Secondary Update: So she texted me again, most of the morning, then has flat out disappeared again. I'm getting a little tired of this
am I being weird or what here guys?
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| Author: | CBoss0602 [ Tue Nov 11, 2014 2:52 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Started off great, now losing her Help? |
Hey guys, I'm totally new to this forum and to PUA in general but I've studied a lot of the threads on here and can't find anything that's quite like my circumstance. So here goes.. Met a girl out about two weeks ago. She approached me, we talked all night, made out, and finally number closed. She texted me about an hour after she left saying how nice it was to meet me and sent me some semi nude pics (not at my request). I had to go out of town the following weekend so the following day (day 2) I set up a date for a week later. She accepted. We talked everyday via text mostly(anywhere from all day to a few hours) with a few phone calls for approximately 45 min each time. We tell each other a lot about ourselves, constantly getting good feedback, making her laugh a lot, emoticons on almost every text, etc. Night before our date(this past Thurs) I have a death in my family. Call her, explain everything, and offer to make it up to her the following Fri. She accepts but I can tell she's a little peeved off. While I'm with family she texts me all night, finally ending in her telling me she missed me and sending me full nudes (again, not at my request). Sunday, she goes to her grandmothers house, where I've already learned she gets almost no service. Not much back and forth but what is there is positive, ends with her saying we'll talk tomorrow. So yesterday, nothing. First day in two and a half weeks I don't hear from her. Send her a funny opener today, get a curt response of "I've got a migraine". Cool..tell her I hope she feels better, get ahold of me when she does. Get "Ok" back. I'm probably reading way to much into this whole thing but like I said I'm newly single after 10 years and to PUA in general. Any help with texting game or how I'm viewing this whole situation would be greatly appreciated. Thanks guys! |
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| Author: | CharlesFinley [ Tue Nov 11, 2014 3:13 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Started off great, now losing her Help? |
She's sending naked pics, man... You're probably good. Don't overthink it. She probably has a migraine. Get out with this girl ASAP though... She sounds fun - and might be crazy in bed. |
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| Author: | Eddie Fews [ Tue Nov 11, 2014 3:50 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Started off great, now losing her Help? |
Just chill out bro. Give her a little space and she'll be right by under you. Whatever you do.. Just don't contact her anymore. She will contact you again. I promise. |
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| Author: | CBoss0602 [ Tue Nov 11, 2014 4:43 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Started off great, now losing her Help? |
Thank you both for your responses. Since I my original post she has already reengaged me and sent me multiple texts. I need to learn to just trust the situation as it is and not worry so much about the outcome. Thanks again! |
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| Author: | CBoss0602 [ Wed Nov 12, 2014 3:00 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Started off great, now losing her Help? |
Secondary Update: So she texted me again, most of the morning, then has flat out disappeared again. I'm getting a little tired of this am I being weird or what here guys?
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| Author: | Eddie Fews [ Wed Nov 12, 2014 3:32 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Started off great, now losing her Help? |
Quote: Just chill out bro. Give her a little space and she'll be right by under you.
^ this remains. And it always will.
Whatever you do.. Just don't contact her anymore. She will contact you again. I promise. |
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| Author: | CBoss0602 [ Wed Nov 12, 2014 4:43 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Started off great, now losing her Help? |
Eddie, I'm going to take your word for it man...I just wish I had the confidence in waiting it out that you do. This may be stupid, but for my own piece of mind, what is it about waiting it out that works? In other words, I know she could be busy, sick, sleeping, etc but is there such a thing as waiting too long? We have a date set up for this Fri. If I don't hear anything, when would be the right time to contact her? I appreciate your advice, and thanks ahead of time |
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| Author: | Eddie Fews [ Wed Nov 12, 2014 9:05 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Started off great, now losing her Help? |
I think if a woman is interested in you to the point that you're actually going to have a successful interaction with you than you shouldn't have to chase her up and down the street because you want to go out with her. If someone is being unresponsive, it's the same as a door having a "pull" sign on it and the door is being unresponsive because whoever is trying to get through it is currently pushing it. So when would be a goodtime to finally start pushing on a door that says "pull" after you've pushed and pushed yet it didn't open? As a man who I would hope wanted to be viewed as attractive it is important that a woman feel challenged by you. If they feel like they can have you if they want you, what's the point in even trying? They already know the end result. She becomes unresponsive when you become easy. When you're giving so much of yourself away without her having given much. You're somewhere posting on the internet about her while she's laid up someone chilling. This all plays a roll in the mentality you subcommunicate to her. You have to relax dude. If you're not willing to let a girl go she won't be able to trust that you can be okay without her. And if she doesn't feel like you can be okay without her; you're being a burder because you are using her to supply you with happiness. Find some happiness else where. And she'll feel obligated to wanting to become apart of what it is YOU have going on. Much love |
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