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Author:  Vandal PUA [ Wed Oct 22, 2014 4:42 pm ]
Post subject:  Need to Step up my game to the next level.
I've certiantly gotten better at pickup. I can open, midgame, and at times even escalate well, but because I never started with canned stuff (I only use natural game) I feel like I'm moving at a slower pace than everyone else. Does anyone have any advice for F-closing? (I know this is general, please check the later parts of my journal to assess my skill.

Also, should I try things like Tinder or stick to day game?
Author:  _Lothario_ [ Wed Oct 22, 2014 5:01 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Need to Step up my game to the next level.
GABAPYCO

Get A Boner And Pull Your Cock Out.

This is a practice and a mindset.

The practice is that when you are escalating, preferably in isolation, anything that turns you on is for the sake of turning you on. Once you are turned on, take your cock out for her. If she is ready for it, she will be hypnotized by the one-eyed phallus. It is less invasive than trying to work her up and going down her pants. If she is not ready she will reject your advance and you should freeze sexual contact unless it will lead to sex. It is unfair for someone to continue to turn you on without desire to act upon it. If you are enjoying each other's company you should continue to do so either way. If she wants to continue making out, groping, and humping, she is since of the knowledge that your cock is coming back out and she will be more prepared for it.

Also, being willing to stop sexual activity with no grief takes the pressure off the situation. It shows that you are in control of yourself and respectful of her right to say no. This builds comfort and attraction with her, and she will want more to say yes.
Author:  dtrak [ Wed Oct 22, 2014 11:23 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Need to Step up my game to the next level.
You want advice for f-closing?

Here's the truth

Chat up girls during the day/night

Try to close them all.

Gain experience.

Become an attractive man.

Its a numbers game but you do need social skills which better your numbers.

A noob with no game can talk to 10000000000 girls and fuck 0.1%

An attractive man with game can talk to 20 and fuck 1 or talk to 100 and fuck 1.

Make scence?

Keep at it.

Theres no magic pill, be a boss.

You'll eventually get laid.

And all these gurus you see that get laid all the time, thats cus they maximized their social skills and approach constantly.

Dont be a retard. 8)
Author:  Vandal PUA [ Thu Oct 23, 2014 7:28 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Need to Step up my game to the next level.
Yeah, I can open, midgame, and verbally escalate fine, but beyond that I just seem to struggle. I hope that just like anything else, with practice I will get better.
Author:  CharlesFinley [ Thu Oct 23, 2014 12:42 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Need to Step up my game to the next level.
Personally I applaud you for staying away from routines...

Gimmicky things.

Truth is if you were using them, you'd probably still be hitting the same walls... Routines are only useful to a point - and you're admittedly past that point...

There's not a real solid 'close' routine that works reliably (if there is, I'd love to know about it...) - lots are advertised... good luck finding a 'catch-all' solution that literally just rips the panties from every chick on the planet, though.

You will figure out what works and what doesn't... the same way you've made those connections with opening, mid-game, etc...

To point you in the right direction: Dates at your place... on your sofa... with a movie --- that's where you'll have the best luck converting a date to a lay.
Author:  Stenic1 [ Thu Oct 23, 2014 1:08 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Need to Step up my game to the next level.
LOL PULL YOUR DICK OUT ! yeah and get done for flashing ! hahaha.

As charles said - dates at your place and escalate the sexual tension.
A girl withholding sex goes back centuries if not milleniums ! Really it is the only power a woman holds over a man, for a woman to give this up is a huge step for her to offer all the power to a man. Thats why girls get known for being sluts etc - its not because they fucked the guy its because they gave the guy the power over her and he took the only thing she could control of.

To truely F-close you have to build enough rapport and trust for her to fuck you. Personally I have a massive social status when i go out to my local areas i know all the staff etc and girls see this... THIS HELPS ME FULL CLOSE. I can build the rapport and bond myself but having a girl notice you before you notice her is very handy to have. There is no quick fix to full closing... create a bond go out first date, second date oooh come over to mine... kiss some and use your hands to cover all her body, kiss her neck, bite it and then she is turned on, work your way down get her tits out and suck on them if she allows this - the rest is written in the sand.

