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| Author: | Masse20 [ Mon Sep 29, 2014 7:10 am ] |
| Post subject: | Aggressive girl in set |
Hey there, just wanted to have your opinion on a situation that me and my buddy had while out clubbing last night. What happens is: My buddy goes up to this set of 6 thats sitting round a table and just sits with them, nodding in the conversation and so on. Then the girl next to him goes bananas on how they are having a "private" conversation about boys cheating with best friends and so on. But appararently her tone was very aggressive so he makes up a scene and in a funny, loudly way "shouts" at her, and at the same time throws his chair backwards while standing up and leaving. I had plans to join this set, so i was going to sit next to him, but i caught his chair midair and we basically switched place, (thumbs up for good improvised timing). I sit there and start talking, and the aggressive girl goes on again about how they are having a private conversation, so I just stare her in the eyes trying to use my most friendly voice saying "Im really sorry that that i disturbed you in your conversation, I will leave you alone now". Thing is though the other girls actually smiled, and looked pleased by the situation, one of the girls even left for the toilet and said so during my "im going to leave you now". (probably i should have gone after her.. but yeah) Looking at it now, maybe i should have just ignored her and socialized with the rest of the set. Or maybe followed the one that left for a while. Whats your opinion? how do you interact with one "bitchy"-"wanna be alpha"-girl in sets? |
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| Author: | n2thevoid [ Mon Sep 29, 2014 7:52 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Aggressive girl in set |
You had some good information (boys cheating on best friends) which would have been an easy Segway into their conversation. |
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| Author: | breedlove465 [ Mon Sep 29, 2014 2:19 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Aggressive girl in set |
Quote: Hey there,
When One girl in the set is just rude as fuck, that's about as difficult as it gets for me. just wanted to have your opinion on a situation that me and my buddy had while out clubbing last night. What happens is: My buddy goes up to this set of 6 thats sitting round a table and just sits with them, nodding in the conversation and so on. Then the girl next to him goes bananas on how they are having a "private" conversation about boys cheating with best friends and so on. But appararently her tone was very aggressive so he makes up a scene and in a funny, loudly way "shouts" at her, and at the same time throws his chair backwards while standing up and leaving. I had plans to join this set, so i was going to sit next to him, but i caught his chair midair and we basically switched place, (thumbs up for good improvised timing). I sit there and start talking, and the aggressive girl goes on again about how they are having a private conversation, so I just stare her in the eyes trying to use my most friendly voice saying "Im really sorry that that i disturbed you in your conversation, I will leave you alone now". Thing is though the other girls actually smiled, and looked pleased by the situation, one of the girls even left for the toilet and said so during my "im going to leave you now". (probably i should have gone after her.. but yeah) Looking at it now, maybe i should have just ignored her and socialized with the rest of the set. Or maybe followed the one that left for a while. Whats your opinion? how do you interact with one "bitchy"-"wanna be alpha"-girl in sets? If they yell or say super rude shit I usually say "you're cute when you're mad". It's kinda like a hail mary pass to kind of knock her out of her head and bring her back down to earth. If she still come back extremely bitchy I usually look at any other girls in the set and say "it was a pleasure ladies". And if I get any kind of smile or good eye contact with any of them, I approach them later when crazy isn't right on top of them. |
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| Author: | Masse20 [ Mon Sep 29, 2014 11:17 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Aggressive girl in set |
Thanks for reply. The information about them i got afterwards, cause my friend was the one with it, I just switched place with him instantly so. But I like the "you are cute when you are mad"-approach to the problematique. Since the set looked pleased with our little show. Anyhow: Thanks for the replies, now I have some b-plan for bitchy bossy types in set. |
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