I've not been out sarging too much, but I've noticed I have some issues on my nightgame.

First of all, I've experienced a very strange (there is a very good explenation actually for it) and awesome phenomenon, when I am with a specific friend group (guys and girls included) and I am having too much fun in clubs or parties, girls from around actually hit on me (usually only to me from the hole group). Our nights out usually include a lot of alcohol, which is supposed not to be advised, right?

The problems here are:


a) I usually do not go out with this group and I have also other friend group (which is almost only guys) with whom I go out more often.

The question here is how can I get myself in the same crazy-dance-fun state when I am with not so party animals friends? Can I really achieve that if the others aren't following?


b) Having too much fun or drinking too much alcohol have almost the same effect on me, I can go crazy But if I do not achieve any of these and my friends are not in a similar crazy state, I really can't dance. I just move like an inflexible piece of wood. Dancing is supposed to be done no regarding how much alcohol you are having and nightclub dancing isn't really sth you can learn in a dance class I think.

Does anyone know if there are any tips or videos that can help with that? Getting some moves or unstuck my body? (I should not be getting drunk every time I want to go out and sometimes it doesn't work with dancing)


c) I live in a city where you can easily find drunk/tipsy girls early at Friday or Saturday night. How do you approach girls when they are like that? I've found out that the usual lines or routines do not work here, I'm guessing because the girls do not have the mental capacity to understand them when they are like that. So I think there is a need for a more brutal approach. But that approach must, also, be rapidly interesting and intriguing in order to get the tipsy/half drunk girl's attention very fast as they can get distracted very easily.

Any hints on that?


Thank you guys

a) Girls are probably hitting on you because you have girls already in the group = pre-selection

b) Youtube it, tons of videos on basic dance routines for the club

c) Go heavy with physical game

a) That's what I thought too and I'm probably also providing social proof and seem like an interesting and energetic guy

b) I didn't rly find anything usefull

c) Could you give me an example of an opening and what follows after that to understand it better? (being more physical is also related with the dancing problem I think)

a- They are opening you? Good. Whatever it is, you are doing it well.

b- Don't worry too much about the drinking. I mean, do not be that drunk idiot who cannot talk or move anymore, but other than that, don't be afraid to knock back a drink or two and have some fun. Regarding the dancing...
1. Move your hips to the rythm of the music. Get into a trance. Feel the music. Be one with it.
2. Science, bitch!
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=m9xThNyPWdc
Guy knows a thing or two about club game. Other than that... Chat up girls out of the dancefloor area. If on the dancefloor, go physical. Physical meaning
1. Establish eye contact
2. move closer
3. grab her hand
4. Dance.
5. Make out.
6. Isolate.

if eye contact should not be possible, it is OK to tap her shoulder once to signal your existance. Smile to prove you are not a threatening or weird guy. Offer her your hand. Go on like above.

how can I get myself in the same crazy-dance-fun state when I am with not so party animals friends? Can I really achieve that if the others aren't following?

Thanx for the response dude, rly helpful!!

a. I'm pretty good not giving a shit and having fun, that's all, I'm not even the common good looking guy

I would love a response on my first and most basic question, if anyone has any ideas
(Don't say drugs plz )

I've not been out sarging too much, but I've noticed I have some issues on my nightgame.

First of all, I've experienced a very strange (there is a very good explenation actually for it) and awesome phenomenon, when I am with a specific friend group (guys and girls included) and I am having too much fun in clubs or parties, girls from around actually hit on me (usually only to me from the hole group). Our nights out usually include a lot of alcohol, which is supposed not to be advised, right?

The problems here are:


a) I usually do not go out with this group and I have also other friend group (which is almost only guys) with whom I go out more often.

The question here is how can I get myself in the same crazy-dance-fun state when I am with not so party animals friends? Can I really achieve that if the others aren't following?


b) Having too much fun or drinking too much alcohol have almost the same effect on me, I can go crazy But if I do not achieve any of these and my friends are not in a similar crazy state, I really can't dance. I just move like an inflexible piece of wood. Dancing is supposed to be done no regarding how much alcohol you are having and nightclub dancing isn't really sth you can learn in a dance class I think.

Does anyone know if there are any tips or videos that can help with that? Getting some moves or unstuck my body? (I should not be getting drunk every time I want to go out and sometimes it doesn't work with dancing)


c) I live in a city where you can easily find drunk/tipsy girls early at Friday or Saturday night. How do you approach girls when they are like that? I've found out that the usual lines or routines do not work here (I make an opener and most of the times they just stand there and look at me like I tried to explain them quantum physics or they just turn around), I'm guessing because the girls do not have the mental capacity to understand them when they are like that. So I think there is a need for a more brutal approach. But I think that approach must, also, be rapidly interesting and intriguing in order to get the tipsy/half drunk girl's attention very fast as they can get distracted very easily.

Any hints on that?


Thank you guys