Goood luck bro and well done with natural game.
Author:  oceanx [ Fri Oct 24, 2014 4:39 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Need to Step up my game to the next level.
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LOL PULL YOUR DICK OUT ! yeah and get done for flashing ! hahaha.
In regards to the comment from the poster above about pulling your dick out, I'm not saying every guy should do this but it is an effective technique used by playboys around the globe.
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A girl withholding sex is the only power a woman holds over a man
An alternate frame is to see sex as something 100% natural; the woman slides into this frame. If anything, see yourself as the prize.
Author:  Stenic1 [ Fri Oct 24, 2014 9:19 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Need to Step up my game to the next level.
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LOL PULL YOUR DICK OUT ! yeah and get done for flashing ! hahaha.
In regards to the comment from the poster above about pulling your dick out, I'm not saying every guy should do this but it is an effective technique used by playboys around the globe.
Quote:
A girl withholding sex is the only power a woman holds over a man
An alternate frame is to see sex as something 100% natural; the woman slides into this frame. If anything, see yourself as the prize.
I'm not saying its a bad technique about pulling your dick out i was just making a joke lol. If you feel the vibe is right and the confidence is there then by all means pull your dick out. Me personally i dont just whip my dick out i like to have a bit more respect and willingness plus i like her to pull my dick out when she cant fight the craving anymore lol

I always see myself as the prize but at the end of the day a woman doesnt see sex in the same way men do due to being called a slut etc this is why you have to persuade her with your psychical and mental attractive and shoot her hormones through the roof so she is moist and wants a fuck toy.
Author:  oceanx [ Fri Oct 24, 2014 9:27 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Need to Step up my game to the next level.
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Me personally i dont just whip my dick out
Me either.
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you have to persuade her with your psychical and mental attractive and shoot her hormones through the roof so she is moist and wants a fuck toy.
Fully agreed.
Author:  Vandal PUA [ Fri Oct 24, 2014 9:18 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Need to Step up my game to the next level.
Yeah, I was talking about steps to take when I'm closing. I had a girlfriend, I know what to do once I'm there...
Author:  Gunfighter28 [ Sat Oct 25, 2014 1:55 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Need to Step up my game to the next level.
read Corey Wayne's book how to be a 3% man 10 to 15 times apply it to your everyday life and getting women will no longer be an issue for you. Eddie Fews and Corey Wayne look up their material apply it to your life, and you won't go wrong.
Author:  Vandal PUA [ Sun Oct 26, 2014 3:40 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Need to Step up my game to the next level.
i got his e-book, it seems like this is focused for LTR's, not PUA stuff.
Author:  Gunfighter28 [ Sun Oct 26, 2014 2:39 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Need to Step up my game to the next level.
Corey Wayne has done what no one else in the community has, and has written material on relationship management and the fact that the courting process never ends. He teaches you once you have a woman you like how to keep her. I'm just gonna say it I fkn hate pua sure its good for clubs and what not and girls you don't care about, but it serves no purpose in a relationship I've read countless threads on here where the guy won't give up the charade and pua's himself into rejection.

I personally say fuck MM and all that bullshit read his book as well as Eddie Fews book when it comes out, and you'll be set. I tell ppl MM badboy lifestyle all that bullshit teaches you how to be an asshole in a club setting, but what do you do when you get a girl you like are you still gonna treat her like shit like badboy tells you to? Corey Wayne and Eddie Fews's material if you put the effort into learning and applying it will make you into a modern day Ernest Hemingway.
Author:  Vandal PUA [ Sun Oct 26, 2014 5:41 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Need to Step up my game to the next level.
Okay, thanks. I'll keep this in mind when I'm ready for an LTR, but I fairly recently got out of a relationship and kinda just want to have fun at the moment (yes, meaningless fun). I'm 18. For a while I thought the girl I was with was the one that I'd marry, but she changed a lot.

And I don't use MM. I use stealth and RSD. MM never worked for me anyways. For some reason I can't used canned material. It doesn't work with me. I get a way better response when I use a situational opener.
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