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| Author: | AlwaysTrying [ Sat Aug 16, 2014 5:35 pm ] |
| Post subject: | I never know what to say in these situations. |
I text her, she replies back, after 2 or 3 back and forths, she stops replying. I send another text, cocky funny. Then one more, honest with a little after-taste of independence and "Oh well" kinda feel. Then after that they almost always text back "Hey sorry, I [insert excuse/reason here]". A guy who was amazing at pick-up that I use to talk to told me everytime that happens that if she moved on or didn't care at all about me, they: -Wouldn't bother texting back after I had the last 3 texts sent. -Wouldn't start with an apology. -Wouldn't even feel the need to explain themselves. So what do I do in these situations? This is what I was thinking of sending: "Who's this? Just kidding. I usually give it 5 days before I delete someone. So Santa brought your phone back? How nice." Thoughts? Suggestions? Better options? |
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| Author: | Versalis [ Sat Aug 16, 2014 10:34 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: I never know what to say in these situations. |
Texting serves two purposes. Setting up meetings, and (sometimes) touching base and keeping you in her mind if you two won't meet up for a while. But two is merely an extension of one. Meaning, the plan is to meet up, you're texting her to remind of you in the meantime. 2-3 texts in a day is plenty. I rarely do much more than that with girls I'm actually seeing. The only time I have a text conversation with a girl(5+ exchanges), is a situation where I would have the same conversation with a fat girl or a man. There is basically no such thing as "text game". There is pretty much "text competence". The only exception I make to this, is if the texts somehow turn sexual, very fast. Then we may go on for a few exchanges. But even that should be fairly short. Sometimes a girl is sort of attracted to you, but it's not really ON for whatever reason. Pinging her once a week for a month or so is fine. Girls are fickle and the girl who doesn't want to go out now, may be downright anxious to see you two weeks later. But the thing is, there is almost nothing you can do about that over text. You can ping her and see. If she's interested, she is. If she's not, no amount of "cocky funny" texts will make her want to meet up. |
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| Author: | dtrak [ Sun Aug 17, 2014 12:37 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: I never know what to say in these situations. |
Texting = communication. If she doesnt text back, shes not interested, simple. Either your first impression was weak or she just doesnt see where you are going with the whole thing. Be clear in your intent. I useually just text to set up a date. If she's being very receptive I might text back and forth but only if I feel like it, im a busy man I got shit to do. Girls pick up on subcommunications alot, if you send needy ass texts trying to "game her" she will know your lame. If you sent purposeful texts, or light t3xts that amuse you, she will know the difference. But like I said, you want face time not text time, your not going to fuck your phone. Lol. |
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| Author: | GamesSN [ Sun Aug 17, 2014 2:50 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: I never know what to say in these situations. |
Some people just don't like texting. Other people do. It's not one set way where everyone hates texting people. If she doesn't reply much she probably just doesn't like to text a lot so do as previously suggested and touch base with these women. Others like to text and keep interactions up between you and them for these girls just do whatever and give a "I don't really care where this conversation goes" once you know you're gonna fuck her anyway. |
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| Author: | Ardour [ Sun Aug 17, 2014 10:50 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: I never know what to say in these situations. |
I would even add that sending a further two messages seems a little needy. If she doesn't reply, leave it a few days then reopen. Then if she doesn't reply, move on. |
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| Author: | dtrak [ Mon Aug 18, 2014 3:08 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: I never know what to say in these situations. |
One of my favorite things to do after a text is not responded is to follow it with a simple "?" Couple hours later lol But useually if your having to do shit like that means shes a bit off about you, but I never give up Im strict about my three times rule Got nothing to lose for trying After that they useually respond But I useually have a purpose behind my texts Do you? If they dont respond to that ill say sumthin witty the next day then give up/move on Is all about operating how you feel, if your less invested in the way you do things she will pick up on that. If your being needy about it she will pick up on that too and be repelled by it. Thread carefully lol. Most of time guys feel the need to play games through text, I say, cut the crap and get to the point, if your initial interaction was solid you dont need the whole pointless text banter which in my opinion rarely works anyway. Tighten up. |
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