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| Author: | r1circle [ Sun Oct 05, 2014 5:11 am ] |
| Post subject: | Confusing Situation with a flake |
Ok so now. This might turn into a wall of text so bare with me. A little background. I met this girl a couple of months back at a bar. Got her number. Took her out on 2 dates. Went pretty great. On the first date she told me shes moving to Atlanta for work for a couple of months. No worries. K-closed. Wasn't really feeling the f-close so didn't go for it. In those 2 months i kept sending her ping texts to keep me on her radar. So about 2 weeks back i msg her and shes back. Ask her if she wants to meet up and shes like ok next week. I got super busy and i txtd her that we'll have to postpone it for next week. Shes like ok. I txt her the next week and shes like shes busy this week and we should keep it for the other week. I thought to myself damn I shouldn't have bailed. Anyway ask her by txt during the week and she agrees for thursday, but tells me she'll confirm because she might be out of the city. Didn't hear back. Mistakenly drunk text her on the day of the date "we're not on for today are we ?" I try to salvage it on Tuesday by sending her another ping text and i told her i'll call her in a bit. She's like ok. I call her a few hours later and she doesnt pick up. I dont leave a voicemail, or a text. Its freaking Saturday now and I still havent heard back. So im confused as to what i should do. Try one more call ? Leave a txt ? Or just do a freeze out. She set up the date so idk why she'd bail. This isn't oneitis it's just that i've never had a girl flake on a date she set up herself. Plus not answering my call ? My friends are like maybe she's just nervous. Wtf we've been out before so that shouldnt matter. She could have txtd me back atleast. TL;DR After a couple of dates and a 2 month travel break in between, Girl Agrees to meet, Flakes. I re-engage, and we restart the process. Now no contact for about a week since she's hasn't answered my call. Anyway what do you guys think is happening here ? I called out her flaking once in a playful way but she was like no we'll definitely meet up some time. Whats the best strategy ? Give it one last shot ? Or am I overthinking it ? |
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| Author: | n2thevoid [ Sun Oct 05, 2014 6:11 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Confusing Situation with a flake |
Text her something funny as if nothing happened. Ask her out again tell her you want to check out some place next week and for her to come along, ask what day works for her (be assertive not a puppy dog). |
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| Author: | r1circle [ Mon Oct 06, 2014 7:12 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Confusing Situation with a flake |
Where did my game go wrong though. Any pua's want to guide me on this ? |
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