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Author:  getsome [ Tue Jan 20, 2015 11:21 am ]
Post subject:  trying to organise a meet up
Just looking to see if anyone can help me with this situation,

Matched with a girl on the dating app tinder, we did a bit of talking and i asked her for her number all good.

So the following day or two i have been texting her, not alot just a small bit she started sending me an x so i assumed her interest was there, I asked her out and she said "maybe can't promise anything ;)".

So to bring you up to date i didn't text her the following day (yesterday) an I was just on tinder today and she just unmatched me.

Little confused on how I should continue, does that mean she has lost interest because i didn't text her.
Author:  CharlesFinley [ Tue Jan 20, 2015 1:38 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: trying to organise a meet up
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So the following day or two i have been texting her, not alot just a small bit she started sending me an x so i assumed her interest was there, I asked her out and she said "maybe can't promise anything ;)".

So to bring you up to date i didn't text her the following day (yesterday) an I was just on tinder today and she just unmatched me.

Little confused on how I should continue, does that mean she has lost interest because i didn't text her.
Two mistakes:

1) There wasn't enough attraction before you asked her out.

2) That's a very, very weak way to ask her out. Have a plan... A line like "hey, you seem all right. How about we grab a drink. What day works for you?" would have been much more effective (provided you took care of #1 first).
Author:  getsome [ Tue Jan 20, 2015 2:28 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: trying to organise a meet up
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So the following day or two i have been texting her, not alot just a small bit she started sending me an x so i assumed her interest was there, I asked her out and she said "maybe can't promise anything ;)".

So to bring you up to date i didn't text her the following day (yesterday) an I was just on tinder today and she just unmatched me.

Little confused on how I should continue, does that mean she has lost interest because i didn't text her.
Two mistakes:

1) There wasn't enough attraction before you asked her out.

2) That's a very, very weak way to ask her out. Have a plan... A line like "hey, you seem all right. How about we grab a drink. What day works for you?" would have been much more effective (provided you took care of #1 first).
Yeah I see your point, but I met this girl on tinder so i am not sure how I can build up attraction through texting?
Author:  CharlesFinley [ Tue Jan 20, 2015 2:41 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: trying to organise a meet up
It's easy to build attraction through texting...

You make her laugh, you stir up emotions. You can DHV yourself if you do it properly (without making it sound like you're bragging).

Add her to Facebook, and let her see your awesome, carefully curated life.

Or - hey, call her... You can do it that way, too.
Author:  Eddie Fews [ Tue Jan 20, 2015 7:11 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: trying to organise a meet up
Why didn't you respond to her challenge? Did you just not know what to say?

Why did she have to unmatch you for you have new interest in her? Did you really like her or was your ego just hurt because she unmatched you on tinder?

Its not like you guys talked more or theres any investment from either of you. There wasn't even much trust or attraction built. I wouldn't make a big deal out of it to be honest, you're worrying about small stuff. But to each is own.
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