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Author:  Gam3r [ Tue Aug 19, 2014 11:42 pm ]
Post subject:  Give A Newbie Some Advice :D
The Problem

I'm 17 with a lame underpaid retail job and I stick at it because I like a hot coworker,8.5, who is 2-3 years older than me. I need help getting her.

Interactions Before I Knew What Game Was

I met her before I knew about game so I have probably fucked things up already :( But here is the extent of our interactions so far. We normally just say hi to each other and smile and she normally asks when I am next in. Our biggest interaction was one shift when it was real boring and we both hung out by the computer for an hour. I found out she was a gamer, a common interest, so we bonded over that and I teased her over owning an xbox not a ps3. She revealed that she had had a ps3 but her ex had taken it. We mainly talked about what you guys called fluff, although I do recall holding strong eye contact whilst she was using the computer (She turned away and looked at me when we talked).

If you want more details on anything, my memory is superb, please ask!

My Game Knowledge To Date

I have just heard about game since coming on holiday after googling how to get girls (I have never kissed a girl or had a girlfriend, but I am average looking, just 0 game and was shy, but I am a shop assistant now so the fear of aproach is not there).
I have now read the game, magic bullet, the art of seduction and what everybody is saying.
So I know the basics now. I'm pretty sure I was friendzoned due to me not saying anything sexual (I was hiding my interest like an AFC).

The Plan

I am going to go back to work ask her how her new thing was (She was real excited about it and will definitely remember). I am then expecting her to ask me about my holiday to which I will reply and fit in that I saw this movie that I know she will like and I expect her to say something along the lines I want to see it/that sounds good. The plan from there is to ask her if she wants to see it with me and maybe grab a bite to eat before or after the film after work one day.

The Help I Need

It will almost definetly be as friends, even a newbie like me can tell from what I have written. I know the basic game but attraction eludes me how could I create some before asking her? Also I have no idea if she will say yes, she could think I am asking her on a date which I am but I feel like with what I have written she may freak. I dunno I overanalyse a lot (I am quite quiet at work, but everyone knows me).

Please give me any and all advice! Sorry for the wall of text and thanks for any help!
Author:  Ardour [ Wed Aug 20, 2014 12:37 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Give A Newbie Some Advice :D
Fuck the movies, sitting in silence for two hours.

The ps3 xbox tease WAS flirting.

Joke around with her at work, show her you're a cool fun guy to hang around with. Invite her over for an all night gaming session. Tease, flirt, escalate, fuck.
Author:  Amuse [ Wed Aug 20, 2014 12:39 am ]
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Although I still may be a newb, you should be straight up and be confident... you can always control the outcome, ive had girls say hell no to me and I still end up in their beds buaha..
Author:  Versalis [ Wed Aug 20, 2014 1:37 am ]
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You're getting this wrong. The date doesn't matter. You need sexual attraction. If you have that and ask her out, she will pretty much agree to anything within reason(don't invite her to your forest shack to play "bobbing for pickled fetuses").

The date is not important. I don't like movie dates, provided you do nothing before or after it. If you can do something lite first, and then go grab some food before the movie... they can be fine. And at your level of experience, time around her is probably useful.
Author:  Apples185 [ Wed Aug 20, 2014 1:58 am ]
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Stop crushing like a bitch and meet other girls as well.
Author:  Gam3r [ Wed Aug 20, 2014 5:28 am ]
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The thing is I am 17 live with my parents and have younger brothers so I am not going to invite her around mine. I will do some approaches for practice building attractoon.
I will try build attraction and then ask her for a meal or whatever happens. Well thanks anyway guys :)
Author:  Ardour [ Wed Aug 20, 2014 5:26 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Give A Newbie Some Advice :D
If you're not willing to invite a friend round to your parents house to hang out and play ps3 with you, it could be a while before you get laid.

