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How would you pull the trigger here?
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Author:  startinglife [ Wed Aug 27, 2014 12:20 am ]
Post subject:  How would you pull the trigger here?
Hot 19 year old at my new job (I am 27). Just recently met her and worked with her only a few times and never had any 1 on 1 time nor met her outside the job. Couldn't really escalate much during work, but I know she thinks I'm good looking. This is her last day before she moves away, so I asked her out and she said maybe if I have time I will msg you.

Assuming that she msgs me and I take her to a bar (I can get her in without ID) what are some good ways to "pull the trigger" and bring her back to a nearby motel? My family is in this week, so my place is a no go and she is 19 so she still lives with her parents. I only have this 1 night with her before she leaves and I'm not really sure how to play this with a 19 year old. If she thinks I'm physically attractive, should I just be direct and say something like "you know, I thought you were just another typical cute 19 year old face, but hanging outside of work with you made me realize you are actually a really chill girl. I enjoy the chase, it's fun, but you are leaving tomorrow and I don't want to play any games anymore. Let's get out of here and do what we would have eventually done anyway.

Any tips on transitioning from the bar to a motel? She is young, so I feel like if I say let's go to a motel and fuck, she will be way to intimidated.
Author:  AndreasJacobsen [ Wed Aug 27, 2014 7:56 am ]
Post subject:  Re: How would you pull the trigger here?
For me here, I would allow her the opportunity to seduce YOU.

Perhaps saying something like: "last night here before you are moving away, how can we make this unforgettable?"

It is hard to say as I don't know much about this girl but I would be very direct in my body language with her, really spice up the sexual tension (what I mean by letting her seduce you) and then, when it is at its peak... Say something daring and bold. Like:

"Can you feel that in the air, between you and me? Can you feel the chemistry?" Say this or something similar like you are sharing a secret with her.

"I like you girl"

And then leave with her.

Use this for inspiration with the interaction, not as a script :)

Cheers!
- Andreas
Author:  CharlesFinley [ Wed Aug 27, 2014 12:21 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: How would you pull the trigger here?
Quote:
For me here, I would allow her the opportunity to seduce YOU.

Perhaps saying something like: "last night here before you are moving away, how can we make this unforgettable?"

It is hard to say as I don't know much about this girl but I would be very direct in my body language with her, really spice up the sexual tension (what I mean by letting her seduce you) and then, when it is at its peak... Say something daring and bold. Like:

"Can you feel that in the air, between you and me? Can you feel the chemistry?" Say this or something similar like you are sharing a secret with her.

"I like you girl"

And then leave with her.

Use this for inspiration with the interaction, not as a script :)

Cheers!
- Andreas

^ This seems like a great plan if she was the OP's girlfriend heading off to school or something...

He didn't even get a firm 'yes' from her, though.

Her response REEKS of flake: "Maybe if I have time I will msg you"

She won't message him. That's a polite way to say "probably not"...

I would suggest being a lot more definitive with plans. Tell her what you've got planned and what you'd like to do with her (and make it fucking good).

Like, you're way ahead of yourself in your mind right now. You have admittedly never even had a 1:1 conversation with this woman, and you're already planning to get a hotel?

Get her on the date first.
Author:  startinglife [ Wed Aug 27, 2014 3:19 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: How would you pull the trigger here?
Charles, I know I am ahead in my mind right now and if she was staying longer I would build more comfort, but since she is leaving so soon, I'm throwing a hail marry. Because of my limited time with her, the chances of flakes are high as you have said, but one thing this forum has taught me is to take a chance no matter how unlikely (I have nothing to lose). However, I should have made more definitive plans as you have said (lesson for the future).

Yes, we haven't even gone on a date, nor have we actually had a 1 on 1 conversation, but I catch her staring at me often and there is buzz in the work place amongst the girls that I am "hot." I thought that would be a good enough reason to throw a hail marry and be very direct (caveman style). Anyway, assuming she agrees, how would you go about it?
Author:  CharlesFinley [ Wed Aug 27, 2014 3:26 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: How would you pull the trigger here?
"It's really a shame I didn't get to know you better. You seem like a great person. I'd really like to take you out for a farewell drink"...

Say it in person. Don't text it.

Then make it a drink - or 4... Bar hop a little, if it's going well. Get her back to your place... tell her you'd like to show her your fish (I think that one is Hellhound's).
Author:  startinglife [ Wed Aug 27, 2014 11:11 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: How would you pull the trigger here?
All great stuff thanks, but one more thing... it's much easier for me to invite her to my place than a motel. I can make almost any excuse to bring her back to my place, but what are some good ways to get her to a motel (I said above that my family is in this week so my place is no go)?
Author:  CharlesFinley [ Thu Aug 28, 2014 12:50 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: How would you pull the trigger here?
Hotel can be a rough sell... She's not a hooker.

There's no deniability for her. She can't convince herself she's going just to look at your fish (It's what they do... they just need an excuse that isn't sex. Their minds are funny that way).

Going to a hotel means sex. If she's down for sex, it won't be an issue likely... But better might be:

Either of you have a car? Go somewhere secluded... bring condoms. Parked car is a way easier lift than a hotel.
Author:  startinglife [ Thu Aug 28, 2014 11:13 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: How would you pull the trigger here?
I have a car, but wouldn't driving to a secluded area and parking obviously mean hook up also? I'm not trying to make excuses, I am just genuinely trying to find a smooth transition because I will go for it. So I say let's get out of here (bar) and start driving to a secluded location, park my car, and....? Also, what do I say if she asks where we are going during the drive? Appreciate the help.
Author:  CharlesFinley [ Fri Aug 29, 2014 1:51 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: How would you pull the trigger here?
Not sure where you live -- anything scenic?

Girls know what going to park means...
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