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Interesting topic...

So guys, I have the same problem.

I met a girl yesterday, we talked for a few minutes, she gave me a hand with some directions. And she told me that will stay in NZ for few months more. I suggested that we should keeping touch, she agreed with. She gave me her number. I sent a text to her with basic text "Hi xxxx. Was very cool meeting you... very random. I'm Saint. Rod from xyz by the way". I sent this text to make sure that she will have my number.

She answered back: "My plausure. If u need some help in NZ let me know xx".

So, what would be cool to sent to her now?

Author:	Aitch1 [ Fri Jan 16, 2015 4:12 pm ]
Post subject:	first text after daygame
anyone know a good first text to send out to every girl who gives you there number in day game?

Author:	JackZero [ Fri Jan 16, 2015 4:25 pm ]
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Quote: anyone know a good first text to send out to every girl who gives you there number in day game? What is your purpose for getting their number? Call them and set up a time to meet. Figuring out a text to send is a waste of your time and you'll probably end up saying something that will turn her off. This is especially true for day game. If you chatted her up properly, she's going to want to be in your presence again.

Author:	Versalis [ Fri Jan 16, 2015 4:54 pm ]
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If you can, try to set up a date before you even take her number. If you can't set something up specifically, tell her you two should meet up when you go out tonight/tomorrow and then ask for her number. Already have that expectation set up when you get it. Just chatting with a girl for a while and then asking for a number, is going to much, much flakier than if she's already agreed to it in front of you.

Author:	Mr. Assertive [ Fri Jan 16, 2015 7:52 pm ]
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I stop texting after while. Your priority is to get her invested enough to meet up. I realized I was over texting a few girls the other day to the point they stopped responding for a little while. I knew I had to cut it out because I felt it was forced on my part. So I just told them I will schedule a date when I get back from visiting family in NYC. And yeah, left it while they were still thinking about me.

Author:	Jay (Majik) [ Sun Jan 18, 2015 12:24 am ]
Post subject:	Re: first text after daygame
Something relevant to the reason you got her number in the first place usually works pretty well. What did she think your intentions were when you asked her for her number?

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Author:	Saint. Rod [ Sun Jan 18, 2015 6:17 am ]
Post subject:	Re: first text after daygame
Interesting topic... So guys, I have the same problem. I met a girl yesterday, we talked for a few minutes, she gave me a hand with some directions. And she told me that will stay in NZ for few months more. I suggested that we should keeping touch, she agreed with. She gave me her number. I sent a text to her with basic text "Hi xxxx. Was very cool meeting you... very random. I'm Saint. Rod from xyz by the way". I sent this text to make sure that she will have my number. She answered back: "My plausure. If u need some help in NZ let me know xx". So, what would be cool to sent to her now?

Author:	CharlesFinley [ Sun Jan 18, 2015 12:53 pm ]
Post subject:	Re: first text after daygame
I'd agree with Majikal about tying it back to your initial encounter. First text, regardless of day-game/night game, whatever-game for me is generally something along the lines of: "Hey it's X from X, now you have my number as well " Adapt it... If it's nightgame and you're both drinking... suitable would be: "Hey it's X. The guy who was just hitting on you. Now you have my number"... She isn't mistaking your interest or the reason you're texting with something like that, that's for sure. Plus it's confident. (I've used this exact one a number of times... generally successfully). With this 'now you have my number too' idea, you have to text quickly... IE: in the case of the OP, it's too late to do this now, with this particular girl. Quote: Interesting topic... So guys, I have the same problem. I met a girl yesterday, we talked for a few minutes, she gave me a hand with some directions. And she told me that will stay in NZ for few months more. I suggested that we should keeping touch, she agreed with. She gave me her number. I sent a text to her with basic text "Hi xxxx. Was very cool meeting you... very random. I'm Saint. Rod from xyz by the way". I sent this text to make sure that she will have my number. She answered back: "My plausure. If u need some help in NZ let me know xx". So, what would be cool to sent to her now? It sounds to me like she believes you may like further tourist help! I don't know that she got a romantic vibe from you... Not really enough detail here. Nothing to lose with a follow-up, though... you'll never see her again, anyway. Maybe something like: "Hey I found a really cool coffee spot/patio for a drink/whatever, and thought of you. Want to join?"

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