PUA Forum :: Akward situation with friends wife!!!!

I am starting to believe that she is hitting on me and is making me feel real uncomfortable.

She will constantly get real close, Uncomfortably close even in front of my friend. She will wear very reviling clothing, Practically walking half naked in front of me. in a bathrobe. She would constantly try to get my attention and If I ignore it she does it even worse.

When she sees that I am not paying any attention to her she would start having a make out session with my friend in front of me and my friend would be like why are you doing this in front of people???

She would talk about sex openly when we are in a group or hanging out with other couples. Also I am single so I always go alone or with a friend of hers which I dated for a while. She will start asking me if I fucked her friend and stuff like that and i would answer in a very sarcastic way " No we just play cards and stuff when we are alone in my house we never got to that point" and she would say bullshit she told me you fucked her last week.

But the worst thing that makes me uncomfortable is that every time I want to go to home or leave she would have a fit and start saying " why are you leaving???? don't go, you can stay in the other room if you like, and ask my friend why is he leaving?? tell him to stay, That's when my friend would say " no he is tired he wants to go home. And she would say to him in front of him. You see!! you are so boring even your friends want to leave!!!

I want to know why she acts like that. This is a very good friend of mind and I will never do anything with her and she knows I wouldn't. so why does she do that so blatantly in front of his face???

Also my friend is very good looking and successful and has like 2 chics on the side. So its not like he is a beta or a AFC.

I want to know why she acts like that. This is a very good friend of mind and I will never do anything with her and she knows I wouldn't. so why does she do that so blatantly in front of his face???

The only time that she does not care what mood he is in and will act like that regardless if it will cause a major fight or not is when I am about to leave.

Sounds like your friend has very little self respect and she's walking all over him with the way she talks.

Honestly though... From reading this it sounds like she wants a threesome. They're not going to straight up ask you to join them but they're probably looking to get you involved.

My friend is not a PUA but I can assure you that he fucks more chicks than me. He makes pretty good money and is always chasing pussy. Always getting caught by mistake when his wife goes thru his phone and shit. But that's there problem.

All I know that it is getting a little uncomfortable at first I thought she was just being friendly but it is a little to obvious because when he is around she kind of controls the advances. I am sure ain't telling him anything because I will never do anything with her. It is not worth it for me because we make money together and he is my friend.

Also I didn't mention this but every time I go there I am dressed like shit all unshaven, sometimes I go all sweaty straight from the gym smelling like shit. It dosent even make a difference she is still all over me.

It gets even worse when I don't make eye contact with her. When I am by myself and he is not around I never look at her directly at her and act all quite. She is like trying to provoke a reaction from me when I do this.

Thanks for suggesting the book. For me understanding why women act certain ways and exhibit certain behaviors in different situations is one of the reasons I joined this forum. Thank you.

As for suggesting her to stop it. I think if I acknowledge to her that her advances are making me feel uncomfortable she will she play the I think you are crazy I am just being friendly with you card.

If you want it to stop, be direct with her. Tell her you know she's into you, and you value your friendship more than fucking her.

Author:	brian.fritz1 [ Wed Oct 15, 2014 1:34 pm ]
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I am starting to believe that she is hitting on me and is making me feel real uncomfortable. She will constantly get real close, Uncomfortably close even in front of my friend. She will wear very reviling clothing, Practically walking half naked in front of me. in a bathrobe. She would constantly try to get my attention and If I ignore it she does it even worse. When she sees that I am not paying any attention to her she would start having a make out session with my friend in front of me and my friend would be like why are you doing this in front of people??? She would talk about sex openly when we are in a group or hanging out with other couples. Also I am single so I always go alone or with a friend of hers which I dated for a while. She will start asking me if I fucked her friend and stuff like that and i would answer in a very sarcastic way " No we just play cards and stuff when we are alone in my house we never got to that point" and she would say bullshit she told me you fucked her last week. But the worst thing that makes me uncomfortable is that every time I want to go to home or leave she would have a fit and start saying " why are you leaving???? don't go, you can stay in the other room if you like, and ask my friend why is he leaving?? tell him to stay, That's when my friend would say " no he is tired he wants to go home. And she would say to him in front of him. You see!! you are so boring even your friends want to leave!!! I want to know why she acts like that. This is a very good friend of mind and I will never do anything with her and she knows I wouldn't. so why does she do that so blatantly in front of his face??? Also my friend is very good looking and successful and has like 2 chics on the side. So its not like he is a beta or a AFC.

