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Author:  Lumberdog [ Tue Nov 11, 2014 9:07 pm ]
Post subject:  How do I get further?

So.. I started chatting to one girl from school and she seemd kinda not interested (short answers, no questions). You know we prepare for class program that we have to do, because its last year on school. This girl with another 5 girls help us with the program. Everyone from our class is in differend program and Im not with her which is sad-.-.. But then I tryed to chat again and the conversation went so well.. from the program to personal life and now she seems pretty fun.
I just dont know what should I do.. I dont really believe inmyself because im short and thin.. I am working on it but its just going slowly..

Author:  CerebralZealot [ Wed Nov 12, 2014 8:36 am ]
Post subject:  Re: How do I get further?

Start looking into just cold-approaching women more. There really isn't much to rescue on a single interaction with separate tactics or lines. I guess your best shot to make it happen is to be pleasant and ask her out to hang.

Author:  CharlesFinley [ Wed Nov 12, 2014 1:36 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: How do I get further?

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So.. I started chatting to one girl from school and she seemd kinda not interested (short answers, no questions). You know we prepare for class program that we have to do, because its last year on school. This girl with another 5 girls help us with the program. Everyone from our class is in differend program and Im not with her which is sad-.-.. But then I tryed to chat again and the conversation went so well.. from the program to personal life and now she seems pretty fun.
I just dont know what should I do.. I dont really believe inmyself because im short and thin.. I am working on it but its just going slowly..

Dude, you're already psyching yourself out - and the problem is two-fold:

1) You're lacking the confidence and the right attitude. You're awesome. She'd be lucky to date you.

2) You're worrying about ONE single girl. You need to hedge your bets here... get several going. This one single girl is significantly less important when you have several others.

Author:  enlightenmentdating [ Wed Nov 12, 2014 7:24 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: How do I get further?

I’m a strong believer in confidence and you should be too. If you don’t believe yourself, then why should anyone else?

Even if you have to be falsely confident in yourself at first, it’s much better than no confidence. Just believe in yourself and be high status. The key is to have this sort of “unshakable confidence.” No matter what she does, no matter what she says, you need to truly believe that she wants you.

And on the short and skinny note, NO GIRL GIVES A FUCK. If it really bothers you that much, start working out more. But there is nothing you can do about height, and THERES NOTHING YOU NEED TO DO ABOUT HEIGHT. Some of the ugliest, shortest, skinniest people I know are also some of the most successful with women. Women will say they prefer certain traits in guys, which they do. But what they want more than all that shit, more than anything in the world, is for a guy to be comfortable with the way he is naturally. This will overpower all the working out, weight gain products, good looks, and anything else you believe attracts women.

JUST LOVE WHO YOU FVCKING ARE. Period
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