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Author:  Starkz [ Tue Jan 13, 2015 1:48 am ]
Post subject:  Should I escalate or give it time?

So as you all have probably figured out from my last posts... there are no hbs at my school. So this semester (I'm in college btw) there was some transfer students that came in. To my luck a hb8 came when I came back from the break. The entire school however is a giant raging sausage fest. I do realize however that a pick up artist is an exception to the rule. Anyway, she is hanging out with this one girl that is a huge bitch. But other than that bitch, she hangs out with mutual friends of mine. So this made it a whole lot easier to dhv. So what I did was take some girls to the cafeteria close to where the hb was sitting. And I ate with them. The hb noticed and after dinner I invited them all to come with me to the rec center. They agreed and followed. Once we got to the rec center there weren't enough seats for everyone. So the Hb ended up standing. However, instead of standing farther away from me, she stood fairly close. I broke the ice completely then with a simple "hey". She responded good but didn't seem overly interested. I broke the touch barrier and we shook hands earlier but at this time I felt her jacket and slightly negged her. She smiled and we kept talking. One note that i had was when we were talking, she made eye contact, and I had an urge to keep looking into her eyes even after she was done talking just to see what would happen. Well, she didn't look away for about 3 seconds. But then she had to go because her friends needed to leave too. I want to take my time because she is the hottest girl at my school...

Author:  oceanx [ Tue Jan 13, 2015 2:06 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Should I escalate or give it time?

It's a good start. It's a college game scenario so the standard 'pickup' shit doesn't apply as much. Like you said, she'll be around, no need to rush this too much. Just continue to make sure as you have been doing already that she can tell you are not interested in being one of her girlfriends.

Author:  Camanova [ Tue Jan 13, 2015 2:59 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Should I escalate or give it time?

You don't want to rush it but if she's literally all that's going you don't want to wait too long either. You've obviously got some pretty good social proof going on so that's in your favour. If you can befriend the bitch as well that will be huge, the HB8 will hopefully start wondering what's so good about you and may even get a little jealous of her friend. Ideally if you're all at a party together that would be a great to involve her with your group, before isolating and establishing some comfort and connect.

Good luck!

Author:  oceanx [ Tue Jan 13, 2015 7:24 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Should I escalate or give it time?

To the OP: meet women off campus as well.

Author:  ntg2978 [ Thu Jan 15, 2015 9:29 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Should I escalate or give it time?

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You don't want to rush it but if she's literally all that's going you don't want to wait too long either.
Totally agree with this. If she's the only hot girl at the school, get ready for competition. Just be confident and escalate so that she knows you're into her. It's ok to look at her in a confident manner, and tell her you think she's cute and then ask her about herself. If you've already got 3 secs of eye contact, I would definitely escalate, because she's into you bro. Just remind yourself when you see her, "this girl wants to fuck my brains out" and it will give you the confidence you need to act boldly with her. It's prob true too lol

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