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Author:  chappelle [ Tue Sep 30, 2014 7:50 am ]
Post subject:  what makes a girl feel like she knows you?

cause I keep running into this god damn line and its getting annoying.

Author:  CharlesFinley [ Tue Sep 30, 2014 11:48 am ]
Post subject:  Re: what makes a girl feel like she knows you?

What line?

Do I know you?

I don't understand the question.

Author:  chappelle [ Tue Sep 30, 2014 3:19 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: what makes a girl feel like she knows you?

For example I made out with this girl the other day and she was into it but then later she texts me "go slow with me noscope cause I don't really know you". Its been like 3 weeks of me talking to her on and off, just cause I have been so busy. She knows me well enough by now!

Author:  CharlesFinley [ Tue Sep 30, 2014 4:46 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: what makes a girl feel like she knows you?

Ignore it. Literally pretend she didn't say it...

If you're already making out with her and she drops that line... talk for a minute and re-engage the makeout.

Author:  chappelle [ Wed Oct 01, 2014 2:09 am ]
Post subject:  Re: what makes a girl feel like she knows you?

Well that was like saturday, and she LJBFed me today. Its ok with me, shes just a test subject. Still... its good to think it over, and I think since I moved too fast she got freaked about how fast we moved, and LJBFed.

She will make some nice social proof for when I talk to other girls though.

Author:  n2thevoid [ Wed Oct 01, 2014 8:23 am ]
Post subject:  Re: what makes a girl feel like she knows you?

What I want to know is what you're saying to prompt girls to say this

I've never been asked this in my entire life.

Author:  Jay (Majik) [ Wed Oct 01, 2014 8:27 am ]
Post subject:  Re: what makes a girl feel like she knows you?

Maybe spend a little bit of time actually trying to get to know the girl for more than a hole to blow your load into...

Author:  Jay (Majik) [ Wed Oct 01, 2014 8:27 am ]
Post subject:  Re: what makes a girl feel like she knows you?

Maybe spend a little bit of time actually trying to get to know the girl for more than a hole to blow your load into...

Author:  chappelle [ Wed Oct 01, 2014 5:35 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: what makes a girl feel like she knows you?

I dont "say" much about myself, I try to be mysterious that way. Instead, I just ask her questions about herself, make jokes or go off that some other way. Sometimes she asked about me, and I will answer a little evasively. She came to hang out with me while I went to get some food and I snuck a kiss on er, followed by some hot makeout. But then it just kinda... fell apart. Dont exactly know why... I think it was just too long till I saw her again and the spark died.

Author:  n2thevoid [ Wed Oct 01, 2014 6:38 pm ]
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I dont "say" much about myself, I try to be mysterious that way. Instead, I just ask her questions about herself, make jokes or go off that some other way. Sometimes she asked about me, and I will answer a little evasively. She came to hang out with me while I went to get some food and I snuck a kiss on er, followed by some hot makeout. But then it just kinda... fell apart. Dont exactly know why... I think it was just too long till I saw her again and the spark died.
It's because you're using tactics instead of being yourself. In short, 'pickup' doesn't work. You're too scared to be yourself around a woman and likely gauging everything you do by her response. You're response-dependent so how you feel around her is dependent on how you perceive her reactions towards your behavior.

Author:  chappelle [ Wed Oct 01, 2014 8:00 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: what makes a girl feel like she knows you?

No, I could be myself any time I wanted, but I know that is not going to work. "Being myself" means walking up and being all "wanna fuck?" I need a personality, and some social skills.

Author:  no-way [ Wed Oct 01, 2014 10:58 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: what makes a girl feel like she knows you?

Could be that your game is not tight enough.
Maybe she have got this feeling that you are sharing 2 personality traits. This will colapse like this

Author:  Versalis [ Thu Oct 02, 2014 2:07 am ]
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No, I could be myself any time I wanted, but I know that is not going to work. "Being myself" means walking up and being all "wanna fuck?" I need a personality, and some social skills.
Yes, and this was explained already
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Maybe spend a little bit of time actually trying to get to know the girl for more than a hole to blow your load into...
The problem here, is that the girl senses you just want to fuck her and she doesn't really matter to you(beyond someone to fuck) so she's guarded around you.

Author:  chappelle [ Thu Oct 02, 2014 7:28 am ]
Post subject:  Re: what makes a girl feel like she knows you?

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No, I could be myself any time I wanted, but I know that is not going to work. "Being myself" means walking up and being all "wanna fuck?" I need a personality, and some social skills.
Yes, and this was explained already
Quote:
Maybe spend a little bit of time actually trying to get to know the girl for more than a hole to blow your load into...
The problem here, is that the girl senses you just want to fuck her and she doesn't really matter to you(beyond someone to fuck) so she's guarded around you.

Ok, then you missed my post where I said
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I dont "say" much about myself, I try to be mysterious that way. Instead, I just ask her questions about herself, make jokes or go off that some other way. Sometimes she asked about me, and I will answer a little evasively.
I barely talk about myself and know plenty about her.

Author:  Versalis [ Thu Oct 02, 2014 12:07 pm ]
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while seeing they do not see, and while hearing they do not hear, nor do they understand.
I don't think I said "Listen to her more" I said "Give a shit about her". Which is what Majik was saying.

If you want to fuck chicks you don't like, look for drunk/horny chicks who are DTF based on your looks/vibe. There are plenty of them out there, from clubs to Tinder. You're talking about girls who are only going to fuck someone right now, if they have an emotional bond.

What you're basically asking here is "How do I trick women into thinking I'm not just wanting to pump and dump?". 1. It's difficult to do this, and isn't something that can be taught over text, as it involves mostly excellent acting skills. 2. I wouldn't teach you even if I knew how, as I don't think that's cool.

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