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Author:  Tändelei [ Sat Dec 06, 2014 9:49 pm ]
Post subject:  What is the worst advice in the pickup community?
What is the worst advice in the pickup community that is still being spread, in your opinion?

Quote an instance where it was spread.
Author:  Jay (Majik) [ Sat Dec 06, 2014 10:06 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: What is the worst advice in the pickup community?
That you have to "neg" girls
Author:  neo87 [ Sat Dec 06, 2014 10:28 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: What is the worst advice in the pickup community?
That looks don't matter
Author:  Tändelei [ Sat Dec 06, 2014 10:28 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: What is the worst advice in the pickup community?
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That you have to "neg" girls
Interesting. When a woman behaves badly, what do you do?
Author:  DJ_Z [ Sat Dec 06, 2014 10:45 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: What is the worst advice in the pickup community?
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That you have to "neg" girls
Interesting. When a woman behaves badly, what do you do?
And that's why its bad.

negging is not teasing, it is not sarcasm, or being an asshole or punishing her. Negs are negative compliments delivered sincerely with some aspect that is negative despite the statement as a whole being generally positive. And it's sole purpose is to trigger her to want to qualify herself and try to show you she's awesome.

Fuck, it's not even that negging is bad, it's just that people don't even know what shit means.
Author:  Melodical [ Sun Dec 07, 2014 5:25 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: What is the worst advice in the pickup community?
Negging has it's place but it seems to be used more as a "getting the rejection in first" to guys who lack confidence. "it was the neg she didn't like, that's why she rejected me, nothing about my looks or personality!"
Author:  skills360 [ Sun Dec 07, 2014 10:20 pm ]
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spam approaching...

anything gimmicky and not authentic.

looks don't matter

alpha this alpha that and amog
Author:  dtrak [ Sun Dec 07, 2014 10:35 pm ]
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Too many good companies out now adays teaching alot of good things, i dont think bad advice is really overwhelming these new times, i see alot of good advice being misunderstood by fucktards, but hey, who are we to judge?

What i do not like about the community is the failure for dudes to use their own fucking heads, stop doing exactly what someone told you, and put it together in your own fucking head ! lol

does it make fucking sense to you? DOES IT ?? :p *smack*

excuse the language fellas - im in the mood to curse

time to get me a beer ! ! ! woo hoo

*skip away*

no but seriously
Author:  Moses C. [ Mon Dec 08, 2014 6:44 am ]
Post subject:  Re: What is the worst advice in the pickup community?
Quote:
Quote:
Quote:
That you have to "neg" girls
Interesting. When a woman behaves badly, what do you do?
And that's why its bad.

negging is not teasing, it is not sarcasm, or being an asshole or punishing her. Negs are negative compliments delivered sincerely with some aspect that is negative despite the statement as a whole being generally positive. And it's sole purpose is to trigger her to want to qualify herself and try to show you she's awesome.

Fuck, it's not even that negging is bad, it's just that people don't even know what shit means.
your definition is different from other sources. Can you give examples of your perspective of meaning of neg?
Author:  RockstarPUA [ Mon Dec 08, 2014 9:02 am ]
Post subject:  Re: What is the worst advice in the pickup community?
I don't use negs as "back handed compliments". The best way i find to use negs is in a push pull way. For example being the first to break from a hug. I'll hug a girl and just as I begin to feel her pull away, I'll push her off with a playful "okay now get off me".

A neg can also just be a way of not being a yes man. A lot of guys will just agree with statement she's said even tho they disagree.

Basically you just have to treat them as you would a friend and not someone you're trying to impress. They're far better of theye not verbal. Even just turning your back on her for a moment is enough. Anyone who says you have to give a negative compliment doesn't know how women think.
Author:  RockstarPUA [ Mon Dec 08, 2014 9:02 am ]
Post subject:  Re: What is the worst advice in the pickup community?
I don't use negs as "back handed compliments". The best way i find to use negs is in a push pull way. For example being the first to break from a hug. I'll hug a girl and just as I begin to feel her pull away, I'll push her off with a playful "okay now get off me".

A neg can also just be a way of not being a yes man. A lot of guys will just agree with statement she's said even tho they disagree.

Basically you just have to treat them as you would a friend and not someone you're trying to impress. They're far better of theye not verbal. Even just turning your back on her for a moment is enough. Anyone who says you have to give a negative compliment doesn't know how women think.
Author:  RockstarPUA [ Mon Dec 08, 2014 9:17 am ]
Post subject:  Re: What is the worst advice in the pickup community?
And I also agree that some of the worst advice is "looks don't matter". I feel that advice was put out there by pua gurus trying to sell their product. Most men who get into pua do so because they are not confident with their looks. So for gurus to say "this won't work if you're ugly" is suicide. Although women are all different and an ugly guy may have some isolated success it is probably unlikely he will get consistent results regardless of how good his "game" is
Author:  Style981 [ Mon Dec 08, 2014 12:05 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: What is the worst advice in the pickup community?
I think no advice in pickup is bad or worse.

Its just about using the ryte technique at the ryte time.

If u do so, then even the neg n amoging will work.
As for looks, it might be wrong but u can still get pretty much 8s wid gud game. So this advice is bad only in a particular case (if u r talking abt 10s)
Author:  oceanx [ Mon Dec 08, 2014 12:19 pm ]
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As for looks, it might be wrong but u can still get pretty much 8s wid gud game. So this advice is bad only in a particular case (if u r talking abt 10s)
Your advice is fine in any event because your 10 may be my 6 and vice versa.
Author:  dtrak [ Mon Dec 08, 2014 7:24 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: What is the worst advice in the pickup community?
lol i remember when i sucked and i didnt know how to push pull, or actually, i was doing too much pull and no push so i thought "negs" was a push and i went out and got a bunch of girls mad as hell at me, hahaaa and thats a typical example of miss understanding advice or not knowing what to do with the information or maybe just being retarded, my normal nature

Truth is during that time i still had a fair amount of success and alot of failure but never gave up and refined it

The way too overcome all advice is by trying it yourself, and making it your own, putting your personal spin on it.

The results are = Mastery ;)
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