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| Author: | stundent2 [ Thu Sep 18, 2014 12:08 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Testing interest |
How should I act if girl is testing my interest in her? Let's say there is a situation where girl expects me to initiate everything 100%, while she is giving absolutely 0 effort to advance the relationship. She expects that I will be floating around her all the time giving her constant attention and doing everything I can to get her attention. So... am I supposed to do that, or not give a damn about the test and just be myself? |
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| Author: | CharlesFinley [ Thu Sep 18, 2014 12:37 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Testing interest |
Are you dating this girl? Or trying to date this girl? |
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| Author: | stundent2 [ Thu Sep 18, 2014 4:09 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Testing interest |
Trying to date (or fuck to be more precise) |
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| Author: | CharlesFinley [ Thu Sep 18, 2014 4:15 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Testing interest |
Well if you're trying to date her, make it obvious... Don't tell her you want to date her, or that you like her (or she's gone... trust me) - just make physical moves. Hold her hand, put your hand on the small of her back, kiss her, etc. Maybe she's not making moves because she doesn't know if you're interested. Bottom line is you're the guy. You're in charge. You set the pace. |
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| Author: | RockstarPUA [ Fri Sep 19, 2014 6:01 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Testing interest |
This just calls for kino escalation, but remembering the key is in the taking away. If you show kino by holding her hand or hugging her, always take it away. If she's interested she'll chase you. She won't be able to help showing interest if she is indeed interested. For example hold her hand, then loosen your grip, if her hand stays, there you have it. If you say u want to kiss her, then turn away and say nothing, if she reinitiates the convo, then she's showing she is open to being kissed. |
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| Author: | J.Daniels [ Fri Sep 19, 2014 6:25 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Testing interest |
As soon as you've made your interest clear (with escalation as instructed in the other posts)... if she then carries on, you initiate 1/3 as much as she does (or the fall back position is once per week) |
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| Author: | n2thevoid [ Fri Sep 19, 2014 10:57 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Testing interest |
Quote: As soon as you've made your interest clear (with escalation as instructed in the other posts)... if she then carries on, you initiate 1/3 as much as she does (or the fall back position is once per week)
LOL God this has to be the dumbest advice I've seen in a while. Do you get laid, I mean ever (prostitutes don't count)? |
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| Author: | J.Daniels [ Sun Sep 21, 2014 1:07 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Testing interest |
Quote: Quote: As soon as you've made your interest clear (with escalation as instructed in the other posts)... if she then carries on, you initiate 1/3 as much as she does (or the fall back position is once per week)
LOL God this has to be the dumbest advice I've seen in a while. Do you get laid, I mean ever (prostitutes don't count)? Well, with that comment, it looks like you're hoping that we can be dumb together!? Yes, I do obviously get laid. Elaborate on how the advice is "dumb"? Specifically, which part of it? I gave the guy a basic guideline to follow, are you going to get all feminist on me and say to keep it 50-50? Why would he want to initiate anything more than once a week? Call her on say a Tuesday, set a date for Friday. Why would he need to contact any more than that? If she has any kind of interest, she'll be initiating the other conversations. But of course, if you think its dumb, it MUST be. I've seen you trolling these forums quite a lot. Random insults, with no logic, nothing constructive etc. I'm open to suggestions on what he should be doing. The best advice I've ever seen you post, was "Get a new girl" |
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