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| Author: | Pinkfloyd123 [ Sun Jul 13, 2014 7:44 am ] |
| Post subject: | What type of messages to ignore? |
Basically I never ignore a girls text or msg. If some wants to get to me, I'll usually wait an hour or so if I'm busy and get back to them. But now I'm learning to ignore some things and not respond to EVERY msg I get. I notice more experienced Pua's do this. I feel if I do it ill come across as a jerk and lose her and that it's rude. Yet I think in some cases it's important. What are some general rules about which messages you should ignore. Ex 1: a girl literally tried to argue with me and took out all her distraction out on me cause she was having a bad day once I asked how she was. I didn't respond. She became Ftaid that she'd loose me and started texting me the next day saying she's sorry and it made her look foolish. Ex 2. I was recently in a relationship with a girl that was crazy about me yet at some points she said negative things to me and caused me to be insecure. She still follows me on Fb though I haven't gond to msg her first in months. I'm the nice guy, too much! She comes on my status' every so often I usually make banter and end it. Recently she out of the asks me if my band can perform at an upcoming wedding next year on FB. I didn't respond. I felt I shouldn't. My band wouldn't want to do it sad I feel it wouldn't go anywhere. Did I make the right move? (Please speak on how to avoid being too nice) |
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| Author: | Pinkfloyd123 [ Sun Jul 13, 2014 11:42 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: What type of messages to ignore? |
Opinions? |
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| Author: | Playboi_ [ Sun Jul 13, 2014 11:47 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: What type of messages to ignore? |
It depends man. If you are ignoring, just to ignore, you have already lost and are investing in her opinion too much. You just want her to be freaking out over no quick response. If you have nothing to add to the convo or don't feel like some dumb chit chat that IS NOT about setting time and place to hook up, then fuck em. |
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| Author: | Eddie Fews [ Mon Jul 14, 2014 4:37 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: What type of messages to ignore? |
Quote: I feel if I do it ill come across as a jerk and lose her and that it's rude.
I'm sure you'll get some great responses to this but I just want to say something really quick. If you aren't willing to lose her, you can never actually have her. You have to always be willing to lose the girl. It turns her own; it lets her know that you're perfectly fine standing on your own too feet. It lets her know that you're a man that is confident enough to recreate any situation for yourself that may or may not work out the first time. As far as what to ignore. Listen to yourself; trust your gut. When you get that " I don't want to respond to that feeling" DON'T. Listen to yourself. Your gut knows best. Don't go against your own nature, just so you can please someone on the other end. YOU come first. |
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