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Author:  raikate1 [ Sun Nov 30, 2014 8:00 pm ]
Post subject:  Something that I never understood/stand
I'm new to the forum and the whole concept of pick up but something that I can't seem to understand is the idea of making a girl chase you. I read a couple threads on here that were talking about how girls like asshole because of them chasing rather than the guy chasing them.
So my question is, how can you make a girl chase you when you are approaching her? By approaching her doesn't that make you the chaser rather than the chasee?
If I could get some explanations or links to explanations/guides it would be greatly appreciated. Thanks.
Author:  Monsignor Crisanto [ Sun Nov 30, 2014 8:55 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Something that I never understood/stand
Push - Pull. Sending mixed signals. It's a courtship dance.

When you approach and open a girl, you non-verbally say that you like her. Give her a fun time the few moments that you're interacting with her. If she lets you escalate, escalate until the f-close. If she shows some resistance, you leave as if you didn't like her.

If you have good grooming and decent communications skills (verbal and nonverbal), she will chase.

Repeat and rinse until you're having sex with her.

You'll be surprised too that girls are really the initiators of seduction or the courtship. You just need to master the warm approach like looking out for those approach invitation cues. In a way, women always chase or start the chase in courtship.
Author:  raikate1 [ Sun Nov 30, 2014 10:10 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Something that I never understood/stand
Isn't push/pull for girls that are already attracted to you?
Author:  Versalis [ Mon Dec 01, 2014 1:36 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Something that I never understood/stand
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Isn't push/pull for girls that are already attracted to you?
Those make up about %90+ of the girls you will ever get. "Generating attraction" is a huge waste of time, that mostly ends with her going her own way. It might make sense in a village of 40 people, but makes no sense when you can just go talk to another girl who will be into you right from the start.
Author:  Jay (Majik) [ Tue Dec 02, 2014 5:46 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Something that I never understood/stand
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Isn't push/pull for girls that are already attracted to you?
You've got a cock. She's got a vagina... Attraction.

Put a man and a woman in a room together and you'll wind up eventually fucking each other.

Getting girls to chase you isn't as hard as it seems... You've just gotta have a lot of girls ;)

What came first, the chicken or the egg?

It's a mindset man. You're trying to game girls. You think you're not good enough as a man... So you need to find a way to "game them." You don't. You've gotta work on the real problem which is you're not good enough as a man. I'm not saying that in a mean way but what I'm saying is that if you work on yourself, be the best man you can possibly be, and just talk to girls that you are attracted to... you will find that more and more girls are attracted to you because YOU become more desirable as a man.

The whole game aspect is really about "gaming" yourself to become better. The real you shows through no matter what routine, technique, gimmick, neg.... whatever you use.

In order to have beautiful women in your life, you've gotta be the type of man that beautiful women would want to be with. No "pick up system" will help you.
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