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| Author: | thejoker89 [ Thu Oct 23, 2014 3:52 am ] |
| Post subject: | Is this salvageable? Not sure of next steps |
N closed a HB7 a few weeks back that works for same company. Long story short she flaked on first date, continued to message me and show strong IOI's. Try to set up second date but she declined as she was going out with friends that night (which was true), however didn't arrange follow up date. Self admittedly I'm still a big AFC in some aspects of game . I think that showed a bit during our interactions. The last contact we had was a week ago, after she declined I just responded with 'Ok' to make it seem like I didn't care. Was hoping by ignoring she would reinitiate contact but have had nothing. My initial train of thought was that she's flaked twice so I should just focus attention elsewhere. If she's really interested she'll come calling. On the other hand maybe a one word answer was a bit blunt.. Advice? |
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| Author: | oceanx [ Thu Oct 23, 2014 7:36 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Is this salvageable? Not sure of next steps |
Hit the streets or bars and meet more girls. It is important to be in an abundance frame of mind when engaging a girl. She senses this. It is also important to act with this girl like she hasn't said 'no' to going out or flaked before; to act as though nothing happened and continue to maintain an upbeat persona. In the context of re-engaging with her if you decide to take one last shot, see what her schedule is like for upcoming days and schedule a meet around that. |
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| Author: | CharlesFinley [ Thu Oct 23, 2014 12:38 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Is this salvageable? Not sure of next steps |
The other poster is right. It's fine to keep this one on the playing field, as long as she hasn't given you a hard 'no'... But she's a bit of a lame duck at this point. There's no reason at all you shouldn't be running this same game with many other girls. You have a better shot of scoring with 10 shots instead of 1. |
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| Author: | Gunfighter28 [ Fri Oct 24, 2014 5:37 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Is this salvageable? Not sure of next steps |
What you should have said Is ok text me if you're free sometime this week then walk away, and wait for her to hit you up, but simple rule to go by is rejected twice walk away. |
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| Author: | TheFury [ Fri Oct 24, 2014 5:43 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Is this salvageable? Not sure of next steps |
Low probability but your investment at this stage is low anyways. Ping her with a "Hey Stranger how've you been" in a week or so ... then propose a meeting again (with the date, time and place, all in one message). Don't count on her not flaking so arrange another date at the same time or some other back up plans... assuming she even responds to the initial message. If not, who cares, move on. |
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