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Author:  contrast21 [ Sun Nov 02, 2014 10:34 pm ]
Post subject:  Facebook/Messaging IOI's??
Oi oi, Hows it goin lads??

Right basically I met this girl on Friday, friend of a friend like, we had a laugh in a group didn't really get to chat to her much on her own. Thought she was pretty fit but not a lot more than that tbh.

Anyway got home on Sat and she had added me on Facebook and as soon as I accepted the friend request she sent me a message. We were chatting for a few hours last night and been chatting all afternoon today, she's even at work now and sending me messages. the IOI's I've picked up are like "Thanks for making it such a good night" and "it was really good to meet you" also we were talking about holidays and I said I've been on 3 so far this year and she was like "Take me on your 4th with you" and stuff like that, also we started off by putting one kiss at the end of a message and then she started putting 2 so I copied and now she's putting 3.

Now the thing is she's an easy 8/9 and I'm a bit of a AFC but I'm pretty sure all these are IOI's but, and this is a big but... she's engaged so I don't know weather I'm reading too much into it or what or how to go about things. now I don't really wanna be that cunt who goes after a girl who's taken but on the other hand she's really fuckin hot and I don't know her bloke.

Any advice or comments or anything would be really helpful.

cheers in advance

Contrast
Author:  oceanx [ Sun Nov 02, 2014 11:45 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Facebook/Messaging IOI's??
She seems down. If you're into this sort of thing, invite her out, escalate and close.
Author:  `Feather [ Mon Nov 03, 2014 8:01 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Facebook/Messaging IOI's??
Talk about her fiance the next time she gives you IOI's

If she badmouth's her fiance in anyway, youre in...which may not be a good thing
Author:  oceanx [ Mon Nov 03, 2014 8:07 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Facebook/Messaging IOI's??
Quote:
youre in...which may not be a good thing
This. So many single girls out there why play with fire.
Author:  contrast21 [ Mon Nov 03, 2014 11:41 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Facebook/Messaging IOI's??
Cheers for the reply's lads,

I think tbh that last night when I writ this I was just getting over excited that she seemed keen and she was the one keeping the chatting going.

I've been cheated on myself and its not nice at all and deep down I know I'm not really that sort of bloke to go there even if I don't know the lad shes with like.

Rekon what I'm gunna do is friend zone her coz she is a proppa sound lass and she can help me with DHV, bein in a club with a hottie is always a good thing ennit haha.

Cheers anyway boys.
Author:  Stenic1 [ Mon Nov 03, 2014 3:29 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Facebook/Messaging IOI's??
Lol i could tell you were from the UK from your typing. Nice to see your a considerate guy dude.

Yes those are all IOI's her pushing the kisses thing aswell is a simple technique girls do to judge your attraction to her. Call her out on her kisses for example - 'God damn your getting out of hand with these kisses I normally only give one so feel lucky, you can be my new best girl friend'

For all you know dude her relationship might not be as good as it looks like so she might want out. But your doing the right thing in my opinion by not pursuing i dont pursue these ones either.

Need any advice give me a shout. keep it up nice to see another UK dude posting
Author:  contrast21 [ Mon Nov 03, 2014 4:06 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Facebook/Messaging IOI's??
Haha I type the way I talk man, a lot of cod shit words here n there that sort of make sense, well to me at least haha.

She messaged me at like half 2 this morning but I haven't replied, if she gets in touch again though I will play her up on the kisses coz that's a good'n.

next time I see her I'll try find out what her relationships like and just have enough of a laugh with her so that if she does want out when the time comes I'm still in her mind but tbh I'd only really be keen on havin a bit of fun with her, not really gf material if shes messaging me like this when shes engaged ennit.

Like I said before I think I just got a bit over excited coz basically been gettin over a real painful break up of the last several months and this is the first girl to show some interest like.

cheers for the reply man.
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