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| Author: | Aitch1 [ Thu Aug 28, 2014 10:48 pm ] |
| Post subject: | organising day 2 by text |
If a girl agrees to go for a day 2 and the conversation by text ends there. should I text her again before the date if it isn't for another 2 days? Or when do I finally text her to make sure I am not being stood up? |
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| Author: | Lulushu [ Thu Aug 28, 2014 11:09 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: organising day 2 by text |
My opinion: Don't text her until the day of the date. Then you can text her to set the tone of the date(you could use an inside joke for it). The more you text her, the more chances you have of pulling the rug from under your own feet. |
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| Author: | CharlesFinley [ Fri Aug 29, 2014 2:21 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: organising day 2 by text |
Quote: If a girl agrees to go for a day 2 and the conversation by text ends there. should I text her again before the date if it isn't for another 2 days? Or when do I finally text her to make sure I am not being stood up?
That's it? She just said "Sure we'll go out"? If you haven't agreed on any details - where to meet, what to do, etc, then figure that shit out first or she's just going to flake on you. |
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| Author: | Gunfighter28 [ Fri Aug 29, 2014 3:15 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: organising day 2 by text |
Hey mate Charles is right you need to talk to her and set up details, but CALL her!!! I repeat CALL her!!!! I've done it both ways before here's how I do it on text. Me: I gotta run, but how be you and I grab a drink at such and such place say this thursday at 9? Her: ok. Sounds good!!! (I set this up 4 days in advance so I felt some filler was nessecary in between) Me: (2days later) hey missy what's wild and crazy in your world? Her: ne response her phone was broken. Me: (day of date) hey I'm stuck in traffic on my way back to town can we meet up say 9:30? Her: ok no problem sounds good!!! ( I really wasn't, but I wanted to make contact so I knew I wasn't gonna have a flake. Now as far as phone calls people say only use the phone to set up dates and logistics. I think that is partly right I say only use texting for that don't have long winded convos over text I find it lacks substance and its hard to create an emotional stir with the girl. So what I suggest to you is call her have a solid convo with her talk to her about anything that comes to mind ie: life, plans, a trip you may be taking then once the convo is flowing well bring up the date set up those details she'll be a lot more open to it once you have her invested in a strong convo I guarantee it! (In case you have any doubts that exact advice was given to me by a natural game mastermind and it worked in my situation with 100% effectivness) |
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| Author: | Dwele [ Sat Aug 30, 2014 3:00 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: organising day 2 by text |
Hey man love the accent in your story. You European kats man! I'll put this into effect. I always have bad follow up with girls when I met them. I can approach my ass off but can't get a first date often only in some cases. If any PUA's are willing to surge in the DC Area I'm down DM me. |
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| Author: | Versalis [ Sat Aug 30, 2014 3:24 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: organising day 2 by text |
I make sure to send at least one simple "Hey you" type text every day before the date. Something I realized in my early teens was how flaking can happen thanks to female friends. They would like a guy, set up a date almost a week in advance, and at some point she'd say "I haven't talked to him in a few days and I almost forgot about the date!" which was very often coupled with "Hmm, I must not be very into him... maybe I won't go after all". Meanwhile, dates set up a day or two later almost never had this problem. So try to make sure that memory lapse doesn't happen. |
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