Fair enough, depending on how strict your parents are and how open with them you are, it might be unlikely for her to be allowed to stay overnight. But an afternoon? You can still flirt massively, escalate with playful kino and kiss that hot bitch.
Author:  Warped Mindless [ Wed Aug 20, 2014 5:31 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Give A Newbie Some Advice :D
Quote:
The thing is I am 17 live with my parents and have younger brothers so I am not going to invite her around mine. I will do some approaches for practice building attractoon.
I will try build attraction and then ask her for a meal or whatever happens. Well thanks anyway guys :)
Forget about building attraction with women. Focus on building arousal instead.

Few main reasons:

1) A woman can become attracted to you but still wont sleep with you. She may have a BF shes in love with, she may be sexually unavailable in other ways. Maybe some people called her a slut and shes gonna be a "good girl now" in order to "show them!" Women become attracted to multiple guys thru out her day but she sure as hell doesn't fuck them all.

2) A women doesn't have to like you to fuck you. You just have to turn them on.

3) Building arousal shows you which women ARE sexually available. These are the women you want to focus on.

4) If you get a woman aroused she will pretty much automatically become attracted but if you only get her attracted then you also have to get her aroused.
Author:  Gam3r [ Wed Aug 20, 2014 9:35 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Give A Newbie Some Advice :D
Quote:
If you're not willing to invite a friend round to your parents house to hang out and play ps3 with you, it could be a while before you get laid.

Fair enough, depending on how strict your parents are and how open with them you are, it might be unlikely for her to be allowed to stay overnight. But an afternoon? You can still flirt massively, escalate with playful kino and kiss that hot bitch.
The thing is if she did come round to play ps3 I have two brothers who look like me and are younger which would make me look young and its in a communal place where my younger brother normally plays on his pc, for me it just wouldn't feel comfortable. Thanks for the advice though. I will flirt with her at work and if I see some IOIs I may try something but otherwise I am just going to practice my daygame for confidence.
Author:  Gam3r [ Wed Aug 20, 2014 9:37 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Give A Newbie Some Advice :D
Quote:
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The thing is I am 17 live with my parents and have younger brothers so I am not going to invite her around mine. I will do some approaches for practice building attractoon.
I will try build attraction and then ask her for a meal or whatever happens. Well thanks anyway guys :)
Forget about building attraction with women. Focus on building arousal instead.

Few main reasons:

1) A woman can become attracted to you but still wont sleep with you. She may have a BF shes in love with, she may be sexually unavailable in other ways. Maybe some people called her a slut and shes gonna be a "good girl now" in order to "show them!" Women become attracted to multiple guys thru out her day but she sure as hell doesn't fuck them all.

2) A women doesn't have to like you to fuck you. You just have to turn them on.

3) Building arousal shows you which women ARE sexually available. These are the women you want to focus on.

4) If you get a woman aroused she will pretty much automatically become attracted but if you only get her attracted then you also have to get her aroused.
How would I do that?
Author:  Warped Mindless [ Wed Aug 20, 2014 9:50 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Give A Newbie Some Advice :D
Quote:
Quote:
Quote:
The thing is I am 17 live with my parents and have younger brothers so I am not going to invite her around mine. I will do some approaches for practice building attractoon.
I will try build attraction and then ask her for a meal or whatever happens. Well thanks anyway guys :)
Forget about building attraction with women. Focus on building arousal instead.

Few main reasons:

1) A woman can become attracted to you but still wont sleep with you. She may have a BF shes in love with, she may be sexually unavailable in other ways. Maybe some people called her a slut and shes gonna be a "good girl now" in order to "show them!" Women become attracted to multiple guys thru out her day but she sure as hell doesn't fuck them all.

2) A women doesn't have to like you to fuck you. You just have to turn them on.

3) Building arousal shows you which women ARE sexually available. These are the women you want to focus on.

4) If you get a woman aroused she will pretty much automatically become attracted but if you only get her attracted then you also have to get her aroused.
How would I do that?
Sexually escalating. Look in my signature and click the link beside "escalation guide"
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