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Author:  deanokenny1 [ Sun Jan 18, 2015 1:13 am ]
Post subject:  POF Girl first date

Hey.

So I met a girl on pof last week and I was ment to have a date with her tomorrow but she rescheduleed as she was sick. That's fine cos I want to ensure I know exactly what to talk about and do on the date. So far I have been texting her a bit and the rapport is amazing and I have yet to meet her. But I feel I have put it top many negs even tho they are working and I even got her telling me that I'm very hot. Everything is working great but I'm not sure how to act when I meet Her? What stages should I go through? Just leave the negs and go into qualifiers and qualifying along with DHV stories and keno from the beginning? I should also add she has thrown in a few sexual IOIs and I haven't even made any yet myself. So I'm lost as to how to approach this since all the material I can find seems to be on find,attract,comfort and seduce.. I'm just not sure where I am?

Help please!

Author:  DrewDating [ Sun Jan 18, 2015 3:41 am ]
Post subject:  Re: POF Girl first date

Quote:
Hey.

So I met a girl on pof last week and I was ment to have a date with her tomorrow but she rescheduleed as she was sick. That's fine cos I want to ensure I know exactly what to talk about and do on the date. So far I have been texting her a bit and the rapport is amazing and I have yet to meet her. But I feel I have put it top many negs even tho they are working and I even got her telling me that I'm very hot. Everything is working great but I'm not sure how to act when I meet Her? What stages should I go through? Just leave the negs and go into qualifiers and qualifying along with DHV stories and keno from the beginning? I should also add she has thrown in a few sexual IOIs and I haven't even made any yet myself. So I'm lost as to how to approach this since all the material I can find seems to be on find,attract,comfort and seduce.. I'm just not sure where I am?

Help please!
good job getting this far...
i take it you are following the m3 - Mystery Method model
and this is why you shouldnt follow what that says

she likes you, dont qualify yourself to her and dont use negs, if you feel you have used too many negs than you need to start having her qualify herself to you to build more comfort.

if she is giving you sexual IOIs you need to reward it with kino but you cant do but this is over the phone

meet up with her soon, strike the iron while its hot ;)

Author:  deanokenny1 [ Sun Jan 18, 2015 10:24 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: POF Girl first date

Thanks for your reply man.

yeah i think i blew it somehow, we rearranged for this wednesday but then she started aying that she needed a break from POF and dating and canceled. she said it wasnt anything to do with me but obviously it was! lesson learned anyway and i will definitely take your advice from here on in!

Thanks
Dean

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