PUA Forum :: I don't get it (Nightclubs)

I'm a noob. I've been out a few times and I don't get it. I can barely approach but can't do shit after approaching.
It is so difficult to approach in a nightclub. It's loud which means almost no talking, so what can i do? Yea I can make eye contact and then approach and start dancing or whatever but that feels weird to me. Guess I need to work on it but I don't know where to begin :/
Also, I have noticed that after you have approached girls can keep you around without being interested, which is a very awkward situation. Oh and most guys who are with a girl were approached by the girl (ive also experienced this) .
The huge amount of competition and the fact that girl groups stay in circles blocking off everyone else in the club doesn't help either :/

I need some advice, I've already been given good advice by a few people but I'm still pretty lost. Not even sure what my problem is. Nightclub environment feels very alien to me...

PS: Apologies for whinning but I'm really frustrated :/

I would advice you to try first other types of game, before night clubs, night clubs can be brutal, get started with day game.

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I would advice you to try first other types of game, before night clubs, night clubs can be brutal, get started with day game.

Hey man, thanks for the reply. I have tried day game and I will keep doing it but in my opinion I think it's a waste of time compared to night game. In nightclubs you generally have an idea why the girls are there and they might be drunk or simply more open to strangers than during the day if that makes any sense. Sure it's easier to approach and chat in daygame but that's about it, can't really escalate (unless you are good, which im not

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I will keep doing it though.

you have only been to a nightclub a few times and the whole time you were there, you were just moaning to your friends about the loud music and the competition.

Author:	Zebra95 [ Sun Sep 28, 2014 2:05 am ]
Post subject:	I don't get it (Nightclubs)
I'm a noob. I've been out a few times and I don't get it. I can barely approach but can't do shit after approaching. It is so difficult to approach in a nightclub. It's loud which means almost no talking, so what can i do? Yea I can make eye contact and then approach and start dancing or whatever but that feels weird to me. Guess I need to work on it but I don't know where to begin :/ Also, I have noticed that after you have approached girls can keep you around without being interested, which is a very awkward situation. Oh and most guys who are with a girl were approached by the girl (ive also experienced this) . The huge amount of competition and the fact that girl groups stay in circles blocking off everyone else in the club doesn't help either :/ I need some advice, I've already been given good advice by a few people but I'm still pretty lost. Not even sure what my problem is. Nightclub environment feels very alien to me... PS: Apologies for whinning but I'm really frustrated :/

Author:	skills360 [ Sun Sep 28, 2014 3:19 am ]
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Quote: I'm a noob. I've been out a few times and I don't get it. I can barely approach but can't do shit after approaching. It is so difficult to approach in a nightclub. It's loud which means almost no talking, so what can i do? Yea I can make eye contact and then approach and start dancing or whatever but that feels weird to me. Guess I need to work on it but I don't know where to begin :/ Also, I have noticed that after you have approached girls can keep you around without being interested, which is a very awkward situation. Oh and most guys who are with a girl were approached by the girl (ive also experienced this) . The huge amount of competition and the fact that girl groups stay in circles blocking off everyone else in the club doesn't help either :/ I need some advice, I've already been given good advice by a few people but I'm still pretty lost. Not even sure what my problem is. Nightclub environment feels very alien to me... PS: Apologies for whinning but I'm really frustrated :/ I would advice you to try first other types of game, before night clubs, night clubs can be brutal, get started with day game. Mean while watch my youtube channel on my signature, read some of my blog it covers a lot of club game and dance floor game... But again do something easier first like day game.

Author:	Mastermind9000 [ Sun Sep 28, 2014 7:23 am ]
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Go to clubs and focus on hanging around with lots of dudes. It's no pressure and a good habit.

Author:	PeterJackhammer [ Sun Sep 28, 2014 10:29 am ]
Post subject:	Re: I don't get it (Nightclubs)
Quote: I'm a noob. I've been out a few times and I don't get it. I can barely approach but can't do shit after approaching. It is so difficult to approach in a nightclub. It's loud which means almost no talking, so what can i do? Yea I can make eye contact and then approach and start dancing or whatever but that feels weird to me. Guess I need to work on it but I don't know where to begin :/ Also, I have noticed that after you have approached girls can keep you around without being interested, which is a very awkward situation. Oh and most guys who are with a girl were approached by the girl (ive also experienced this) . The huge amount of competition and the fact that girl groups stay in circles blocking off everyone else in the club doesn't help either :/ I need some advice, I've already been given good advice by a few people but I'm still pretty lost. Not even sure what my problem is. Nightclub environment feels very alien to me... PS: Apologies for whinning but I'm really frustrated :/ Good job.... Now keep going, it's going to be hard it's scary every time but you need to embrace the fear Don't start with easier stuff, keep going to clubs 5 or 7 nights if you can, seven if it's only 30 minutes All you need is an opener (sup my name is x) there you go and go out and experience what ever comes your way. Literally seek to just collect experience and you game will have a solid foundation because of the balls you development...if you don't jump in the deep end now, you will regret it in the future

