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| Author: | dtrak [ Wed Dec 31, 2014 6:34 pm ] |
| Post subject: | The Key to Happiness and Getting Laid |
So im sure we've all experienced moments of unhappiness, and if you sit and think about it the source of the pain probably came from an external source, money, annoying boss, negative people, girls, break ups, all external shit because we want to take take take, but when will we be complete? when we get the job we want? When we get the girlfriend we want? When we get the life we want? No motherfuckers, you will only be complete this very moment, the future is a construct of the mind. Now here's the trick The trick is to gather self acceptance/inner confidence/inner courage/inner strengh/inner game Stop giving you power away and getting hurt because of it Come from the best place possible/a place of not needing anything That doesn't mean dont do anything and be a bum That means, you choose to play the game of life your way, not the way "society" wants you to play The minute you stop needing shit, everything you want will eventually fall into your lap because you're going after it without placing so much value on things, because ultimately nothing really matters in life. Now dont get discouraged and think "Damn so if nothing matters in life then wtf is it all about" no, i mean nothing matters in the sense of the importance we give things, we give things way more importance than they really need, we get hurt over things we shouldnt be getting hurt about and stress over things that really in the end dont matter. How does this translate into pick up? Well, the biggest destroyer of guys is "neediness" neediness comes from a place of not being complete with yourself, feeling like you need the girl to fill that void And is a huge turn off for women To stop being needy, cultivate a life that you are well in control of, build an abundant lifestyle, a life of options, pamper yourself, feed your body healthy stuff, feed your mind positivity, enrich, grow beyond your petty little problems, dont let anyone step over you, we are all equal, anyone who thinks is above you is caught up on their own bullshit and it'll eventually eat them up, stay on the path of self confidence, self trust, and take action towards the things you want in life from a place inside you that will never crumble, be a solid man and dont give your power to external things. Allow girls to come in and out of your life as they please, if you like a specific girl, let her be part of your life do what you have to do to keep her there but dont "Need" her there. You're fine with or without her, your life will always be great anyway. The minute you grasp that state of mind, great things will happen in your life And let me stress once again the importance of taking action Being complete with yourself doesnt mean stay there like a bum and do nothing, no, is the opposite, take lots of action, but towards doing what you love, doing things that make you say "My life is worth it" Depend only on yourself and Live the life you want You have the power Here's a great video that further explains these points https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=s6kvhqr ... g9YDyq9y8A |
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| Author: | Versalis [ Thu Jan 01, 2015 4:34 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: The Key to Happiness and Getting Laid |
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| Author: | hugge [ Thu Jan 01, 2015 6:40 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: The Key to Happiness and Getting Laid |
...and when you have everything you want, the most beautiful girlfriend ever, fucking her all the time, good job, money, everything. And when there is nothing more you want - because you have it all - and you still feel this restlessness and unsatisfaction, a bottomless pit you want to fill, but you don't know with what. What do you do then? That's where I find myself. Definitely not needy. Just restless. Need somewhere to go, something to do. But I'm already fully booked. Social events, parties, work... I can't handle it all, but I still want more. Something different, something new. I suppose it's the instincts that keep me going, pushing me forward. But they need to shut up, because there is nowere else to go. Is this when you start with meditation? |
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| Author: | dtrak [ Thu Jan 01, 2015 8:20 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: The Key to Happiness and Getting Laid |
Quote: ...and when you have everything you want, the most beautiful girlfriend ever, fucking her all the time, good job, money, everything. And when there is nothing more you want - because you have it all - and you still feel this restlessness and unsatisfaction, a bottomless pit you want to fill, but you don't know with what. What do you do then?
Congrats on the achievements dude. And it crazy how we as humans are always on the go, the brain never stops, thats incredible, even when we sleep the brain keeps on going.That's where I find myself. Definitely not needy. Just restless. Need somewhere to go, something to do. But I'm already fully booked. Social events, parties, work... I can't handle it all, but I still want more. Something different, something new. I suppose it's the instincts that keep me going, pushing me forward. But they need to shut up, because there is nowere else to go. Is this when you start with meditation? Daily Meditation is something i recommend because it brings focus and self awareness into your life and thoughts, and it slows down our crazy minds, helps us focus on the present moment which is all we really have, ever. The situation you're on simply proves that happiness is a subjective experience, happiness wont be achieved through external success, it can only be achieved internally, at least real happiness. What i would try doing if i was in your shoes, would be to reflect. Sit and think about my life, and what i really deeply want out of life. I start priorotizing what really matters, and just carving a path towards what my heart tells me to do. Try alot of diffrent things i enjoy doing until i click with something, we self development people call that "Finding your purpose in life" Now i wouldnt make it such a big deal, if you find your purpose good, if not , also good. Life is Life. We live on a small little rock in the middle of billions of stars, an asteroid could hit us any day, people die everyday also, why should you not enjoy this little time you have on this rock? Look at famous people, people that seem to have it all, money, girls, anything they want, do they look any happier than us? Na, most of the time they seem stressed or pissed off, yea sometimes they are happy, but they seem to have the same emotions as us, nothing less nothing more internally. Just alot of external gratification but that doesnt matter. On the surface level we may think "oh yea they have this , that and this" but thats irrelevant in the inner world of our feelings. Just because you achieved certain things doesnt mean you unlock new levels of emotions. Na, same emotions, same drives. What i like to stress to people, no matter how successful they are or unsuccessful is to find happiness in their day to day lives, that real happiness that comes from within. How do we do that? Simple, enjoy the small things in life. Enjoy the process of checking out your girlfriend or a beautiful girl you see on the street and talk to. Simply enjoy it. Without needing anything in return. (you can want, but never need) Enjoy the actions you take to get the things you want out of life. You know what they say? The journey is more important than the destination. Enjoy the journey of your life, and when you reach whatever destination you aimed for, enjoy that as well, you earned it. But then continue to enjoy the journey of life, the process of life, until you die.  Remember besides food, sleep and love that comes naturally if we stop forcing it, is simply part of the journey, we need nothing else, everything else is fun and games. Nothing in life is too serious like i said above, everything just is. And like i said above, thats no excuse to stop taking action, in the contrary, take alot of action, but coming from a place within, take the actions in life that you feel will make you happy. But remember, this moment is all we have, and what we do now is what will truly define us. Love your life, enjoy the process, die like a boss with a big smile on your face  The reason some of us feel unfullfilled is because we look to external things to fullfill us, and that will never work, we will never be satisfied. Look inwards, listen to your heart, do things for you. Share the love not because you want something in return, but because you love to give Give back to the world with your actions, bring forth a positive attitude to everyone around you without wanting anything in return. Simply because your happy in your own skin. Choose to play the game of life. We were all born with the power to be happy, now. And remember, no one is perfect. Just be aware whenever you're feeling unfullfilled deeply reflect about what really matters to you. To life. Fillfillment is already inside you. Internally. Just tap into it. |
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| Author: | Dragula [ Thu Jan 01, 2015 8:21 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: The Key to Happiness and Getting Laid |
Enough with the links to your youtube page bro |
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| Author: | dtrak [ Thu Jan 01, 2015 8:30 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: The Key to Happiness and Getting Laid |
Quote: Enough with the links to your youtube page bro
No one is forcing you to watch this helpful self development video bro.
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| Author: | Dragula [ Thu Jan 01, 2015 8:53 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: The Key to Happiness and Getting Laid |
Read the rules bro |
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