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| Author: | Starkz [ Sun Aug 10, 2014 11:05 pm ] |
| Post subject: | difficult approach |
So i'll make this as short as possible. I'm working at a fishing lodge in the middle of nowhere. ( I am 19) And we have guests that come every week that pay a lot to come fish here. Anyway, this week 2 girls ( 1 hb ) came on the plane delivery for the week, but they are 18 and with their parents. How should I approach this? |
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| Author: | Cdharders [ Mon Aug 11, 2014 1:11 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: difficult approach |
There needs to be a lot more details for guys to be able to help you. What are the logistics? How often do you see these girls? In situations like this where you're the professional, I encourage guys to wait for the girl to make the first move unless the reputation at your work as the horn dog is not a big deal. When I was a night club promoter, I started going very direct on text. Didn't really matter since it was part of the industry, but as a fishing person, things might be a little different. |
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| Author: | Starkz [ Mon Aug 11, 2014 1:20 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: difficult approach |
Well I'm not worried about being professional because I'm up here visiting friends. Anyway I don't know these girls they have a mom and dad. and I don't know how to approach them without it being awkward.. because they seem like the type to be that way. I'll answer any questions you need to know other than those. Much appreciated Starkz |
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| Author: | Ardour [ Mon Aug 11, 2014 1:30 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: difficult approach |
These girls are probably there because their parents dragged them. Try using your local knowledge and offering them alternative entertainment, meeting up during your time off to show them {insert local fun thing here}. I used to run weddings at a hotel, there was always a HB to hit on. If you can convince them its not a regular occurrence you can game like normal. but then these girls were drinking long and hard, a bit of DHV and it was easy. |
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| Author: | Starkz [ Mon Aug 11, 2014 1:41 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: difficult approach |
What about the parents? |
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| Author: | Ardour [ Mon Aug 11, 2014 2:13 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: difficult approach |
The game must be short. If they are the type of girl who is going to sleep with an employee whilst on holiday with their parents, then it's a half done deal already. If not, it could be harder and you may not have time enough to work it fully, but they may still be up for hanging out. Either way, when not with their parents, make a comical quip about how they must be REALLY bored fishing with their olds, maybe they would like to hang out with some people their own age and do something more exciting, get a number and arrange a meet. You'll find most parents are a bit more lax when on holiday, they are there to enjoy themselves too. If the parents happen to question you (out of earshot of the HBs), be professional and courteous. Exaggerate that its purely as friends, that you were only offering under the guise of customer service, and that if they're really not happy then you shall not continue. |
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| Author: | Mastermind9000 [ Mon Aug 11, 2014 5:32 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: difficult approach |
Be glad to meet the parents. Chat them up and tell them they did a good job raising such a wonderful daughter. Show that you don't feel there is anything wrong or sneaky about flirting with their daughter, because there isn't. |
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| Author: | Starkz [ Mon Aug 11, 2014 7:07 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: difficult approach |
Update on things : So I talked to the parents quite a bit, and I really got to know the Dad... I don't know their Mom that well but she seems to not dislike me. Anyway, at the end of the day, we ended up throwing the football back and fourth because the sisters were hanging out with their family and little brother. Anyway I approached and played with them.. The Dad seems to like me a lot. I talked to the sister thats not so hot and talked her up more than I talked the HB up. However, I cut in and started talking to the HB after a while... I asked her some questions yada yada.. I told her about me convincing my Grandma to go on a roller coaster because we were talking about where she lived. Anyway, the Dad initiated that the girls should head in. And they all did... So I should have left early I guess that was a mistake. But otherwise the HB was polite and a good conversation. I didn't recognize any iois except for at dinner she was checking me out... I have 3 more days till I leave. Should I strike up a conversation with only her during happy hour? should I play more hard to get... ? I'm debating on what I should do tomorrow. -Starkz |
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| Author: | n2thevoid [ Mon Aug 11, 2014 7:10 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: difficult approach |
You should talk to her and escalate things, otherwise this is all just mental masterbation and worst than soft core porn. |
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