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| Author: | Giffnock [ Sun Oct 19, 2014 11:28 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Tried to do a bit boyfriend destroying but fucked up I think |
Bumped into a chick I had been sarging on and off for a few months back but never got too far various reasons although it was obvious there was a lot of sexual tension between us. She ended up getting a boyfriend mainly due to me dragging my feat and just not following up through lack of self belief. She even tried to pull me back to her place one night but for some retarted reason I never went I bumped into her in the club and right away started acting cocky funny, making jokes about her new boyfriend and the big relationship posts up on Facebook etc.. To which she clearly points out was all him and not her, I used the usual aww he must be so in love with you, what a "Nice guy" approach. She was acting like she wasn't that impressed with him pointed out he didn't even have a car and was saying things like he was a knob. I cut her loose and went mingling for a while, she's a hot chick and I could see her getting chatted up by a lot of men but caught her looking over their shoulders at me a few times so assumed there was still a lot of interest. Later on when we were both significantly drunker, I try to brush past her while she's chatting to a guy and she pulls me in, introduces me to the guy, I go in very alpha putting arm around her etc, she gets the guy to take a picture of me and her, the guy then gets all beta and leaves... She is now much drunker and really emotional about her boy friend, I think because of what I did earlier. We chat for a couple mins and I continue the theme. She then gets a really beta text from him and goes outside to try and call the guy. Comes back in even more emotional because he is ignoring her. She then asks me to come sit with her so I agree, we sit down at a table, she then comes out with I think I might be pregnant and points to her belly saying its a boated I just laugh and say its probably just the alcohol, she then says my period was only two days this month instead of 6 days. I start to sense this conversation is not going in the direction I want so just say "if you are pregnant good luck with that...in a dismissive tone". Then she pulls out her phone and starts showing me the guys text message, I cant remember what it said but it was him basically bitching about her being out clubbing and he is clearly in a mood about it. I just point out how needy and insecure he must be to send that. Which just makes her start to analyse it even more, she starts going over it line by line asking me things like from a "guys perspective what does this mean...why is he saying this bla bla". I am now fed up with this conversion and try to turn it round to me sarging her again but its not working... she still going on about the boy friend. I say something along the lines of look I'm not sitting here with you to play relationship therapist, she then responds with something that sounds as if she is trying to friendzone me which is not where I want to be. She then trys to call her bf again so I just get up and walk away with her like umm...wait come back...but I just go find my wing as its closing time anyway. What I am trying to figure out is was all this pregnancy stuff a shit test...was she trying to see if I would accept the friendzone frame to find out if I was really alpha or was it already fucked by that time and she was just treating me like a friendzoned orbiter and was only really interested in her BF. I know I could have really pushed the boyfirend destroying stuff much further and made him out to be a complete beta male but it felt kind of evil to that. Also like I said there was real heart pounding strong attraction between me and this chick at one time. There was real intensity in our interactions, you could have cut the tension with a knife yet me being me and lacking self belief some how fucked it up. |
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| Author: | oceanx [ Mon Oct 20, 2014 7:05 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Tried to do a bit boyfriend destroying but fucked up I t |
I think you handled the pregnancy comment well by just brushing it off. As for her going on and on about the bf you had it in a good place early where she was calling him a knob. Maybe when you got back with her and she started going on about it you could have put your finger to her lips and said something like "enough about timmy" and attempted to change the topic. |
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