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Author:  TGAP KEARNEY [ Sat Nov 01, 2014 5:10 am ]
Post subject:  Comfusing signals. Next step?

This is in more regards to Stealth Attraction "just starting to test for myself" but all opinions are welcome. I had a girl over that is some what a friend but I find very fetching. The night is Halloween so I was more for fun than game but ran a little Kino escalation on her. Rather sexual an doing the sex stair an what not. She reciprocated with fun sexual jestires and some off hand sexual remarks that didn't have much place (I took as hints" . It ended up coming to my house for scary movie an drinks. I sat next to her an had full leg to leg contact, ankle to knee. Which if she was only interested in being friends with no sexual interest she would of moved her leg very subtly from mine but didn't. I went for an escalation of putting my arm around her but she resisted. But still kept the full leg contact. She had plenty of room an had her legs in my direction out of her way. But her upper body said the opposite. Arms crossed an leaning away. After a few minutes she excused herself an left saying she had a stomach ache but asked if we were still on for drinks tomarrow night. What is it I should of done or should do tomarrow an that I should take from this particular experience for I am a bit confused.

Author:  Psydaddy [ Sat Nov 01, 2014 9:25 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Comfusing signals. Next step?

Because if she moved far from you it would look rude, so she didn't do that.
Girls don't like to reject guys, that's why they do excuses to avoid us.

If she got uncomfortable, like that it was because she was ok for fun but not to make out with you.
If she didn't do it, it was because you missed something at some part.

Author:  CharlesFinley [ Mon Nov 03, 2014 6:36 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Comfusing signals. Next step?

This is a couple days old at this point...

I was going to say I think you mis-read her signals... I get that the leg-to-leg thing was fairly obvious but who knows what she was thinking.

If she pulled back when you went in to escalate, she wasn't ready for it. Excusing herself was her polite way of telling you that she was going to stop things before they got more awkward.

I'm curious if drinks happened the next night or if she came up with an excuse and flaked?

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