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Author:  stundent2 [ Mon Jul 21, 2014 6:57 pm ]
Post subject:  What makes you boring?
What do girls find 'boring'? I've read that girls don't like boring guys but how do I know if I'm boring? Is AFC the boring guy, or a confident guy can be boring too?
Author:  Versalis [ Mon Jul 21, 2014 8:09 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: What makes you boring?
Boring can come in more than one stripe. Yes, you can be confident and boring. Those two things have almost nothing to do with each other.

Interesting is the opposite of boring. Basically, being interesting means keeping her engaged. That would be different things for different girls.

One girl is interested in dancing, the other girl wants to talk about expressionism and the other girl wants to do cocaine with you in the back of a van.

A pretty good rule of thumb, if she's flicking through her phone, she's bored.
Author:  hugge [ Mon Jul 21, 2014 9:58 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: What makes you boring?
When you are bored yourself, you will also become boring. With other words, if you are among boring people you will become just as boring (even to them!). This applies to girls as well. If they bore you, you will bore them, and no one gets laid. What I have learned from this is to avoid boring people altogether. I let myself be attracted to those who have game themselves, who are the center of attention, because they will bring me into state and boost my own game.
Author:  recci [ Wed Jul 23, 2014 11:57 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: What makes you boring?
Be cocky and funny around women and you'll never been seen as boring. Answer questions with straight answers, ask normal boring questions and talk about mundane things such as work and you will be seen as boring. Everything a woman says should be used as a way to tease and bust on her or otherwise make light of within reason.
Author:  GamesSN [ Thu Jul 24, 2014 12:13 am ]
Post subject:  Re: What makes you boring?
Being too interested or involved is boring and uninteresting. A good rule you can follow is to keep jumping from conversation to conversation and allow yourself to be a small bit distracted.
Author:  n2thevoid [ Thu Jul 24, 2014 4:13 am ]
Post subject:  Re: What makes you boring?
What makes you boring is worrying about entertaining the girl. Chill the fuck out and be yourself. You'll pick up on conversational threads at various points as the conversation flows.
Author:  BrandonMarshall [ Sat Jul 26, 2014 3:07 am ]
Post subject:  Re: What makes you boring?
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What do girls find 'boring'? I've read that girls don't like boring guys but how do I know if I'm boring? Is AFC the boring guy, or a confident guy can be boring too?
be in touch with your core self and speak to her core. Meaning drop the "Social Mask". Your conversations should never be about interviewing her about stupid boring things in her life. Focus on interesting things she's passionate about and what you're passionate about. Shit talk about something interesting going on in the world and get her opinion about it.

In my opinion confident guys usually wouldn't be boring... because the boredom comes from safe conversation. If a man is confident he's not going to resort to "Safe" and "boring" conversation. I mean yeah it's possible for a confident guy to be boring but less likely.
Author:  hugge [ Mon Jul 28, 2014 1:57 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: What makes you boring?
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In my opinion confident guys usually wouldn't be boring... because the boredom comes from safe conversation. If a man is confident he's not going to resort to "Safe" and "boring" conversation. I mean yeah it's possible for a confident guy to be boring but less likely.
Me and my friends and everyone I know in this world are living contradictions to that statement. It's all very easy. If I'm not involved in a conversation about something I'm interested in, I will grow bored. So my super-confident friends with superior conversational skills can still be boring as hell! To me. It works the same way the other way around too, obviously - I can be boring even if I have lots of things to say. And we, me and my friends, can really talk about ANYTHING! For instance, a friend of mine likes to talk about his sexual preferences, how he likes to deep throat dildos and shit. That stuff bores me, and makes other people embarassed. I'm not interested to listen to it, and I have nothing to add to the conversation. But it is certainly not a "safe" topic.
Author:  Monsignor Crisanto [ Mon Jul 28, 2014 7:20 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: What makes you boring?
Calibrate depending on the girl. As a general rule, if you can give girls the emotional roller coaster ride, you'll always be interesting to girls.
Author:  n2thevoid [ Mon Jul 28, 2014 7:44 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: What makes you boring?
Not having any ambition in life.
Author:  Hunter_Foxe [ Mon Jul 28, 2014 9:35 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: What makes you boring?
The definition of boring is if your hobbies are passive instead of active.

