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| Author: | Lafayette [ Thu Dec 18, 2014 3:49 am ] |
| Post subject: | Eye Contact |
I have problems making eye contact with people who I'm not familiar with. Ill be walking down the street with my chin up but I don't look at anybody, I keep my head straight, And when I make eye contact with a girl ill just look, and than look straight again and keep walking How can I fix this problem, any tips or something? -lafayette |
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| Author: | J.Daniels [ Thu Dec 18, 2014 5:52 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Eye Contact |
This was one of my biggest issues, it still sometimes gets me now. Infact, just yesterday I had to consciously make an effort to keep eye contact with girls until they looked away. I think the only way to fix this, is to force yourself to keep looking. It's hard at first, but eventually it just happens - you end up enjoying the fact that they looked away first, lol. |
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| Author: | yesbro [ Thu Dec 18, 2014 11:41 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Eye Contact |
Here's a challenge - make eye contact with everyone and hold it. I can guarantee they always break eye contact first...ALWAYS...I've done this hundreds of times. If anyone says "What you looking at?", just say "I thought you was someone I knew". It's a challenge Tim Ferris uses in his 4 Hour Work Week book that has stuck with me for life! |
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| Author: | KiwiPUA [ Thu Dec 18, 2014 12:03 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Eye Contact |
I am also a huge fan of Tim Ferriss! Your problem is simply that you lack self confidence. There really is no quick pill to a problem like this. I agree with yesbro and just force yourself to do it. There is no other way. Eventually it will become second nature and you will definitely develop a stronger self confidence from it. Have fun 
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| Author: | Jay (Majik) [ Thu Dec 18, 2014 7:55 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Eye Contact |
Just practice dude. And you're going to have to keep making a conscious effort to do it until its not conscious anymore. Then... you might forget about it and have to work on it again. So when you notice yourself not looking people in the eyes... work on it. If you're just scared to look people in the eyes then you need help with something else. There is a deeper issue if that's the case. |
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