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Author:  iTwitch [ Thu Nov 13, 2014 1:31 pm ]
Post subject:  Girl cant let go of the past
So I lied to this girl once she lets me know about it more than 3 times a week and she can't let it go and it's starting to piss me off is there any tips with anybody who's been through a similar situatuion?
Author:  CharlesFinley [ Thu Nov 13, 2014 1:45 pm ]
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So I lied to this girl once she lets me know about it more than 3 times a week and she can't let it go and it's starting to piss me off is there any tips with anybody who's been through a similar situatuion?

Yup, you tell you "Look, I've apologized for this, you need to drop it"

And then if she doesn't stop, you move along.

Set your boundaries.
Author:  breedlove465 [ Thu Nov 13, 2014 2:16 pm ]
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So I lied to this girl once she lets me know about it more than 3 times a week and she can't let it go and it's starting to piss me off is there any tips with anybody who's been through a similar situatuion?

Yup, you tell you "Look, I've apologized for this, you need to drop it"

And then if she doesn't stop, you move along.

Set your boundaries.
Bingo. Be a man. You fucked up, it's understandable if she's pissed a bit over it, you apologized, it's over. If I really fucked up I wait a few days before I have the talk, but if it's just a bullshit lie you could do it quickly like the next day when she starts fucking with you.

Be willing to move on. If you truly are, she will sense it, and you won't hear about this again.
Author:  iTwitch [ Thu Nov 13, 2014 5:15 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Girl cant let go of the past
Thank you guys I've messaged her
Author:  JackZero [ Thu Nov 13, 2014 5:21 pm ]
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Thank you guys I've messaged her
This is something you need to do with her face to face. Be the man and look her in the eye so that she knows that you're serious.
Author:  Eddie Fews [ Thu Nov 13, 2014 5:44 pm ]
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So I lied to this girl once she lets me know about it more than 3 times a week and she can't let it go and it's starting to piss me off is there any tips with anybody who's been through a similar situatuion?
Whats the consequence for her continuing to do so? If you're still going to stay and still going to put up with it; why would she consider stopping. She needs to know(not verbally, she just has to get the vibe) that you will have to leave her if she continues.

You don't have to tell her anything. Just take life by the balls and be willing to walk away from her if she persist.
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