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| Author: | tdodd [ Fri Nov 07, 2014 6:24 am ] |
| Post subject: | How to succeed when you have limited interests |
I'll try to be brief but still get my point across: Spent the last 4 years studying none stop to get into med school. Succeeded at that, and will apply in 18 months (and will get in). Unfortunately, this came at the expense of pretty much every imaginable aspect of my life.... What I'm worried about is that my lack of interests and unique experiences could make it difficult for me to be an interesting person. I'm not artsy or musical. I was EXTREMELY passionate about sports, but I now have hip dysplasia and a bad shoulder (developed 5 and 3 years ago, respectively)... The hip dysplasia is very limiting, I can't even go on hikes or long bike rides. I am very, very passionate about working on my physical therapy and recovering my health, but I feel like discussing that would devalue me i.e. make me look pathetic (maybe I am wrong?) So... I guess, to summarize, when you lose access to the passions and hobbies that define you... what can you do to be an interesting person? Do I have enough substance b/w my career goals (medical school -> sports medicine doctor) and my physical therapy goals to be interesting (assuming personality itself is good)? Or, do I have to force myself to somehow discover new interests. If the latter, then how would people suggest developing the new interests. Any good advice would be greatly appreciated. |
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| Author: | JackZero [ Fri Nov 07, 2014 6:50 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: How to succeed when you have limited interests |
I don't know where you're from, but where I'm from...any man that has the drive and intelligence to get accepted into medical school will be attractive to women. It's obvious that you have a passion for bettering yourself and your future. Present that to increase your value. As a matter of fact, that is something that you could use to make women qualify themselves to you. |
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| Author: | oceanx [ Fri Nov 07, 2014 7:22 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: How to succeed when you have limited interests |
Quote: Do I have enough substance b/w my career goals (medical school -> sports medicine doctor) and my physical therapy goals to be interesting (assuming personality itself is good)?
Yes, plus I have a feeling you are a man of substance.The woman wants to feel your energy. If you are passionate about watching blades of grass grow and explain it in a way that captures a girl's imagination, she will swoon. |
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| Author: | Eddie Fews [ Fri Nov 07, 2014 4:56 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: How to succeed when you have limited interests |
A woman is never judging a man based off what he has or what he can due. She is judging a man based on what HE FEELS about what he does and what he can do. She is looking for you to determine how she should feel about you. If you hate your job, your experiences, and physical condition she will hate them as well. If you love them, she loves them. A woman wants to be your reflection. I know some over weight guys without much money that are still consistently getting laid. I was one of them. The trick was, i just didn't give two shits. I loved myself and felt like I was deserving of any woman on this planet with the little that I had. I'm actually getting laid a lot less since I've gotten into shape and started making more money because I just don't have the time to run after and deal with chicks like I used to. So you don't have to do anything but LOVE YOURSELF and learn to be thankful and grateful for what you do have. There are plenty of guys with a lot less going on that are still doing ok for themselves. I can probably help you out. Just let me know. |
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