Outline
I am young but own a decent size company and she has worked for me for years, max DHV for me.
I never really went for her, and was supprised to notice ioi/flirting/ hand touching all coming from her.
Now she has got my attention
6 months ago I decided to see if she was for real and took her out for long chats during work and really got to know each another with good ioi's fuck me eyes, hand touching, pushing her arse against me while reaching, letting her leg rub against mine and after 10 mins or so saying oh sorry, to which I normally replied its ok I was enjoying it.
Sounds good and it was but she was major fucking with my head as she would turn really cold and then start again.
I tried to escalate, offer to take her for a meal (obvious date) she was up for the idea but then blew it out when I went to make it real and set a day.
She then stayed mainly cold
I worked on myself lost a lot of weight toned up and really am transformed, also get down with pua
If nothing else she motivated me to be awsome, not supprisingly she is hot for me again now and none of the cold shit I was getting last time round. I have been using pua to try and push her over the edge, but I am struggling now and need some advice.
The problem I think is that she does have a boyfriend and although I am a lot better, younger, richer, better looking, more exciting, I think this is holding her back altough we are now closer than ever.
She tells everyone that she is going to leave him and complains frequently about him, however she seems stuck and not willing to make a move, and I am being cautious escalating but detecting probable resistance.
I have tried bf destroyer - saying how good he is and perfect for her when she is slating him, using his old age as a neg for her once or twice, and framing that she is not exciting and I am.
I am also texting her every other day and being cheeky and playful, e.g how would u feel if u I called u late at night.
Think she is in to me but is shitting herself so I am stuck, anyone got and advice?