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Author:  alex91 [ Tue Dec 02, 2014 6:13 pm ]
Post subject:  Best way to approach ? Halp
Ok so my friend introduced me to a girl 1,5 years ago while we were on an island for holidays partying. I really fkn liked that girl, she was really beautiful, smart, fun, we had alot in common, and she even lives 15min away from my apartment im my hometown. I was getting ioi's and she and her girlfriends adored me. Anyways my friend was in love with her and he asked me to back off and I was already in an open relationship and was seeing two other girls on the island so i did. For the rest of the holidays i avoided her and every time she would join us to go out i would leave the group.

Anyways few weeks later after having left the island my mate got friendzoned, creeped her out and they never spoke again.

Now 1,5 years later i still keep thinking about her .. idk there was just something about this chick..

I am going to ask my mate to give me her number, and was wondering what would be the smartest way to approach her and what to say. help please!
Author:  breedlove465 [ Tue Dec 02, 2014 6:22 pm ]
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Ok so my friend introduced me to a girl 1,5 years ago while we were on an island for holidays partying. I really fkn liked that girl, she was really beautiful, smart, fun, we had alot in common, and she even lives 15min away from my apartment im my hometown. I was getting ioi's and she and her girlfriends adored me. Anyways my friend was in love with her and he asked me to back off and I was already in an open relationship and was seeing two other girls on the island so i did. For the rest of the holidays i avoided her and every time she would join us to go out i would leave the group.

Anyways few weeks later after having left the island my mate got friendzoned, creeped her out and they never spoke again.

Now 1,5 years later i still keep thinking about her .. idk there was just something about this chick..

I am going to ask my mate to give me her number, and was wondering what would be the smartest way to approach her and what to say. help please!
Don't do the number thing. See if she's on facebook and add her on there. Say that facebook put her on the side of the page as someone you might know and you sent her a friend request. Then ask her what she's been up to and all that good stuff. Rebuild that connection. People add each other on facebook all the time. If you call her up out of the blue she might not even remember you and she might be sitting there with her current bf or something. At least on facebook it doesn't look like you're stalking and had to get her number from a friend.
Author:  Jay (Majik) [ Tue Dec 02, 2014 6:27 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Best way to approach ? Halp
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Now 1,5 years later i still keep thinking about her ..

She's not gonna think that's creepy at all... Especially when you get her number from someone else.

She probably doesn't even remember you boss.
Author:  alex91 [ Tue Dec 02, 2014 6:32 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Best way to approach ? Halp
i already tried that man but she is nowhere to be found on fb : <
Getting her number from my friend is far from ideal but sadly the only way i could get in touch with her.

She might not remember me she might have a bf who the fk knows but in the end of the day i have nothing to lose. its a win win situation even if i fk up at least i ll move on. Thats how i see it at least
Author:  Jay (Majik) [ Tue Dec 02, 2014 6:34 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Best way to approach ? Halp
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i already tried that man but she is nowhere to be found on fb : <
Getting her number from my friend is far from ideal but sadly the only way i could get in touch with her.

She might not remember me she might have a bf who the fk knows but in the end of the day i have nothing to lose. its a win win situation even if i fk up at least i ll move on. Thats how i see it at least
It's the behavior that you've gotta cut out though man.

Hunting some girl down after a year and half just cause she smiled at you or gave you "IOIs"? You really don't see the issue with that?
Author:  Eddie Fews [ Tue Dec 02, 2014 6:36 pm ]
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If i was you I would keep it all the way real dude. Because thats jus how I operate with chicks.

The same story you just told us, tell her in a shorter more concise way.

" Hey whats up, its (name) - the guy from the island.. this is hella random I know, but here me out for a second.." and then go into your spiel.

Its never about what you say; its truly about HOW you say it. So as long as you're confident and sure of yourself you can get away with anything. I prefer to be honest, upfront, and real, but anything will work so long as its done in confidence.

Do you believe in yourself? Do you believe you're worth everything this chick has to offer and then some? If you do; you'll get her at the drop of a hat. Just reach out with certainty.
Author:  alex91 [ Tue Dec 02, 2014 6:44 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Best way to approach ? Halp
TheMajikalMethod

Its not like that man we actually spent alot of time together. i was just trying to keep the story short so i dont end up with a wall of text noone wants to read! anyways lets not get carried away and stay on topic.

Eddie.F

Thanks dood some nice info :)
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