Dude #1 is Passive and likes: Watching TV, gaming, going to see sports, going to the movies, working in an office.

Dude #2 is Active and likes: Playing an instrument, playing sports, Film-making/Photography, drawing/painting, running his own business, sky-diving, drug-dealing (not recommended), motorcycling, surfing, backpacking (yes even lame backpacking), dancing, bodybuilding, speaking other languages.

Guess which guy is more attractive?
Author:  Animepic [ Tue Jul 29, 2014 4:14 am ]
Post subject:  Re: What makes you boring?
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The definition of boring is if your hobbies are passive instead of active.

Dude #1 is Passive and likes: Watching TV, gaming, going to see sports, going to the movies, working in an office.

Dude #2 is Active and likes: Playing an instrument, playing sports, Film-making/Photography, drawing/painting, running his own business, sky-diving, drug-dealing (not recommended), motorcycling, surfing, backpacking (yes even lame backpacking), dancing, bodybuilding, speaking other languages.

Guess which guy is more attractive?
Wow. :shock:
Author:  Hint [ Tue Jul 29, 2014 5:16 am ]
Post subject:  Re: What makes you boring?
What do you mean by boring?
That's so broad
Author:  sugarwallz616 [ Tue Jul 29, 2014 5:20 am ]
Post subject:  Re: What makes you boring?
If you and the woman in question have a lot in common that you already have something working into your favor.

The more general knowledge and hobbies that you are into/interested in the better you will be.

Granted that you have been working on your internal game as well as your outer game you should already be on your way to become a more interesting man.

I know plenty of guys that are not the most attractive, but they are ambitious and well-rounded men that are willing to try other things.

My suggestion... Do! Do whatever you always wanted to do with your life, you always wanted to be on a mountain? Have you always wanted to get on the roller coaster? have you always wanted to give a Grizzly Bear a high five? Do it!

Not only will you will be a more successful, confidant man but you will also come across that way with women too, it also helps with women that flake

Oh did that girl you were supposed to meet up with flake? Thats cool just go have a beer with the Bear you high-fived that one time.
Author:  Hint [ Tue Jul 29, 2014 5:40 am ]
Post subject:  Re: What makes you boring?
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The definition of boring is if your hobbies are passive instead of active.

Dude #1 is Passive and likes: Watching TV, gaming, going to see sports, going to the movies, working in an office.

Dude #2 is Active and likes: Playing an instrument, playing sports, Film-making/Photography, drawing/painting, running his own business, sky-diving, drug-dealing (not recommended), motorcycling, surfing, backpacking (yes even lame backpacking), dancing, bodybuilding, speaking other languages.

Guess which guy is more attractive?
I'm a passive type of guy myself. I do a lot of the things the 'first' guy does but when I'm out and about and always doing things to ether entertain myself or someone else.

I'm still confused, does the op mean a boring lifestyle ie: guy 1
Or having boring conversations which could apply to both guy 1 and 2

Generally speaking guy 2 would probably seem more interesting but it's how they portray them selfs. If your doing those things for attention and don't actually like doing things like that then it comes off as not attractive. Also if your bragging about what you do that's a huge turn off.

Both guys can be interesting or completely boring . Its your frame of self, and your personality that tells you of your boring or not.

For instance if a bunch of your friends ask you if you want to go out for some drinks and you say no, then your probably a boring person. If you always order the chicken at your favorite restaurant that you always goto then your probably boring. If you have the same routine getting up in the morning ,your probably boring.

Honestly though if you think your boring try doing something that YOU find interesting. Try spicing up your life a lil. Maybe something you've always wanted to do or try. Could be anything , like trying that new sub at subway everyone is talking about, maybe you had a dream of becoming a rock star in your life; buy a gatuar and learn how to play. Ever want to do something for charty or for a great cause? Volunteer at a soup kitchen, do a walk for cancer. Just some suggestions but you get the idea. I'd also start watching or reading the news, could help spice up some conversations your have.
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