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| Author: | PPIeTr0234 [ Mon Dec 01, 2014 1:18 am ] |
| Post subject: | Girl dumped me 2 weeks ago: Wont stop initiating contact. |
K this is getting ridiculous now. Its very likely that some of you have seen me post about this girl before. She dumped me 2 Tuesdays ago on the phone impulsively. I dealt with it maturely and told her to take care. Now it seems like she wants to keep talking or get back together because she's initiating contact every week. She was planning on getting a tattoo while we were dating and I told her it was a beautiful idea. (it signifies something meaningful). We've been broken up for almost 2 weeks and she just sent me a facebook message saying " In case you wanted to see it" and send me a picture of her tattoo on her arm and wrist. I treated this girl amazing and she dumped me. Now she isn't letting us go more than a week without contacting me for one reason or another. I don't know whether to respond or not respond at all. All along I wanted her to regret her decision and I still want her to regret it. She has emotional issues I gotta be careful with how to proceed. Last she contacted I didn't respond at all. S O S H E L P |
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| Author: | Versalis [ Mon Dec 01, 2014 1:42 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Girl dumped me 2 weeks ago: Wont stop initiating contact |
I'd say it's more likely that she keeps contacting you so she doesn't feel bad about dumping you. You're still friends, and that means she didn't do anything wrong. You're not telling me anything that would indicate she's into you. If she still liked you, she'd likely be asking you to hang out(directly or indirectly) or bragging about cool stuff she's doing(trying to make you chase). She doesn't appear to be doing anything outside the realm of normal, casual friend contact. |
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| Author: | PPIeTr0234 [ Mon Dec 01, 2014 2:12 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Girl dumped me 2 weeks ago: Wont stop initiating contact |
Quote: I'd say it's more likely that she keeps contacting you so she doesn't feel bad about dumping you. You're still friends, and that means she didn't do anything wrong.
I dealt with the breakup so well on the phone that there's no way she thinks I'm suffering. I also havnt spoken to her since: another indication that I've moved on. You're not telling me anything that would indicate she's into you. If she still liked you, she'd likely be asking you to hang out(directly or indirectly) or bragging about cool stuff she's doing(trying to make you chase). She doesn't appear to be doing anything outside the realm of normal, casual friend contact. I think she's desperate for my attention. Or is maybe too shy to ask me to hang out because she fears she would look stupid and irrational to me (Seeing as she dumped me). Also, I told her I don't want to be friends on the phone when it ended. Responding is pretty much out of the question...I guess? Should I even open the message? It shows when you open it on facebook |
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| Author: | neo87 [ Mon Dec 01, 2014 2:53 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Girl dumped me 2 weeks ago: Wont stop initiating contact |
If you don't want her back, block her. Why is it so hard for ppl to click "block"? As V said, doesnt sound like she wants you back or is trying that angle. You proactively chose to walk up to her ex and ask about her. She texted you she knew about that. She got a tattoo and sent a pic. You want her back. If she regretted her decision and asked for a second chance you'd get back with her. If you want her back (not recommended) go out with a hot girl and post a pic on fb. If you want to move on, delete and block. |
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| Author: | Versalis [ Mon Dec 01, 2014 2:56 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Girl dumped me 2 weeks ago: Wont stop initiating contact |
Yeah, I would agree with Neo. If you really want to pursue this "make her regret this" angle, then you need jealousy. I don't think she's into you, but if she is, that will bring it out. In either case, I think you need to meet other women. She'll quickly fade in importance once you've got some other cute girl straddling you and wanting your cock 
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| Author: | PPIeTr0234 [ Mon Dec 01, 2014 3:23 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Girl dumped me 2 weeks ago: Wont stop initiating contact |
Quote: Yeah, I would agree with Neo. If you really want to pursue this "make her regret this" angle, then you need jealousy. I don't think she's into you, but if she is, that will bring it out.
Already fucked a girl. Was nice. I'd confidently say I'm a decent looking guy that girls pay attention to. Maybe I'm just being a insecure dick but if she isn't into me then why is she contacting me at all? A girl who is turned off from a guy and everything he has to offer wouldn't contact them once they disappear. They would find a better match and walk away. Also, I pulled some great shit when I was with her, stuff that would make any whore fall in love.In either case, I think you need to meet other women. She'll quickly fade in importance once you've got some other cute girl straddling you and wanting your cock I'm just trying to make sense of it ya know? |
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| Author: | CharlesFinley [ Mon Dec 01, 2014 1:59 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Girl dumped me 2 weeks ago: Wont stop initiating contact |
Sent you a PM... Block her, unfriend her, cut all ties. Get on Tinder immediately. Fuck another girl... Or several. Best advice I can give you. |
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| Author: | Jay (Majik) [ Tue Dec 02, 2014 5:36 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Girl dumped me 2 weeks ago: Wont stop initiating contact |
Quote: She has emotional issues
Why the fuck do you even want a girl like this in your life? 
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