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Author:  michael.taob [ Tue Jan 20, 2015 9:06 pm ]
Post subject:  Make out on a first date?
Gentlemen,

I had been in three dates with three different girls this month. The problem is that these first dates ended up in making out, which shouldn't be a problem, however all the girls kinda ignored me after the date! We obviously had a good time and I even set up the second date, but they just don't reply to my texts! I am worried about the message I have put to them, as if I they see me as a player who only wants to have sex with them and them go away. I have read a couple of material that says no kissing or making out on firsts dates if you wanna have sex with the girl. But generally i fell like if I don't kiss them, they will think I am a chode! I have another date on Saturday, and I would appreciate your opinion if I should escalate things fast or just built sexual tension but not come to the kiss close and making out.

Lots of appreciation,
Author:  Camanova [ Wed Jan 21, 2015 12:27 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Make out on a first date?
Hey Chief,

I can't see why it should be a problem, I've never left a date without at least kiss closing I feel it's almost essential. I also get replies and second dates and so forth so I'm feeling like there's something wrong on the first date. How far into the date are you closing? Are you creating enough of a connection first and building attraction? Even if you feel you are try creating and building more so she really has a good time and wants to see you again.

At the end of the date / or after you don't want her to have any buyers remorse, text her saying you hope she got home safe, thank her for an enjoyable night etc. but don't overdo it you don't want to come across as needy.
Author:  michael.taob [ Wed Jan 21, 2015 3:18 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Make out on a first date?
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Hey Chief,

I can't see why it should be a problem, I've never left a date without at least kiss closing I feel it's almost essential. I also get replies and second dates and so forth so I'm feeling like there's something wrong on the first date. How far into the date are you closing? Are you creating enough of a connection first and building attraction? Even if you feel you are try creating and building more so she really has a good time and wants to see you again.

At the end of the date / or after you don't want her to have any buyers remorse, text her saying you hope she got home safe, thank her for an enjoyable night etc. but don't overdo it you don't want to come across as needy.
Thanks for the reply, Camanova! :)

Well, they looked like very hooked up before I went for the kiss. And one didn't even stopped me from escalating, which I took as a green light, and because she was leaving soon I didn't want to do the push/pull technique. I felt the second date was secured with both of them.

The one I brought home was, unfortunately, on her period! We made out a lot and I even had got tits but nothing down there! We texted one time said that was great and shit, but when I approached her to see her again she didn't text me back.

The other one lives in another city. I went up to see her there, and our plans got shrunken down because her friend just broke up with her boyfriend and needed her! I still managed to make out with her a lot and I could see she was having a good time. But once again, after a few texts she stop responding me!

I am trying to think where I fucked up, but it is being to hard. And of course I don't wanna mess up with my next coming dates.
Author:  Camanova [ Thu Jan 29, 2015 4:10 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Make out on a first date?
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Hey Chief,

I can't see why it should be a problem, I've never left a date without at least kiss closing I feel it's almost essential. I also get replies and second dates and so forth so I'm feeling like there's something wrong on the first date. How far into the date are you closing? Are you creating enough of a connection first and building attraction? Even if you feel you are try creating and building more so she really has a good time and wants to see you again.

At the end of the date / or after you don't want her to have any buyers remorse, text her saying you hope she got home safe, thank her for an enjoyable night etc. but don't overdo it you don't want to come across as needy.
Thanks for the reply, Camanova! :)

Well, they looked like very hooked up before I went for the kiss. And one didn't even stopped me from escalating, which I took as a green light, and because she was leaving soon I didn't want to do the push/pull technique. I felt the second date was secured with both of them.

The one I brought home was, unfortunately, on her period! We made out a lot and I even had got tits but nothing down there! We texted one time said that was great and shit, but when I approached her to see her again she didn't text me back.

The other one lives in another city. I went up to see her there, and our plans got shrunken down because her friend just broke up with her boyfriend and needed her! I still managed to make out with her a lot and I could see she was having a good time. But once again, after a few texts she stop responding me!

I am trying to think where I fucked up, but it is being to hard. And of course I don't wanna mess up with my next coming dates.
Hey man

I feel if they're not replying then what they're conveying on the date might be 100% reflective of what they are feeling. They could also be getting buyers remorse. Even if you think you are build some more comfort and connection man and establish some good humor points (nicknames etc) that you can refer to when you text her so she remembers the good feelings she experienced with you.

How do you feel about your text game man? Maybe that's something to look into? look at making your texts more interesting and increasing your chances of them replying.
Author:  Hank1801 [ Thu Jan 29, 2015 11:20 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Make out on a first date?
Yeh you should definitley be going for the kiss at the very least.

If you are worried about them thinking you are a player then text them that night or the day after instead of waiting.

Other than that I'm not sure, are you waiting until the end of the night for the kiss or doing it during the date?
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