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Author:  Lulushu [ Tue Dec 23, 2014 12:55 pm ]
Post subject:  I'm confused about a classmate of mine...
Background story: we are both 2nd year of university, we live on adjacent floors of the same building. The conversations we have escalate pretty damn quickly(at some point in time she posted a photo of herself holding a baby cat, I commented "this motherly look suits you" at which point she replied "you'd like me to be the mother of your children, wouldn't you?"). Pretty much everyone in our class is thinking that we would be nice together(the newest member of our class called her ex-boyfriend before any of us did, and that was before they even met, and right now she is excited about us potentially getting together).
Latest story: when we went to a birthday party of a friend, when she left she started kissing everyone(like 7 other people were left)saying happy holidays. Since we live in the same building, I figured why bother, we were going to meet anyway, so I just sat back and was going to lay in bed until this was going to be all over. However literally everyone tried to convince us both to kiss goodbye, and when we eventually did(on the cheek) they were all disappointed that we didn't kiss on the lips.

Problem: she seems to be the kind of girl that could just go and get whatever guy she wants if she really wants to. I have no idea how to progress into this one. Any ideas?
Author:  Heywood Jablowme [ Tue Dec 23, 2014 4:17 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: I'm confused about a classmate of mine...
Umm seriously, ask her out, then kiss her. ON THE LIPS!
Author:  Eddie Fews [ Wed Dec 24, 2014 4:04 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: I'm confused about a classmate of mine...
Quote:

Problem: she seems to be the kind of girl that could just go and get whatever guy she wants if she really wants to. I have no idea how to progress into this one. Any ideas?
What you are saying here is that you don't think there is anything special about you and because you don't think there is anything special about you; you're not sure if you're worthy of this girl or not. Are you kidding me? Women only date men who they feel are better than them. Thats what develops the attraction and if she has the slightest bit of attraction for you its largely due to the fact that she sees you as that. Attractive women don't care about the millions of guys that are trying to date them; they care about the one special guy they like.

its sounds to me like you're not making a move nor are you being assertive enough. You're staying in the pocket, playing it safe, flirting here and there but not risking rejection by attempting to take things to the next level. Do you have her number?

And stop worrying about what the classmates think. Whether they think you're perfect for her or horrible for her YOU have to know that you could change her entire existence just by allowing her to be in your life. If you don't know that it doesn't matter what they think.

Make a move bro. A bold one.
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