There is a lot less to learn than you've been lead to believe. Meeting women is actually pretty simple. Most PUA material is mental masturbation that has little practical application.
What you need to get women is basically this:
1. Look good
2. Be confident
3. Have adequate social skills
4. Always think sexually during the entire interaction
5. Stay out of your head and learn to vibe with a girl's energy throughout the interaction
There is your daygame checklist. If you've got these down, learning more isn't going to be very helpful.
As for step by step guide
1. Make sure she seems open to being approached. If she looks like she just came from a funeral, find a different girl
2. Get your proximity close to her. Does she seem to notice you at all? If so, go talk to her. [If not, again find another girl, so you're not wasting your time on stuff that rarely works]
3. Your "opener" can basically be anything. Make an observation about her, about something in the environment. If she thinks you're cute, it barely matters.
4. Tell her you think she's cute within a minute or two. If you open this way, I've found the blow-off rate is higher. She has to be more physically attracted for it to work. Giving her a minute to decide you seem cool raises your success. But don't never tell her. Do it early, just not in the first minute.
5. Talk about whatever
6. Ask her out on a date tonight(or whenever you're next free). If she says she's busy, ask when she's usually free. Set up the night time date. If she doesn't offer any time, she's not interested, and you need to move on.
You can go ahead and take a phone number if you think she's borderline. I usually do this only when I think she's sort of into me, but not quite enough to go out today. I put all of those girls in my phone with a leading "z" in front of their name, so I know it's a low prospect. She'll get a couple of texts for a few weeks and then I'll delete her.
Never try to get phone numbers. Phone numbers are almost worthless. You want dates, not numbers. Girls give their phone numbers out like candy. Phone numbers are what you take as a last resort, and only if she's at least fairly into you. Do not be Vince Kelvin, running around talking to girls for 60 seconds and then asking for phone numbers. That's just going to be a whole lot of wasted time and frustration.
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tips for afc daygame openers : the ultimate excuses: a function, party, sports, same topic.