Author:	Zebra95 [ Sun Sep 28, 2014 10:41 am ]
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Quote: I would advice you to try first other types of game, before night clubs, night clubs can be brutal, get started with day game. Hey man, thanks for the reply. I have tried day game and I will keep doing it but in my opinion I think it's a waste of time compared to night game. In nightclubs you generally have an idea why the girls are there and they might be drunk or simply more open to strangers than during the day if that makes any sense. Sure it's easier to approach and chat in daygame but that's about it, can't really escalate (unless you are good, which im not ) I wil keep doing it though.

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Author:	Dragula [ Sun Sep 28, 2014 10:54 am ]
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Quote: I'm a noob. I've been out a few times and I don't get it. I can barely approach but can't do shit after approaching. It is so difficult to approach in a nightclub. It's loud which means almost no talking, so what can i do? Yea I can make eye contact and then approach and start dancing or whatever but that feels weird to me. Guess I need to work on it but I don't know where to begin :/ Also, I have noticed that after you have approached girls can keep you around without being interested, which is a very awkward situation. Oh and most guys who are with a girl were approached by the girl (ive also experienced this) . The huge amount of competition and the fact that girl groups stay in circles blocking off everyone else in the club doesn't help either :/ I need some advice, I've already been given good advice by a few people but I'm still pretty lost. Not even sure what my problem is. Nightclub environment feels very alien to me... PS: Apologies for whinning but I'm really frustrated :/ Quote: Quote: I would advice you to try first other types of game, before night clubs, night clubs can be brutal, get started with day game. Hey man, thanks for the reply. I have tried day game and I will keep doing it but in my opinion I think it's a waste of time compared to night game. In nightclubs you generally have an idea why the girls are there and they might be drunk or simply more open to strangers than during the day if that makes any sense. Sure it's easier to approach and chat in daygame but that's about it, can't really escalate (unless you are good, which im not ) I will keep doing it though. Man the fuck up. We could throw ' try online game' your way and you will find some way to dismiss it, you're not trying hard enough, i'am willing to bet you, since making this a club game 'goal' - you have only been to a nightclub a few times and the whole time you were there, you were just moaning to your friends about the loud music and the competition. When you get good at this, you start to realise that there isn't that much competition actually, and in fact, it's basically a room full of blokes that don't know what they are doing. (Just like you right now) Essentially, you're at competition for biggest AFC. Mate, you live once, sort it out, stop being so negative and understand that there is a percentage of people that think it;s pretty easy because they have put in the effort. So figure it out. The info is out there (for free). It's all about the attitude and you do not have it at this very moment in time.

Author:	Hunter_Foxe [ Sun Sep 28, 2014 11:10 am ]
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Hey bro, you just need to get more experience. Remember the blonde and brunette i opened on the dancefloor? Then i led them over to the bar and introduced you? Your body language was all wrong. You didnt look relaxed, you were leaning on the bar with your shoulders hunched. Then you ran out of things to say. You're too static, you stood in the same place at the bar all night and you would've stayed there all night if i hadnt dragged you into the circle of girls on the dancefloor. We can go out again on Tuesday if youre free. You just need to put the hours in. It's too early for you to judge, you've only just started clubbing in the past few months. Night game is the easiest type of game if you dont care about rejection. Where else can i be in the same room as 1,000 hot young women? Day game can be slow because there might be 1 hot girl per hour. And she might not even be that hot. Nightgame i can choose the hottest girl and move on to another girl if i get bored or if i spot a hotter girl. Once you realise that 95% of dudes are scared chodes, your perception will change. Once you realise you are the 5% and start acting like it, girls just flock towards your cock.

Author:	Zebra95 [ Sun Sep 28, 2014 12:09 pm ]
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Quote: you have only been to a nightclub a few times and the whole time you were there, you were just moaning to your friends about the loud music and the competition. hahah yep, that's pretty much it

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