I think NC is the most sucker thing that you can do.

Clearly you don't understand the feminine. Women are a tidal wave of emotion, they mean what they say one moment and then say and do something else. They are not bound to their word like we are as men and because this is true we shouldn't treat them as if they are.

If she would of called me saying that I would smiled and said " We can take a break, but we're going to be together. I love ya. Call me in a few days"

And bam, she would of instantly snapped back in line, and then I would of STILL waited a couple of days before speaking to her again.

You accepted her decision and allowed her to assume leadership by being able to make such a decision. I end the relationship, because I'm the reason it started in the first place.

But anyway, its too late for that. If you like her man, let her come back crawling; and then take her back. She won't make the same mistake again. Just make sure you don't rush into accepting her back; let her feel it and then pentrate her with your love once again. I say give it 3 days.. Your call.

Ok. First of all. My opinion is 75% of the mass is stupid and likes to be the sheep. Adding to this, women are emotional creatures witch makes them more incline to be stupid. I'm not even being mean, I love when they act emotive. When you listen to a women u dont listen to what she says... Shes not a guy... Shes not your friend... She fucking a vagina with a bigger right brain... Even if all fucking day long you hear her talk about her right brain stuff nobody cares... Even she might not.

I dont like what you answered her. If you were unhappy u would not post this, alright. Dont you fucking lie to her. Not for her not for me for you.

Second, only make promise you are sure too keep. Girls will accept a lot but dont make useless promises. Now what happen is she did emotionally brokedown and you failed on your promise! If i was her i would think fuck that stupid

So now that our elbows are in the dirt.
1- what she want does not matter. What you does. If you feel betrayed prolly you should look at yourself because you seem to do that to others very easily.
2- your dick is not a princess. You are not a princess. Put it in a nicely looking vagina and it will feel good I promise.
3- yeah u can be romantic with her again. That does not make you a sucker, it makes you a lover. You not sure how u feel about her? Go next to her and feel ur presence... Do u feel good? Do u feel like a man ? If yes the. Yes u still do love her and dont lie about it.
4- look for what YOU did to make this happen. You are the oak tree and she is the squirrel.
5- the game is over. She had sex, she had the emotional rollercoster. The pickup part is done and this is the wrong forum. There is no more games too play wherr u at. Just be yourself and if she likes it reward her in a way that pleases you
6- listen to her like a ocean, she calls you, she tweets you, she is emotional; there is something to work with

being honest i would suggest something simple find another girl a better girl or better yet several better girls,

Bingo. Find other girls. Have sex with them. If and when she comes back, turn it into a friends with benefits kinda thing. Tell her that you when you started being single you got busy with alot of things and don't have the time for anything serious. Let her know that you can only afford a bit of time here and there.

And that's only if the snatch is worth the drama. If you find other girls you may start to realize that there are sexier girls out there with less drama that are better in bed. And when you find that, this girl is really gonna want you back.

She's a fucking nutjob, man.

No offense.

She's a self-harmer and has some emotional and mental issues, clearly. I don't know if either of you know what you want, here.

Eddie is kind of right: If you wanted to stay in your self-destructive relationship, why would you just agree with her and give up on what was clearly a spontaneous, emotional decision on her part?

You've posted several times on here about this woman and this isn't the first set of problems you've had with her.

You haven't been with her long enough to be putting up with this shit, first of all... And despite the fact you think she's got a wonderful snatch, she withholds sex and doesn't initiate sex with you (girlfriend-rejects-never-initiates-sex-vt184207.html)

To each his own, though. I don't know why you'd want to be with her, but if you do, just stop giving her any attention at all... Call it a freeze out if you'd like. It'll work - may not even take that long. She's exactly the type of girl a freeze out works best on (a lunatic).

She'll bounce her emotions from ultra negative to missing the fuck out of you soon enough, and at that point you take her back and wait to do it all over again in a couple months when she goes bat shit crazy again.

You're a sucker for punishment.

Get over yourself dude. You said she self harms which means that psychologically she's in a bad place. Calling her a bitch because she ended the relationship makes you sound like a fucking, whiney asshole. You obviously weren't making her happy so the problem lies with you as well. Stop projecting all your shit onto her. Sleeping with a million other girls won't help. She dented your big ego and you need to get over that first otherwise you'll just make other girls as miserable as you fucking are.

To the other dudes on here calling her nasty names, show some fucking respect man. If you were ill would you like people saying you were a fucking nut job? Christ the immaturity on here is astounding.