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| Author: | Nuclear735 [ Fri Jul 18, 2014 1:37 pm ] |
| Post subject: | when to talk money? |
I grow up not having much so it doesn't take much to make me happy. I've had a solid 6 figure income for the past 6 years. If you look at me and how I live you'd guess $50k. My work is complex and intense. I travel lots and work crazy hours. I enjoy this work. At 34 I really want a family before that ship sails. At what point do you mention income when dating a woman or should you? 2 months in they bail or flake out on me because of my schedule. I never talked money because it's not a big deal to me but it can be a driving force when you lived pay to pay or other situations. I always thought the right girl would understand my work and not care about income. Thanks guys. |
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| Author: | Jay (Majik) [ Fri Jul 18, 2014 2:06 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: when to talk money? |
Don't EVER mention how much money you make to a girl. Otherwise, you're just gonna have girls who want to use you for money. |
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| Author: | TheFury [ Fri Jul 18, 2014 2:14 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: when to talk money? |
You don't outright mention it.. but you hint it at. I disagree with Majikal, most women are actually NOT gold diggers but they still want someone who can at least take care of themselves and is successful etc. |
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| Author: | Jay (Majik) [ Fri Jul 18, 2014 3:01 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: when to talk money? |
Quote: You don't outright mention it.. but you hint it at. I disagree with Majikal, most women are actually NOT gold diggers but they still want someone who can at least take care of themselves and is successful etc.
Not saying that they are gold diggers... But if you give them the opportunity to use you, they will.
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| Author: | Nuclear735 [ Fri Jul 18, 2014 3:26 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: when to talk money? |
Thanks guys. Most women I've dated are professionals. Last one was a doctor and we never seen each other. She took an assignment to a 3rd world country "to save people". I cant compete with that. Anyway, I usually say "it's decent money". I don't want to look like a loser that just works with no end state goals. |
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| Author: | Eddie Fews [ Fri Jul 18, 2014 4:06 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: when to talk money? |
You're only problem is that fact that you're letting how much money you make and your availability worry you. You are not thinking like a guy who has options with women. Any woman will adjust herself accordingly when she feels like she is in the presence of a good man. It won't matter what you're situation is. If you're strong, attractive, and know how to make her feel like a woman; she will take that once a week over a guy who can't that can see her everyday. The issue isn't your money; the issue is how you are letting the amount of money you make affect your game. You're a working man, with an income, thats all women really care about in the security department. I've dated professional women (doctors, lawyers etc.) when I didn't have a dime in my pocket. I was a broke, lazy, hang around the house an play video games and workout kind of guy. But it didn't matter because I knew how to make a woman feel like one. |
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| Author: | neo87 [ Fri Jul 18, 2014 7:31 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: when to talk money? |
If you're dating a professional woman, she should be smart enough to estimate your income from your job position and company. So you don't need to mention figures. If you're dating a non professional don't mention figures anyway. |
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