I don't think you're doing much to build attraction and escalate with these text messages.

They're playful and not bad, sure... but they aren't getting you anywhere.

I'd try calling again. Have a couple laughs and then ask about Friday.

You need to move it forward or it'll go stale.

Hey mate the thing I like about older women is they know what they want ( most of them) and they don't fuck around with games like a lot of younger girls do. I'm 26 I dated a 37 year old woman she liked me for my directness/boldness I liked her because she didn't fuck around playing games. If I wanted to hang out call or text it was on provided we weren't busy with other things. None of this worrying well if I say yes she might think I don't have anything else to do which might make me look needy.

Onto your question I'd say call her. This girl sounds into you, but it seems like she wanted it, but you ran into some lmr/asd. Texting is handy, but don't rely on it too much and realize the power a proper phone call has. My suggestion is call her have a good convo keep it light keep in fun keep it sensual. Start off easy get her thinking about sex without bringing it up directly end the call on a high note by setting up your date in the park. If you can have a strong phone call like I describedand follow it up with a solid date which it sounds like you're more than capable of asd/lmr will be non exsistant for you my friend.

Hope that helps good luck!!

Use text as a tool for meeting up, nothing more. Instead of long text convos with no goal or outcome, on the next girl could go with something like:
"hey u...had fun last nite; grab a drink this wknd?"

That's it. No need to be clever on text. Building up sexual attraction via text is pointless unless you are sitting next to the girl.

I'm 37 and was chillin at my apt complex pool about 1.5 months ago (mid June). There was a woman there I knew from complex and she had her friend with her. She was damn hot but, you could tell she has some miles. Long story short we hit it off and she asked for my number in a slick way but, I called her on it and teased her a bit. I come to find out she is 45 with a 12 year old. Now, she is cool, fun, and hot (in my book).

A week later I'm at pool again and she txts me that we should get a drink. I had to work so she said "ok maybe another time?" I was stuck on this other woman (30) hard and started developing oneitus which of course led to her giving me the LJBF talk around the 4th of july.

So, I shoot this 45 year old a text on July 7th asking if she wanted to get a drink...she responds the next day...Saying she would love to, blah blah blah...I tell her im busy Tues/Wed/Friday but, I can do Thurs...she agrees...we meet...things go well...she invites me back to her place...fool around...try to escalate...she wont let me...and she says "You can't stay over. I have 2 reasons why. Do you want to know what they are?"...I said, "Nah, it's cool. I'm going to jet."...Grab her by the hand and lead her outside to my car...Heavy goodbye makeout session and then she subtly pushes me away saying "I have to leave"...ya know, the kind of "you have to leave or, I'll regret myself in the morning goodbyes"

This was last week...A few (2) txts back and forth with me teasing her about stuff I learned about her on our date...So, you think I should txt this woman and be like "Hey, I'm busy tonight and Friday but, I'm free Saturday afternoon. Lets get together."

I was going to invite her to a park near where I live. I go there to take dog for a walk and its pretty nice. I guess my question is...If she agrees, should I ask her to chill at my apt complex pool later in the day or, ya'll think that comes off as needy? aka...i didn't have plans already...etc...

I've been out of the dating scene for like 3 years due to RL issues and I don't want to fall back into my "niceguyism". Then again, I've never dated a woman in her 40's so not sure if the same type of "game" would apply to her as say a late 20's early 30's woman...

Thoughts?

I'm 24 and attract mainly older women. I don't do well with younger women often. If there's anything I've discovered about them, it's that they HATE indecisiveness. If they offer you something (I find that older women will offer more things e.g., come stay with me, I'll cook for you, etc.) don't hesitate, just accept it if you plan on laying them unless it's something you don't like or just don't feel comfortable with.

Was offered to stay at a 38 year old single mom's house Saturday, but had to help with a gig instead. Something is very attractive about older women that know what they want. No bullshit kind of women as stated earlier.

And whoever said if you're attractive it helps +1. A LOT of older women are on the prowl for a young cub to shred their cougar ass up. I'm quite sure women peak sexually in their 30's / 40's.

Best of luck with the coog's and the milf hunting.