually like this?
The above poster is right. She's testing your value. You need to pull away from her a little bit. If it were me I'd start talking to her less frequently. Maybe once every few days. If she wants you she will come to you. If not then move on. No girl is worth getting upset about. You are better than that.
Author:  JackZero [ Fri Jan 23, 2015 4:36 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Are there people actually like this?
I'm still trying to figure out if OP actually has met this girl in person at any point in time.
Author:  ruhri [ Fri Jan 23, 2015 7:43 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Are there people actually like this?
Had a similar experience of this a few months back for the first time. Either she's shit testing you, or there's someone else she found who she prefers and is no longer interested in you but doesn't have the heart to say so. Just don't do what I did when that happened and come off as needy.
Author:  Eddie Fews [ Fri Jan 23, 2015 11:36 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Are there people actually like this?
When a girl wants to see you she will see you. You're being strung along and its becoming a fun game for her. She wants to see how far you will go before giving up. Just drop her dude. Completely. No matter what she says. She doesn't respect you or your time and you don't respect yourself if you're allowing this to happen.

I personally next after 1 flake.. Unless its super serious and she gives a genuine excuse and then asks how she can make it up to me. Because i think I'm more important to a girl than almost anything in her life. And because of this mentality, flaking just doesn't happen. Women pick up on it in my attitude. I don't have to say it, but they know I'm the guy that you have to do what you say you're going to do with or you won't have the privilege of getting to know me. Simple.
Author:  goodFather [ Sat Jan 24, 2015 7:44 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Are there people actually like this?
No, I've never met this chic face to face. Seen her online profile, obviously. Txt'd a lot, and talked on the phone a handful of times.
No, she's not a 10. But holy hell, she talks like she wants it bad! Haha! Now, what I'm thinking with her is, do I keep her around as a test bed, so to speak, to experiment and try out various techniques and elements of game. I mean, I gotta have something to do in between the 8s, 9s and 10s. Haha! Or, do I drop it all together and just seek out another 8+?
Author:  JackZero [ Sat Jan 24, 2015 8:54 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Are there people actually like this?
Quote:
No, I've never met this chic face to face. Seen her online profile, obviously. Txt'd a lot, and talked on the phone a handful of times.
No, she's not a 10. But holy hell, she talks like she wants it bad! Haha! Now, what I'm thinking with her is, do I keep her around as a test bed, so to speak, to experiment and try out various techniques and elements of game. I mean, I gotta have something to do in between the 8s, 9s and 10s. Haha! Or, do I drop it all together and just seek out another 8+?
I think you are being catfished.
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