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I don't say shit like that, it was an example off the top of my head. I don't say stuff like that and have everything screech to a halt, I'm referring to situations with specifically awkward/shy girls where it's a one sided conversation and this in turn drags me down in social vibes
Now that we've got more than a vague few words on what your problem is... okay.I got it.
Quit trying to be a pooah master. Why the fuck are you trying to get a girl who's awkward as fuck to talk anyways? Just walk away!!
Second... you're relying on other people to give you good energy. Which is exactly why you need your special opener or routine... To ensure that you get a good reaction from the girl. You then feed off her good energy and go into an upward spiral of good energy from her. You're an energy leech. Sorry dude... but people don't like leeches. Once they figure out your "game"... you're fucked. And not in a good way.
Learn how to be a good source of energy on your own and give that good vibe off to other people. If you're relying on good reactions from girls to put you into a good mood in social situations... you're going to get really frustrated and have ALOT of nights where you go home crying cause girls weren't going along with your "routine stack."
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All those phrases are just as bad as my poor example. One of the first things PUA teaches you is not to say "Hey" or "How are you" because it's boring and leads no where. THAT'S what I want to get away from. And don't talk down to me about getting a job, I have a fucking job, I don't know why you'd assume I don't
If that's the first thing you learned then you've learned something that is just going to hold you back. You think that if you say some special lines or routines... girls are going to drop their panties for you no matter what type of person you are. Here's what I'd say you REALLY need to work on:
1. Stop needing everyone to like you. It's pretty pathetic. Understandable in today's society but really pathetic when you take a step back and look at it. Just make peace with the fact that there are ALOT of people out there who do not like you.
2. Work on yourself as a man. It really doesn't matter what you say as long as the girl can feel the masculine energy and sexuality coming from you. If you want beautiful women in your life, all you've gotta do is be the man that beautiful women want. No lines. No routines. Just you. It's real and that's what girls like.
3. Quit taking shit so personally. Dude... I wasn't attacking you. I was trying to help you... Relax
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Go get a job that requires you to interact with other people in order to make money.
If you're a socially awkward guy or you don't know how to read people, go get a job where you have no other choice but to talk to people. Otherwise, you don't make any money. A sales job is what I'm getting at. Getting good with girls has nothing to do with what you say or do... It's who you are. The real you shows through no matter what you say... You can't "trick fuck" girls man. (that's what you're trying to do when you look at it from mine and a girls point of view.) They are too intuitive.