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Author:  HectorH [ Mon Dec 15, 2014 9:29 am ]
Post subject:  I can't seem to figure this out!
Okay I have been studying PUA for 3 months and I'm not getting the results I want. What I want from PUA is not to get laid (although that would be a plus) but I want attention, I want females to always feel like they want to be around me and want to hang out with me. I am currently in college and I have a friend and every where we go, girls run to him give him hugs and come over to visit him and just give him attention. I ask him how does he do it and he doesn't know. I want to be a superstar to girls the problem is I don't know how.. Do you guys know how I can be more charismatic and have girls just wanting to talk to me and spend time with me. How can I be that guy that every girls just wants ?
Author:  RockstarPUA [ Mon Dec 15, 2014 10:44 am ]
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To be honest mate, you're gonna just have to plow through it. 3 months isn't a long time to get to grips with something. The way is to just keep practicing. Keep watching videos, reading the liturature, using this forum and just figure out what works for you. A lot of the pua liturature out there will be irrelevant to you but now and then you'll come accross stuff you'll want to try. And the more you do that the more you'll figure out how to let it become part of who you are. And I'm not really talking about routines or gambits but more ways of thinking and becoming congruent with your own identity. Just be patient, spend as much time as you can around people and relax. There is no quick fix in this game. Good luck!
Author:  CharlesFinley [ Mon Dec 15, 2014 1:49 pm ]
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You need to make 2 major changes (and several smaller ones) if you want to get noticed/get attention, and I'm not sure that 3 months is really enough to have made that happen. The first 3 months you're not going to be doing much but approaching and using some canned lines (or have you gone beyond that?)...

The big one to change is your looks (and I have no idea what you look like obviously) - Good looking guys are going to get attention from women, period. Even if they're idiots and can't string a sentence together... So, the first is working on your looks.

If you're a 5, you can bump yourself to a 6 or 7 by working out, getting a good haircut, taking care of your skin and getting some good clothes. A 7 can pull an 8 or a 9...

The second one is inner game/confidence: Approach and ask out as many girls as possible. Plow through the AA, and desensitize yourself to rejection. You need to give off that 'air' of not giving a fuck and knowing that you're the guy who women should want to be with.

What exactly have you done in your 3 months? If you can be specific we can try and help you better.
Author:  HectorH [ Mon Dec 15, 2014 7:12 pm ]
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What exactly have you done in your 3 months? If you can be specific we can try and help you better.
Well I have study how to read body language, I never used routines or canned material because, I love natural game. I also read the game and a bunch of body language books. I've been working on this technique were you look at a girl thinking lustful thoughts about her which causes sexual tension. People tell me I'm a nice dress all the time.
Author:  CharlesFinley [ Mon Dec 15, 2014 7:16 pm ]
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So pretty much all just theory.

Get out there and just start approaching, man. Flirt with everyone. Flirt with old people... literally everyone. You'll get a lot more comfortable and confident.

You'll get rejected a lot and make a lot of mistakes too - which is good... In-field mistakes are the best way to learn what works and what doesn't.
Author:  HectorH [ Mon Dec 15, 2014 8:42 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: I can't seem to figure this out!
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So pretty much all just theory.

Get out there and just start approaching, man. Flirt with everyone. Flirt with old people... literally everyone. You'll get a lot more comfortable and confident.

You'll get rejected a lot and make a lot of mistakes too - which is good... In-field mistakes are the best way to learn what works and what doesn't.
How do I flirt ?are their any books or articles that can teach me seductive conversation or how to flirt ?
Author:  CharlesFinley [ Tue Dec 16, 2014 1:20 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: I can't seem to figure this out!
It's just talking and being friendly... and if you're getting signs she may be into you as well, then you pick it up and make it a little "lightly" sexual. Joke, tease, smile and start escalating (kino).

I'm sure Youtube has some videos on how to flirt effectively... Though I don't know that you need a video.
Author:  Cool Hand Luke [ Tue Dec 16, 2014 1:54 pm ]
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Check out "Gamblers" videos on youtube. Full of techniques
Author:  Style981 [ Tue Dec 16, 2014 3:02 pm ]
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Get out there and just start approaching, man. Flirt with everyone. Flirt with old people... literally everyone. You'll get a lot more comfortable and confident..
U said u want attention in College. So if u wanna follow this advice then do it OUTSIDE ur college/school other wise u might get a reputation of PUA.Then it'll become very difficult for u to get gals in college. Trust me ive experienced it n still going thrugh it.
Best of luck. U seem like a serious PUA (or atleast who want to become a serious PUA) :)
Author:  oceanx [ Fri Dec 19, 2014 7:27 am ]
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While the studying helped you form a basis of understanding, you will probably learn more in your first approach than in all of the studying you have done. Get out there off campus and approach.
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