Author:	breedlove465 [ Wed Oct 15, 2014 1:58 pm ]
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Quote: I am starting to believe that she is hitting on me and is making me feel real uncomfortable. She will constantly get real close, Uncomfortably close even in front of my friend. She will wear very reviling clothing, Practically walking half naked in front of me. in a bathrobe. She would constantly try to get my attention and If I ignore it she does it even worse. When she sees that I am not paying any attention to her she would start having a make out session with my friend in front of me and my friend would be like why are you doing this in front of people??? She would talk about sex openly when we are in a group or hanging out with other couples. Also I am single so I always go alone or with a friend of hers which I dated for a while. She will start asking me if I fucked her friend and stuff like that and i would answer in a very sarcastic way " No we just play cards and stuff when we are alone in my house we never got to that point" and she would say bullshit she told me you fucked her last week. But the worst thing that makes me uncomfortable is that every time I want to go to home or leave she would have a fit and start saying " why are you leaving???? don't go, you can stay in the other room if you like, and ask my friend why is he leaving?? tell him to stay, That's when my friend would say " no he is tired he wants to go home. And she would say to him in front of him. You see!! you are so boring even your friends want to leave!!! I want to know why she acts like that. This is a very good friend of mind and I will never do anything with her and she knows I wouldn't. so why does she do that so blatantly in front of his face??? Also my friend is very good looking and successful and has like 2 chics on the side. So its not like he is a beta or a AFC. If he's letting her act like this then he is acting beta in front of this girl. All I know is that she wants the dick badly. No advice on the situation though. Thats some sticky shit. You're friends needs to grow some nuts and kick her to the curb. That's about as disrespectful as it gets. Is it possible she wants a threeway with two dudes and your friend just hasn't built up the nerve to ask you about it?

Author:	brian.fritz1 [ Wed Oct 15, 2014 2:17 pm ]
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No a threesome will never happen because thats his wife. Also I personally know 2 other chicks that my friend is banging. He does not treat her like a beta. As a matter of fact he treats her like shit but buys her a lot of expensive gifts and clothes. She knows how to calculate his mood. If she sees he is in a pissed off or serious mood then she will not do that in front of him. She will wait until like he is not looking or busy on the phone. The only time that she does not care what mood he is in and will act like that regardless if it will cause a major fight or not is when I am about to leave. The bitch acts like she is having a tantrum or something when I say am leaving.

Author:	CharlesFinley [ Wed Oct 15, 2014 3:05 pm ]
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Quote: I want to know why she acts like that. This is a very good friend of mind and I will never do anything with her and she knows I wouldn't. so why does she do that so blatantly in front of his face??? So why don't you ask her? In this thread and others you've written in, you have a bit of an obsession for trying to understand why girls act the way they do... While it may be useful in understanding the female psyche in general, it's not going to ultimately help you at all. Girls are all different. All are crazy (to a point). Some are crazier. They aren't logical. What they do doesn't always make sense.

Author:	Eddie Fews [ Wed Oct 15, 2014 3:26 pm ]
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People want what they can't have. A woman will almost always go for the gun that is most likely to turn her down. She's not happy with your friend(he's not leading his relationship) so she is naturally trying to attract a suitable mate to lead her. She can't really control it. Its your friend that has to step up to the plate and lead his relationship. If i were you, I would talk to you buddy and let him know his wife is making you uncomfortable. That or just stop hanging around them when she's there. How far does your loyalty to him go? If i was him I would want my friend to make the decision to stay away at the times when she was around until I figure my situation out. I wouldn't say that to my friend. I would just want a friends loyalty to be that deep.

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Author:	GamesSN [ Wed Oct 15, 2014 4:34 pm ]
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Sounds like your friend has very little self respect and she's walking all over him with the way she talks. Honestly though... From reading this it sounds like she wants a threesome. They're not going to straight up ask you to join them but they're probably looking to get you involved.

Author:	breedlove465 [ Wed Oct 15, 2014 4:38 pm ]
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Quote: The only time that she does not care what mood he is in and will act like that regardless if it will cause a major fight or not is when I am about to leave. Sorry but no "alpha" would EVER put up with this shit. Period. Hanging on my buddy, getting pissy when he wants to leave, getting sexual with him, saying that he's leaving cause I'm boring? Nope. Your buddy is allowing this. I'm sure he's a ladies man and all that but lots of guys let this kind of stuff slide when they get comfy in a relationship and that sounds like where your friend is at. He's busy on other girls and just doesn't care what his wife does. Either just tell your friend or ignore her.

Author:	brian.fritz1 [ Wed Oct 15, 2014 11:49 pm ]
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My friend is not a PUA but I can assure you that he fucks more chicks than me. He makes pretty good money and is always chasing pussy. Always getting caught by mistake when his wife goes thru his phone and shit. But that's there problem. All I know that it is getting a little uncomfortable at first I thought she was just being friendly but it is a little to obvious because when he is around she kind of controls the advances. I am sure ain't telling him anything because I will never do anything with her. It is not worth it for me because we make money together and he is my friend. Also I didn't mention this but every time I go there I am dressed like shit all unshaven, sometimes I go all sweaty straight from the gym smelling like shit. It dosent even make a difference she is still all over me. It gets even worse when I don't make eye contact with her. When I am by myself and he is not around I never look at her directly at her and act all quite. She is like trying to provoke a reaction from me when I do this.

