When disqualifying goes bad.

There was never any need for that, you just got annoying to her rather than her giving you a big fat juicy opening to segwaying into something sexual you start DQ'ing her.

Wow. You are an ahole!

So I was talking to this girl:

She said something about her ex that she was the dom something like:
- He was too nice, just like I want a guy to be
- Ohhh too bad, I'm too stubborn for you we'll never be together me and you
- Hahaha, actually it's the other way around
- Okay, bottom line is we can never be together
- You're an asshole

Why did she say I was an asshole, I mean I answered, No I'm not an asshole, I'm the biggest asshole on earth and what she said didn't shake me at all
But I'm just wondering, did I make a mistake, or did she say that just because she was wondering in her mind "why does this guy keep on saying that, he must want me!?"
If I did a mistake I hope you tell me what I should've said, thanks

You didn't help.

You didn't create enough value so when you disqualified her she didn't feel like she was losing you.

You basically rejected her without putting in her mind what a great guy you and how lucky she is for being in your presence - of course her reaction will be negative.

If a girl that you are not attracted to comes up to you and told you that the 2 of you won't work out, you just laugh at her and say ok or tell her to get lost.

Solution - create enough value BEFORE whipping out grenades like disqualifiers.

So how do you know if you have enough value(attraction) to use disqualifiers?

- stop talking and see if she picks up the conversation
- good eye-contact from her and twirling her hair
- she touches you on your arm, shoulder or back
- tell her to hold your drink, leave and if she is still there when you come back then you golden

Only use disqualifiers if you getting these signals above, otherwise prepare to get slapped through the face or swore at or even thrown out by the bouncers of the venue.