I honestly believe our views have been skewed by the media so maybe some of us that take in a little too much, we start to judge physical attractiveness based on them though it probably took 4 hours in a makeup chair to achieve that look.
I have no problem looking at pretty girls on tv and movies, but we're lying to ourselves by showcasing people that are basically models and not a true reflection of society. I get it though, that's what we want to see and if one agency were to change the way they do business, someone else would take their place.
So my take on all this is that there is very slight chance you are aiming way too high, so one of the tricks I read about on here was to stop watching porn. Porn (all media as well) is altering what you find attractive and sexy, so it could be that you're looking for the woman Cinemax introduced you to, not this cutie over here waiting for someone to buy her a drink. It may be worth a shot.
Overall though, I think it's a stupid bit of advice your friend told you. I had one friend once tell me to say "I love you" like drinking water. His reasoning was that you'll be desensitized to saying the words, that way you can speak them to any girl and you'd get laid. One size doesn't fit all. Anyway, another major downside to dating girls you're not attracted to, is that if some women get attention that are not used to getting it, they will not let go. I'm talking about literally popping up at every event you go to, texting, facebooking, tweeting, etc.
But yeah, I think you should stick to the type you want (unless it's an unnatural obsession with a specific type) though you should also try something a little different every now and then.
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