Author:	brian.fritz1 [ Thu Oct 16, 2014 12:02 am ]
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Quote: Sounds like your friend has very little self respect and she's walking all over him with the way she talks. Honestly though... From reading this it sounds like she wants a threesome. They're not going to straight up ask you to join them but they're probably looking to get you involved. Sometimes when me and him go to clubs we get fucked up and we end up fucking chicks together in the same hotel room but never a threesome. He fucks his chic and I fuck mine. We are all there together partying but we don't change the chicks around neither do we want to. Like I said before I fuck my chic and he fucks his. Also obviously these are chicks that we meet In clubs. It is not his wife or his other GF on the side. His wife works at night so we do that like twice a month.

Author:	JackZero [ Thu Oct 16, 2014 12:07 am ]
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Quote: My friend is not a PUA but I can assure you that he fucks more chicks than me. He makes pretty good money and is always chasing pussy. Always getting caught by mistake when his wife goes thru his phone and shit. But that's there problem. All I know that it is getting a little uncomfortable at first I thought she was just being friendly but it is a little to obvious because when he is around she kind of controls the advances. I am sure ain't telling him anything because I will never do anything with her. It is not worth it for me because we make money together and he is my friend. Also I didn't mention this but every time I go there I am dressed like shit all unshaven, sometimes I go all sweaty straight from the gym smelling like shit. It dosent even make a difference she is still all over me. It gets even worse when I don't make eye contact with her. When I am by myself and he is not around I never look at her directly at her and act all quite. She is like trying to provoke a reaction from me when I do this. So what you're saying is that your friend is always cheating on his wife and she keeps catching him is trying to flirt with his close friend. Not too hard to figure out what is going on here.

Author:	brian.fritz1 [ Thu Oct 16, 2014 9:06 am ]
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Update: This shit is just fucking crazy. I feel embarrassed for her. Today I went to my friends house there are like 5 people there all friends. So i am in the computer trying to put some music I am sitting in a high stool chair with my legs open I am minding my own business not even aware anyone was behind me. All of a sudden she wedges her self between my legs and the computer pressing her back against my groin trying to see what song i am choosing on the computer. My first reaction was to close my legs out of shock. After she saw my reaction she quickly separated and did not speak to me the whole night.

Author:	Versalis [ Thu Oct 16, 2014 1:59 pm ]
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If you want it to stop, be direct with her. Tell her you know she's into you, and you value your friendship more than fucking her. And that you won't tell her husband, provided she both leaves you alone, and doesn't try to insinuate to him that you want to fuck her. If you're wanting to bang her, then just do it. She's literally dying for it. If you want to understand, then read "Women's Infidelity - Living in Limbo" by Michelle Langley. It sums up almost everything about the rationale behind why women in long term relationships almost universally want to cheat, even if her husband does everything right(and that's very rare). It even covers the differences between what she tells her lover and what's really going on behind the scenes.

Author:	brian.fritz1 [ Thu Oct 16, 2014 2:14 pm ]
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Thanks for suggesting the book. For me understanding why women act certain ways and exhibit certain behaviors in different situations is one of the reasons I joined this forum. Thank you. As for suggesting her to stop it. I think if I acknowledge to her that her advances are making me feel uncomfortable she will she play the I think you are crazy I am just being friendly with you card.

Author:	Eddie Fews [ Thu Oct 16, 2014 2:18 pm ]
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Quote: Thanks for suggesting the book. For me understanding why women act certain ways and exhibit certain behaviors in different situations is one of the reasons I joined this forum. Thank you. As for suggesting her to stop it. I think if I acknowledge to her that her advances are making me feel uncomfortable she will she play the I think you are crazy I am just being friendly with you card. Some part of you is enjoying this and the attention its getting you dude. Otherwise you would stay out the way. If you value your friendship, speak up to either her or your buddy or just stay out the way. You're still being used as a object to emotionally cheat with. SO if you were my friend i would already view you as an accomplice. Because you have an idea about whats happening and you're doing absolutely nothing about it. If you enjoy the attention man up and say that; if not, respect your friend and stay out the way until they get things in order.

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Author:	masterm1ne [ Thu Oct 16, 2014 2:29 pm ]
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Quote: If you want it to stop, be direct with her. Tell her you know she's into you, and you value your friendship more than fucking her. LOL that WILL QUINTUPLE her HORNINESS for this dude!!! I would tell your bro, "Ey mane your chick wantz my dick... baaaaaaaaaaad" See what he says. If he knows she knows he's cheating, they might have an open relationship...