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Author:  Crockett's [ Sun Dec 28, 2014 10:09 pm ]
Post subject:  how to handle / dissarm this situation ?
One of the girls I'm having sex with just started talkign to me on facebook about Christmaseve and the party we attended.

She explained me an incident that happend.
Apperently before I arived some dude bought her a drink, she accepted his offer.
And each time he passed by he touched her so she told the guy that she was going outside to ditch him.
The guy responded with OK and gave her a quick kiss on the lips,
She had no idea wtf just happend.
So she decided to tell me what happend before anyone else would start some rumours ..bla bla bla
and now he is facebook texting her all the time :D

So guys,
-the fact she didn't push him away ( even though she told me the kiss only lasted half a second ) kinda worries me, is she playing me :)
- should I kick the guys ass , I'm not dating her but everyone knows she is with me :) I don't care abouit the little kiss, but the guy touching her all the time when accidentally passing by, thats just creepy.
- Should I fuck his ex girlfriend ?


And for the record, when she told me about this my reply was;

"Ye, someone already told me. I hope his kissing was better than his seduction game :D "

I've never been in a situation like this before and I want to know if I should take action or just laugh it off
I can walk away from this girl at any given point, it's just that it worries that I have no clue what to do :p

Happy Holidays !
Author:  JackZero [ Sun Dec 28, 2014 11:57 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: how to handle / dissarm this situation ?
Here's the reality... Every quality woman has a guy trying to fuck her every single day. There is nothing you can do about that. You can't confront or fight every guy that tries. Just be glad that she's fucking you and don't worry about any other guy.

You're not saying that she's in a relationship with you, so that's another reason not to confront him. If he kept doing it and she was your girlfriend, then it is her responsibility to make it clear that she is with you. If he doesn't take her saying back off seriously, and the two of you are in a relationship and it is causing her frustration, that is the only time you should confront him.

Girls reject guys all of the time. She doesn't need your help to reject him.
Author:  Dragula [ Mon Dec 29, 2014 12:16 am ]
Post subject:  Re: how to handle / dissarm this situation ?
Take him to Jerry Springer and fuck him up
Author:  DrewDating [ Mon Dec 29, 2014 1:58 am ]
Post subject:  Re: how to handle / dissarm this situation ?
Quote:
One of the girls I'm having sex with just started talkign to me on facebook about Christmaseve and the party we attended.

She explained me an incident that happend.
Apperently before I arived some dude bought her a drink, she accepted his offer.
And each time he passed by he touched her so she told the guy that she was going outside to ditch him.
The guy responded with OK and gave her a quick kiss on the lips,
She had no idea wtf just happend.
So she decided to tell me what happend before anyone else would start some rumours ..bla bla bla
and now he is facebook texting her all the time :D

So guys,
-the fact she didn't push him away ( even though she told me the kiss only lasted half a second ) kinda worries me, is she playing me :)
- should I kick the guys ass , I'm not dating her but everyone knows she is with me :) I don't care abouit the little kiss, but the guy touching her all the time when accidentally passing by, thats just creepy.
- Should I fuck his ex girlfriend ?


And for the record, when she told me about this my reply was;

"Ye, someone already told me. I hope his kissing was better than his seduction game :D "

I've never been in a situation like this before and I want to know if I should take action or just laugh it off
I can walk away from this girl at any given point, it's just that it worries that I have no clue what to do :p

Happy Holidays !
she wouldnt have told ou if she was playing you

people go in try and kiss my gfs all the time, its annoying but thats how guys are when you have a good looking gf - they are going to get hit on

she didnt have to tell you but she did because she doesnt want an trouble.

just let it slide, i use to have DJs hit on my gf all the time and i took it as a compliment
Author:  Crockett's [ Mon Dec 29, 2014 6:11 am ]
Post subject:  Re: how to handle / dissarm this situation ?
hahaha, Thanks for the replies guys !

Brought me back to reality, obviously I'm not the only one sarging out there :) hahaha
Author:  fudge_88 [ Mon Dec 29, 2014 6:30 am ]
Post subject:  Re: how to handle / dissarm this situation ?
Since she's in a club guys think she's available and will try her. She told you so you could confront the guy for her. She's putting herself in those situations man that's not your fucking problem. She gets dolled up and goes to a club where there are a bunch of drunk horny mother fuckers then runs to you to be her white night.

