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| Author: | Deepmind [ Sat Jul 19, 2014 1:46 pm ] |
| Post subject: | After the attraction |
I have picked up many woman, but my problem is keeping them and building the relationship at the beginning. Why do women tend to pull back even when they have shown interest, and I have the number and sweet words etc? |
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| Author: | DaveP [ Mon Jul 21, 2014 7:56 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: After the attraction |
You need to give more details on what you are doing and how the girls start responding to you when you start losing them before anyone here can really start to tell you where you are most likely going wrong specifically. |
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| Author: | Deepmind [ Mon Jul 21, 2014 2:47 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: After the attraction |
Quote: You need to give more details on what you are doing and how the girls start responding to you when you start losing them before anyone here can really start to tell you where you are most likely going wrong specifically.
Well I remember two latest.First one was in the bar last weekend. Twins. We had a great time with her and her sister. They really liked me and said it so too. Both of them. I asked one of the sisters phone number but she felt out of battery in her phone and so did I, so hers sister took my number in her phone. The evening went by, we went to eat and had fun. They really liked me and they said it many times after the phone number thing.. We hugged and went to our homes. This was the first time I saw them. We talked about sexual things and all the shit and it went really well. Now it's been 3 days and no call. Second one is longer case. We emailed 4 months. After 2 months we started calling. After 3 months we fell in love. After 3,5 months we still hadn't even seen so I left her. Now we talked last friday and she cried in the phone because of our situation. I told her what I am, I mean some personal stuff, but it was like "I am who I am and if you don't respond to it buy buy". After the call she messaged that she felt that she could really be herself with me the first time now and she said that she should give me the natural benefits that I deserve. I just replied "Yes you should". I also said in the phone that in this point I want more, and it is keeping in touch more and seeing finally. She said she would like to call me multiple times a day if it's possible. Now it's been 3 days and she hadn't replied. I called her saturday, the day after the call, because we talked about it in the phone. No replies.. After the next day I said that my foots are on the ground, so to speak, and I've become realistic abaut the situation. After that I messaged that "When I said to you that I need more and you arent still giving it, you just want to hurt me" I know.. propable phatetic.. We don't have anything between us in my mind anymore. It is propably the only right mindset now. I know I lack patience and I've been practicing it now with realistic thinking. So I know that the impatience is a major problem for me and I know some things that I did wrong, but could you point me some too? |
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| Author: | TheFury [ Mon Jul 21, 2014 3:48 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: After the attraction |
You may be misinterpreting her interest level. I wrote about this on my website. A lot of times girls are nice but it doesn't mean they are interested. |
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| Author: | Eddie Fews [ Mon Jul 21, 2014 3:58 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: After the attraction |
I use the blitz tactic with women man.. I never play it cool, because i completely believe in my ability to get them attracted to me eventually. The first 2-3 calls are made by me; I don't sit around waiting for them to reciprocate until I know that i have them hooked. I don't calibrate, i don't push/pull/... I push push push push.. And then I don't ever have to push again. Once their hooked, their hooked. There are so many distractions today, it makes it tough to keep it up. Theres iPhones, APPS, work, school, family, future, billboard, television, iPods etc.) I can't even keep up with the women I have in my life. And I'm sure hot women have more options with men than I have with women. So their like me times 10x. |
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