Hitting on is one thing, but the guy is making physical contact which crosses the line into sexual assault.

If you feel like you want her to walk around clubs and have guys know not to touch her because she's your girl then you will have to go to war. You'll need to develop some sort of rep so guys know not to fuck with your property (like go out and kill a few guys) get a crew with some killers in it to protect your shit, have her talk to bouncers when the guys come at her so the bouncers with keep them away, have her contact the police and press charges on every guy who touches her for sexual assault/harassment so that she develops a rep (fuck with her and you lose your freedom)

You could just not care and be like (You're putting yourself in a situation that creates these opportunities then you expect me to deal with it)

You could tell her you don't want the confrontations that will happen and make her not go out to clubs/bars anymore, and if she does it anyway, cut her off because she violated a boundary of yours and she's not to be trusted.

If she's out with you and a guy is harassing her pull her away from the guy, and if he continues you can tell the bartender (after building some rapport, and/or tipping very well to build your value) that the guy needs to be removed or there is going to be a fight.

You could fight every drunk guy who approaches her.

This comes with the territory while out in public with hot girls. Be careful because some cowardly mother fuckers carry knives or guns and will try and kill you after they start shit. I'd avoid the physical altercations as much as possible.
Author:  JackZero [ Mon Dec 29, 2014 6:52 am ]
Post subject:  Re: how to handle / dissarm this situation ?
Quote:
she wouldnt have told ou if she was playing you
Not necessarily true. If she were in a place and a bunch of people that know the two of them saw some guy kiss her on the lips after buying her drinks, she could try to tell him her story before someone else could tell him.

Btw OP...I believe she is trying to play you though. Should have stated that in my original response.
Author:  Crockett's [ Mon Dec 29, 2014 8:23 am ]
Post subject:  Re: how to handle / dissarm this situation ?
@jackzero

Any idea why she is playing me ? What result is she hoping for ?
Author:  JackZero [ Mon Dec 29, 2014 8:42 am ]
Post subject:  Re: how to handle / dissarm this situation ?
Quote:
@jackzero

Any idea why she is playing me ? What result is she hoping for ?
The story of him kissing her on the lips is very suspect. When a woman doesn't want to be kissed, she will back away or turn her head. She wouldn't stand there and be shocked by it.

Trying to figure out why is way too much speculation.
Author:  Crockett's [ Mon Dec 29, 2014 9:31 am ]
Post subject:  Re: how to handle / dissarm this situation ?
Quote:
Quote:
@jackzero

Any idea why she is playing me ? What result is she hoping for ?
The story of him kissing her on the lips is very suspect. When a woman doesn't want to be kissed, she will back away or turn her head. She wouldn't stand there and be shocked by it.

Trying to figure out why is way too much speculation.

Yeah, your right,would take to much effort if I start analyzing this.

Just one last question.
Should I just ignore this situation ? Because I know she will bring it up again.
Author:  fudge_88 [ Mon Dec 29, 2014 9:43 am ]
Post subject:  Re: how to handle / dissarm this situation ?
A lot of my post was sarcasm. You shouldn't go killing or fighting guys over this chick. She's trying to manipulate you. You shouldn't care about it in the least. It seems like you have a pride thing Crockett. Like you want other men to respect what you lay claim to. Ignore it, or tell her to stop accepting candy from strangers. She's been clubbing before you slept with her she should be well attuned to that world already without your help.
Author:  Crockett's [ Mon Dec 29, 2014 10:06 am ]
Post subject:  Re: how to handle / dissarm this situation ?
We weren't clubbing.
Everybody was just hanging around in the same pub on Christmasday.
Everyone knows who I am and who she is.

But anyway, funny fact that when I arrived at the pub she came over and started makign out with me...to be more specific, she was always smelling me, grabbing my hand, hugging me.... she didn't leave my side for a bit ( was annoying because she scared all my friends away)

Probably making the other dude(s) jealous, hahaha..... fuck me, so she is playing me HAHAHAHA :D

Well, the only positive aspect is that I no longer need to figure out if she is GF material or
not. Thats a 'NO'

thanks guys !! You've been really helpful !
Author:  fudge_88 [ Mon Dec 29, 2014 11:20 am ]
Post subject:  Re: how to handle / dissarm this situation ?
Clubbing barring, pubbing you know what I mean. Out where a bunch of drunk guys can hit on her. She should be adapted to that environment already and does not need your protection.
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